That's a male turkey.
Also there are plenty of women out there who enjoy being pieces of meat, ready to be slapped at will (in the right context) so please don't enforce your own preferences and prejudices onto others who just want to have fun.
It's like shouting into the void expecting an echo. If you can't change the world for the better at least leave a mark. At least that was how I felt trashing a park bench when I was 13. It's probably the same trail of thought.
This is probably the greatest lesson young men could learn about relationships. Most of the times you don't have to offer solutions but offer emotional support and look cute.