cygnus_velum

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cygnus_velum,

Yeah, only recently have I been opposed to having children outside of the Alzheimer’s question. We could afford to have them, but it would truly be paycheck to paycheck which I wouldn’t be comfortable with. Plus there are plenty of humans already on this poor planet.

Also, my partner is very against having children. Which I understand, but it’s a different place to be in life when I always imagined having them. Now I’m trying to decide if I truly want to have them and the boat is sailing since I’m 36.

cygnus_velum, (edited )

Yes, my dad has been on medication that slows it, but it’s definitely taken a turn these past few months. We had to get the doctor to tell him to stop driving this month. It’s been really hard on him especially since he doesn’t know why and thinks it’s his fault and that it must be because he is simply too dumb enough to drive. It’s truly heartbreaking.

Also, that’s a good point that something entirely different could happen before Alzheimer’s.

I don’t have really any big fears in my life. I’m good with heights, I can run workshops and talk in front of hundreds of people. But I’ve always truly feared losing my mind since my psych 101 class in college. My plan is to go to a country that allows assisted suicide if I do end up getting it and can still make decisions in my right mind.

cygnus_velum, (edited )

Thank you for this. Yes, that’s part of question for me. Does always imagining having them mean I really want them?

I also think one of the things I fear about not having kids is the work it will take to really accept and love myself. I feel like kids can substitute that kind of work in a lot of people. Without them though I’m really faced with myself.

cygnus_velum,

Yeah moving into 36 years old and I’ve never felt like I need to rush into having kids because that’s just what you do. I know I would be a good dad, but if it’s not a burning desire should it be really something to take on? I feel like that should be an innate quality when making the decision to have kids.

cygnus_velum,

That means a lot. Thank you. ❤️

cygnus_velum,

It looks pop-up Spirit Store quality what the hell

cygnus_velum,

Yes too often and I find it can sometimes leave me emotionally on edge as if it really happened. Wish I could just turn it off.

Benefits of smoking cigarettes?

My girlfriend has threatened to break up with me several times now unless I cut down to a pack a week. I’m not addicted but it does help me get through my day. I keep trying to tell her that but she doesn’t believe me and keeps saying that it’s actually bad. I want to prove to my girlfriend that smoking cigarettes is...

cygnus_velum,

This is obvious trolling, but everyone here is so sincere.

Christie says Trump kept classified docs because ‘he wants to pretend he’s still president’ (thehill.com)

Republican presidential candidate and former New Jersey Gov. Chris Christie ® said Thursday that he believes former President Trump kept classified documents after leaving the White House because “he wants to pretend he’s still president.” “I think it was purely ego,” Christie told CNN’s Jake Tapper. “I think,...

cygnus_velum,

Chris Christie can go pound sand, but I really enjoy him saying how it is with Trump.

cygnus_velum,

How is this even feasible on Android or iPhones? Are they going to force everyone to download Team Viewer or something?

gentleman, to AskKbin

How do I block a magazine? My feed is over run with shitposts

cygnus_velum,

Tap the Kbin logo in the top left while viewing a magazine and scroll down. The block button is next to ‘Subscribe’.

developerjustin, to RedditMigration
@developerjustin@mastodon.social avatar

Believe the hype, y’all. @hariette and the team are building something special with @ArtemisApp. The alpha feels better than some finished products I’ve used recently. So much polish in every pixel of this thing. #artemis #threadiverse #RedditMigration #reddit

cygnus_velum,

Can’t wait! How should we expect to be notified if we’re invited to one of the beta rounds?

cygnus_velum,

Also just noticed that I can see this post from my Lemmy account, but not with the Kbin mobile site. 🤔

cygnus_velum,

Hm, it’s set to English, but I haven’t messed with the default setting. Is that what you mean?

cygnus_velum,

Ah, yeah this is t the first time I feel like I’ve seen this too. I think there’s still some federation issues with Kbin. You can also notice the interactions on this post is a lot less than others posted from Kbin accounts.

Either way, still stoked for the beta!

cygnus_velum,

Charging Lorincz with murder would require prosecutors to provide evidence of hatred, spite, ill will or evil intent toward the victim at the time of the killing.

The alleged shooter told detectives that she called the victim's children racist slurs in the months leading up to the slaying, admitting that she used "the n-word."

Fucking pathetic. She should spend the rest of her life behind bars.

melmc, to politics
melmc avatar

How we know Trump's internal polling looks vastly different than the publicly released polls we're getting:
https://twitter.com/dadbodpolitics/status/1673430970760871939

cygnus_velum,

Has Desantis seen a spike in approval recently?

cygnus_velum,

Wow, I completely forgot about this web app and remember using it a bunch. I feel like this could be a pretty simple app, no?

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