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I can also be found on the microblog fediverse at @ada or on matrix at @ada:chat.blahaj.zone

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Well, there were a few people I should have listened to earlier about defederating a certain instance.

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Same, though it’s mod tools that I’m missing more than notifications

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Waffles > Pancakes > French Toast

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Look, I don’t agree, but I can understand how you might put French toast first, but in what world are Pancakes better than waffles???

Why are there points of no return?

The points at which the game transition between acts seem a bit arbitrary (mainly for Act I to Act II), and I don’t see a narrative or mechanical reason to lock us out of previous maps and quests. As far as I remember, previous Baldur’s Gate games didn’t have this kind of points of no return. Why do you think they did it?...

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When I’m running a game I absolutely tell my players things that I think their characters would be aware of, and that includes time pressures that a reasonable adventuring party would understand through professional experience

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One might say it just happened to me

No it didn’t

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You were meant to argue with me :P

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Well, it happened to me in the comments to this post :P

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Damn it, how can I argue with that?

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Because adopting is effectively inaccessible for most people. It’s traumatic, bureaucratic, stupidly expensive, takes years and years, and you can be dropped from the process at any moment if you don’t maintain the unrealistic demands the system makes of applicants.

If you’re not white, well off and happily married in a heterosexual relationship, you often fail the process before you can even begin it.

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I don’t imagine there are many. I’ve never seen one in the wild

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I’ve been out looking a couple of times in spots where I’ve heard they were to be found, but I’ve never had any luck.

Maybe one day

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Early on, when I wasn’t out to people, but wanted to start exploring presentation, I would buy button up blouses and pants etc that I could wear to work. Shaped for women, but read as androgynous with a slightly feminine lean by most folk.

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I’m in Australia, and initially, I just went in to a Kmart here (which as a I understand it, is not the same as Kmart in the US) and bought cheap things from the women’s section that looked androgynous.

but was afraid they were too obvious.

It depends what you mean by obvious. Some people will notice the person they assume to be a guy, who is wearing skinny jeans with small pockets but they won’t understand what they’re seeing, and generally, they won’t care.

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You don’t transition invisibly unfortunately. What you can do though is do it at your own pace, one step at a time, only taking the next step when you’re ready.

my fear is that someone will blatantly ask “are you wearing women’s pants?”

You head this off by doing what I said above. One step at a time until you’re ready for the next step :)

Wear something that you don’t think will trigger that reaction in people. And when you get comfortable with how people react and what they say, you can change what you do, and maybe take another step.

ExpertPlus, to fediverse
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Yo, what's up? I'm on kbin!

Kinda already like it a bit :-)

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Congrats?

The greatest villains are ones PCs create themselves (ttrpg.network)

Long story short: While part was shopping in a rich city, in which Orcs, Kobolds and Ogres are doing cheap labor, Artificer cast suggestion to make Warlock say out loud how much her new magic gloves cost. I had an orc worker passing by ake snide comment about rich adventurers. Warlock proceeded to intimidate and humilate that...

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It’s gettin’ in to all me nooks and crannies!

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Maybe only halflings and gnomes have flexible necks?

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