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purplepadma

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Hi, I’m Charlotte, I’m late 40s and I relocated from London to #Pembrokeshire in west #Wales five years ago. First year #psychology #PhD student at University of Surrey in the #MentalHealth sector. Interests include #QualitativeResearch, #books, #running, #fitness, #cats and capybaras. Bisexual, cis (pronouns: she/her)

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Oh I went to join my online movement and massage session and it’s been cancelled. I’d been looking forward to that all day. Bah

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Obviously my big stressor right now is not knowing whether to go back to my PhD and, if not, what to do with my life. We could manage with me not having an income for a couple of months, but not much longer, I have to do something. I’m trying not to fret about this, I have opened myself to opportunities, I’m sure it will all work itself out in time

purplepadma,
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@Fredatron Thank you Fred, let’s see what happens

purplepadma,
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@Beatlesandworms I’m trying not to stress!

purplepadma,
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@GayDeceiver I’m a big believer in breath work

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I’m reading a book called Unstressable. Looks like there’s going to be a fair bit of CBT-ish stuff in there about how we choose to respond to stress, but right now it’s got me thinking about the amount of stress I allow into my life. Without a doubt, Mastodon is a safer space than Twitter, and I am exposed to much less conflict and antagonism here… but I still think I could curate my Masto feed better, maybe mute some hashtags… there a fine balance between being informed about world events and becoming overwhelmed by them

purplepadma,
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@steamedcarrot I feel like it’s important to be informed about the world but I get so overwhelmed from the diet of wars, elections, transphobia, cruel government agencies, climate change, etc

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My anxiety is super high today. I guess it's the disorganization. Not sure how to get it under control.

purplepadma,
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@hauntedhideaway Sorry to hear this 💜

purplepadma, to Cats
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Miss Cinnamon is curled up in Tom’s recliner, snoring is a ladylike manner, while he is relegated to the ordinary armchair. He would never move her

purplepadma,
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@louisa_ Awww!

TheBreadmonkey, to random
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Every day on this planet there live people who carry out heroic deeds. Feats of derring do. Let it be known that I, today, am among their number. For I hath boiled somewhere between 12-15 kettles of water in a row and poured them into a bath. Like a modern day Saint George. Only not from the Middle East.

purplepadma,
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@TheBreadmonkey Boiler on the blink? Or is this some kind of TikTok challenge?

purplepadma,
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@TheBreadmonkey That will show them. Be sure to do one of those muddy cross countries

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24% of people are aware of having met a murderer despite not working in the criminal justice system. I guess I was just curious as to how common it is for people to know that they are talking to someone who has killed someone else because ime you would mostly never guess. One of the happiest people I have met in recent years killed his wife

purplepadma,
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@Pawpower Definitely better than murder

purplepadma,
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@pattykimura Yes, on life licence after his release from prison

purplepadma,
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@DamonHD That’s him!

purplepadma,
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@DamonHD Blimey

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Conversation with a friend yesterday

Him: I’ve never been to Indonesia
Me: I thought you’d been to Bali?
Him: Bali, yes, but not Indonesia
Me (confused): Bali is in Indonesia
Him: No it isn’t
Me (starting to doubt my own perceived reality): It definitely is

I had to pull out my phone, type “Where is Bali” and show him the result “Bali (/ˈbɑːli/; Balinese: ᬩᬮᬶ) is a province of Indonesia” for him to believe me.

Oh to have the confidence of a white boomer man etc etc

purplepadma,
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@nigelharpur If they don’t believe you, they’re never going to believe me as a younger woman

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Morning. I am sleeping so very badly at the moment. I probably got about six hours in total, but so broken, with long wakeful periods. Feeling jaded, where is the emoji for that?

I wasn’t online much yesterday, so I didn’t introduce a new addition to the household, who arrived in the post yesterday, courtesy of @sheepnik! I’ll post pics later.

Hope you’re feeling perkier than me, wherever you are and whatever you’re doing…

purplepadma,
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@kamikat Luckily I don’t have much to do today. How are you KK?

purplepadma,
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@kamikat great!

TheBreadmonkey, to random
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TIL it's considered passé to use the word 'banger' with regards to a song. Richard Osman has apparently banned it and as we all know he is in charge of the Engerlish language. However I use banger quite a lot. So now have to come up with a pithy word that hyperbolically highlights my enthusiasm for a piece of music. Can we bring back Nathan Barley? That song is well Mexico.

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@RolloTreadway @TheBreadmonkey Are we still allowed to say that a tune slaps?

purplepadma,
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@TheBreadmonkey @RolloTreadway I’m so common I say squashed fly

purplepadma, (edited ) to random
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Have you ever knowingly conversed in an informal manner with a murderer?

purplepadma,
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@Dennis That’s a talking point!

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