chelsealimboy

chelsealimboy, 6 months ago to random

Joined a hellotalk voice chat, talked about reverse colonialism, and came out with a new book recommendation (Gödel, Escher, Bach: An Eternal Golden Braid). great thanksgiving.

chelsealimboy, 8 months ago to random

You think you know someone and believe they’re very emotionally stable and capable of self regulating their emotions. But then you think about it a little more and realize they’re world building an entire fantasy delusion in their head… but so am I. No judgement, only a simple observation 🥲

Anya_Adora, 10 months ago to music

The Quantic Soul Orchestra - Pushin' On (Feat. Alice Russell)

https://youtu.be/wQkrAmjynnE

https://www.discogs.com/master/2135-The-Quantic-Soul-Orchestra-Pushin-On

#Music #Funk #Soul #TheQuanticSoulOrchestra

Anya_Adora, 10 months ago to random

I need some music now lol.

chelsealimboy, 10 months ago to random

Holy shit the neighbors’ dogs are always arguing with each other from the safety of their enclosed front patios. Relentless shouting matches everyday. I wonder what they’re saying 😂

chelsealimboy, 10 months ago to random

I will slowly influence all my friends and acquaintances to join cybersecurity. Like for gods sake we only have one life to live and it’s not going to be spent in a stuffy ugly office!!!

Zeb_Larson, 10 months ago to mastodon

Alright, we’re experiencing a #mastodon resurgence and I’ll be damned if I don’t ride the wave for as long as it lasts. Time for a #music game.

1 boost OR 1 like = 1 new album I enjoyed (last ~5 years).

atomicpoet, 10 months ago (edited 10 months ago) to fediversenews

101,525 people joined Mastodon in the past 24 hours.

To put that in context, 84,657 people joined Mastodon in the previous 6 days.

Twitter’s new “temporary” rate limit on reading tweets has caused a significant increase in Mastodon's popularity and user base.

Source: https://mastodon.social/@mastodonusercount/110645793505347332

@fediversenews

JRBuckley, 10 months ago to random

'Democrats hate God': Trump goes all in on culture wars in fiery 'Moms for Liberty' speech - Raw Story - Celebrating 19 Years of Independent Journalism https://www.rawstory.com/donald-trump-dems-hate-god/

chelsealimboy, 10 months ago to random

Why does challenging one’s own assumptions or deeply held beliefs give me such a weird and painful feeling?

0v1, 10 months ago to random

Dear internet. I have created a new blog. Sharing research, technical articles, bug discoveries, and more to contribute to human rights. With this hope this can create a betterment for human rights. Here is my first post: https://0x0v1.com/posts/hello-world/my-first-post/

chelsealimboy, 10 months ago to random

Just broke up with someone because I care about their future & well-being. Asshole move or nah?

chelsealimboy, 10 months ago to random

Has anyone used Barker to practice hacking? Thinking of buying a membership

cybersecdancer, 10 months ago to random

I wanna share some wisdom. I know I talk about this a lot, but I want to use my experiences to help others. If it means mentioning over and over again what happened - so be it!

It’s hard to feel like you have to sacrifice what you love to find love. In the end, is it right to give up what makes you happy to make someone else feel secure in themselves? its no one’s responsibility to fix other’s insecurities.

I was having a conversation with my dad about the guy who strung me along last year. He told me the reason why I wasn’t chosen is likely because the guy was insecure and didn’t like the fact that I was doing better in life than him.

He was 26 and I was 22. He wasn’t the happiest. He was very insecure. I remember him telling me how he felt the need to act more assertive at work because of the fact he looks younger due to his short stature. I will say he also lied on his dating profile about his height. He also didn’t like his current job at the time on and ended up getting a new one. I think the age difference may have played a role in his insecurities.

My dad said because I was happy with what I did, was (and still) going for a master’s, and had a side business, this probably made him feel envy. He was probably upset that someone younger than him was doing better than him in life. I never once bragged about what I did, I barely talked about it unless asked.

I see my dad’s point. The other girlfriends he’s had all hold jobs that pay significantly less than his and mine. Perhaps this is just some coincidence, or perhaps not. But it’s hard to ignore this fact given the insecurity he displays. They also are in jobs that don’t get a lot of recognition or associated with some type of high status. Not only that, they are also in female dominated jobs which makes me wonder if he was worried that I wouldve found someone else easy. This is no way takes away their value as people, as it shouldn’t. They too are valuable human beings contributing to society.

I’ve had many guys tell me I’m attractive. Insecure men will often think attractive women have a bunch of guys going after her, and may not bother to pursue her. Given I work in a male dominated area, this may have also made him even more insecure. But again, not my problem that is his to work through. One of the hard things when you’re considered attractive is that many guys will like you, but they won’t go after you because of their insecurity.

Yet, it sucks to realize this. It sucks to realize that some guy thought I was out to compete with him, when really all I wanted was a loving relationship with him. I was wrongly judged. I know deep down I would’ve been such a loving partner. He let his insecurity get to him, and used it against me. Insecure men hardly go after women who they perceive to be doing better than them. They go after women who in some way are “vulnerable” in their eyes and take advantage of that.

So moral of the story, one’s insecurity is not your job to fix. Any guy who thinks he is going to be easily dumped by a woman should be avoided because he will make you responsible for his insecurities. Your life does not revolve around a guy, but YOU!

bhawthorne, 10 months ago to random

Why is it 5 times as expensive to take a train across the USA than to fly on a jet.

chelsealimboy, 10 months ago to random

focusing on mental health is the shit. The world around me feels like it’s changing and I can’t hold on to any semblance of stability. but the confidence I somehow attained is like an impregnable fortress!! 😤😤😤

lowqualityfacts, 11 months ago to random

Amazing.
https://patreon.com/lowqualityfacts