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There are various websites that catalog all the instances they can find, but I can’t remember the one I used back in the day an don’t know if they search communities too or just instances

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Finding out you’re trans later in life is like watching a movie littered with spoilers for the ending but you don’t realize it til you get to the end look back.

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I had a similar childhood knowing I was different somehow but I don’t think any adults around me would have even considered autism as a possibility when and where I grew up. I think even now they probably have the mindset of “no you’re not the stereotypical depiction of a high needs autistic person” 🙄

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They usually recommend if a basement is not available to get in a small room or closet on the bottom floor as close to the center of the building as possible… The more walls closer together make it a bit sturdier, but you know, if a big-ass tornado hits your house directly, who knows what chance there.

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Yeah, no problem. I thought about posting it in the general trans community.

I thought I was taking it slow! It has been a little less than a year since I realized. I think I’m in a similar place, it’s a big thing and I want to know that it’s what I really want. Also, once that closet door comes open, there’s no going back, which is really scary.

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That’s one of the things that’s been on my mind lately 😂 if I’m not terrified of even considering, I probably won’t hate it.

I think part of my deal is change is difficult and attention drawn to it is also uncomfortable and this is both.

Change is hard enough, but then people being like “oh! You changed something. Why?”

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This is true. I tend to get stuck in an all or nothing mindset til someone reminds me there are other options too 😅

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This is a perfect comment.

I can’t speak for others but I probably borderline obsessively have to get all the info possible because I fear making the “obvious” wrong decision.

I’m somewhat relieved but also saddened that there’s this many of these kind of posts. I have been feeling like it’s a similar feeling to when I realized I was trans, and when I finally was able to accept it.

I appreciate your blunt honesty. 💜 I needed it. I think that’s where I am. As far as I know to go, looking for confirmation before I jump.

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It’s interesting you phrase it that way!

The voice incide feels kind of excited about the idea(hopefully it’s not just the adhd getting bored) I mean, it’s obviously puberty 2,which I know isn’t really ever fun, but there is some excited almost looking forward to it feeling.

The other bullshit is definitely a thing hanging over my head, but I realized recently, I’m fairly certain transitioning or not, some of these issues are coming up with my family eventually anyway, but transitioning will definitely bring up a lot of things sooner, and I’m a strong conflict avoider.

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Thanks! DAMN that channel’s got a lot!

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“How is my iNveSTmeNt ProPerTy supposed to increase in value if we don’t enforce scarcity?”

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I thought that with this Pic, it sounded like something neon Joe : werewolf hunter would say

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