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Thoughts on why small talk is so uniquely painful (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

Image text: @agnieszkasshoes: “Part of what makes small talk so utterly debilitating for many of us who are neurodivergent is that having to smile and lie in answer to questions like, “how are you?” is exhausting to do even once, and society makes us do it countless times a day.”...

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Blue blood from a horseshoe crab yes. Blue crabs are also a thing and horseshoe crabs are always referred to with the word horseshoe in front. So calling them just crabs with the word blue in front is a poor choice if one cares about communication.

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Horseshoe crabs not blue crabs

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I don’t know why you want to fight about this

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Same

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Then they probably need some attention fr. Like Professional attention. Some need is not being met

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I’m sorry that happened to you

Do you have Justice Sensitivity? How does it manifest for you? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

As much a I loathe the phone, and have such terrible success rate at getting what I want via phone conversation to major corporations, when something is not right I will waste hours (on hold mostly) as they pass me around department to department hoping I’ll give up. Jokes on them because I won’t give up. But ultimately...

What accommodations have you provided yourself today?

I have meetings all day today starting right off the bat at 9am. The anticipatory stress of that made it difficult to wake up this morning and have me a bit of a migraine so I took my time this morning and made sure to eat a hearty but comforting breakfast and took my supplements and drank a half liter of water. I took a shower...

Just had a really scary client meeting, and it went well! Time to shut down for the rest of the day 😅

Took off my corporate smile, put on a comfortable shirt, laying on my bean bag, deep breathing. Giving myself permission to shut down after a heavy duty bout of masking has been the best part of learning about autism.

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Yes to stages!! If I try to do the thing immediately I will get lost in an inception of side quests. So I have tables in every room dedicated to “things that need to go in another place”. Then when I’m going there, maybe I’ll remember to grab one of them 😅

Yes to multiples of things in each room/my car!! Off the top of my head I can think of: phone chargers, cups of pens and scissors, fly swatter, fans, Chapstick, hair ties. If I have to move it, Ive lost it

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I’m sure that’s definitely part of it!

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Yeah like have some self-reflection jeez, go to therapy for your anxiety, I dunno, but don’t project your anxiety onto your employees in a disciplinary manner for God’s sake.

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I’m interested in batteries/energy storage science and want to know who’s the big players in R&D big picture stuff, so yeah cars included but that’s not like my specific interest.

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Thanks so much

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