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quidcumque, to random
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You know what? FUCK neurotypical "empathy" that only works if they'd feel the same way, and is all "don't be upset, it's nothing" and "pull yourself together" otherwise.

#ActuallyAutistic

rticks, (edited )
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@quidcumque

Gonna call that WalMart Empathy

quidcumque, to random
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We've been talking about kids playing with toy weapons recently, right? How lots of parents don't like them and how to deal with that?

K1 is currently carving a piece of wood they want to use to build a crossbow 🫣

Zahlenzauberin,
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@quidcumque our very pacifist household owns a bucket full of wooden swords, shields and bows. As well as an army of Playmobil knights and pirates 🤷.

quidcumque, to random
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Long time, no reading notes from me. I did read, but it was test-reading a mutual's novel, so no notes here.

But now! I'm starting Alice Degan's "From All False Doctrine", recommended by @irina.

Ancient manuscripts, cults, and academia in the 1920s.

#FromAllFalseDoctrine #Books2024

quidcumque,
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Starts with a promisingly astute observation: “It would be so tedious for you, wouldn’t it, to have your research interrupted every so often by cultists wanting to worship the thing you were studying? In my department, now, we don’t have such problems.” “Good heavens, Harriet—you study money! All sorts of people worship that.”

(In STEM, we get crackpots, but our cultists are usually violently denying our findings instead of worshipping them.)

#FromAllFalseDoctrine #Books2024

quidcumque, to random
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You know what - if there was a community in my city, I'd probably just give up and become an Old Catholic*. FFS.

(Yeah, I'm subtooting the Catholic church here.)

*https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Old_Catholic_Church

Zahlenzauberin,
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@quidcumque as a Lutheran who grew up in a catholic city, watching from the sidelines I sometimes ask myself, why there are so few doing this.

quidcumque, to random
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Because I wrote it to someone today: I think "have a good time, and may there be a quiet place if you get overwhelmed" is nice autistic well-wishing.

Let's make it a thing!

"May you find everything at Ikea, and may headphones and sunglasses suffice"

"Good luck for your exam, may there be no fluorescent lighting"

Sci_Fi_FanGirl,
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@quidcumque I love it!

"May you get through the day without unnecessary small talk."

"May your nest be cosy and your supply of feel-good food abundant."

*edited for typo

quidcumque, to random
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I did not think this* boost would be prophetic 😬

*https://mas.to/@alesssia/112158067611546918

(K1, 2 pm: completely normal
K1, 4 pm: tired, 38.4 °C
K1: 5 pm: sleeps, wimpers, 39.1 °C
K1, 7 pm: a bit tired, 37. 3°C)

quidcumque, to random
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Friend has a new position in academia.

Friend: the bad news is it's still not a permanent position according to the online system

Me: 🧐

Friend: but the good news is, the end date in it is December 31st, 9999

quidcumque, to random
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finishes chapter well, that escalated quickly

finished next chapter well wasn't THAT a whole 'nother level of escalation

quidcumque, to random
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Playground. Two people are trying (somewhat frantically) to get their babies in strollers to sleep.

K2 (helpfully): we also have a baby. They get put in the carrying wrap and then they sleep.

Zahlenzauberin,
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@quidcumque Well, my smaller child would say your child definitely has a point. But her hate of the stroller was so big, we put the stroller in the attic when she was about three months.

quidcumque, to random
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Still not in the mood for "Exordia" and heavy ethics, so I'll read Pleiti and Mossa's new adventures next, as @older's sequel to "The Mimicking of Known Successes" is just out!

Welp, these long titles don't make good hashtags, do they.

quidcumque,
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What an epigraph: "There are other ways to live."

Yes. There are. And we all need to hear that and think about what it might mean.

(Also very apt for Lent, if you're so inclined)

quidcumque, to random
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Partner, apropos of nothing: "a Dutch James Bond parody would be so great. Chases by bike and through tulip fields, jumping off a movable bridge, fighting on a big RV's roof while driving 120 kilometers per hour,..."

😝

tanepiper,
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@quidcumque @schmidt_fu Only between the hours of 7pm-6am, otherwise it's 100km/h

quidcumque, to random
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Oh no, now this* really interesting article about Tolkien's reception by the far-right is making me feel bad about liking Sam Gamgee 😬

*https://literaturkritik.de/fascist-hobbits,30256.html

oblomov,
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@quidcumque I refuse to give in to the far-right misappropriation of Tolkien

quidcumque, to random
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Me: writes grocery shopping list you can tell me if you want me to cook something specific, then I'll add the ingredients

Partner: I'm more like "get inspired by the selection in the shop" and look while I walk around

Me: that's why I write the list and you go shopping, isn't it

quidcumque, to random
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The amount of co-regulation I currently have to do for my kids saps my energy for sure.

(It's just a phase. Onward.)

quidcumque, to random
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Still life

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