When was your first kiss {french kiss}? Age/sex/location/story
I was 14, it was with a boy, Melrose Park ... It was our first date, we grabbed some Chinese and drove down to the water ... A boat ramp ... We sat next to each other on the bonnet, I think it was a Ford, built like a tank ... Jesse took all the rubbish to the bin ... I was still sitting on the bonnet, he stood in front of me, he had his hands on my thighs ... And we chatted like this for a while ... He said let's go and pulled me off the bonnet ... My eyes were glued to his ... Just as I was on the ground ... We kissed ... And I melted, my legs nearly failed me ... Giggles ... Or was like fireworks
@melissabeartrix I’ve been kissed by those who know how. Too many of them men, however. 🤣 I was so frightened to come out as a younger person, and even frightened to be queer. I had women come onto me but I was so shy. A good mate I used to sing with just wasn’t having it one night though and I’m so glad she brought me outta my shell. She was the last woman I made out with - that was in like 😱 2009! Aww. Might kiss a woman again one day but not without inviting my poor even-shyer husband.
@melissabeartrix second class, that’s so long ago my memory is hazy but a girl and I had decided we were girlfriend and boyfriend and when the teacher was writing on the chalkboard we kissed. I doubt it was a French kiss we were 7 or 8, I don’t really remember the kiss but I do remember the other kids all may a “wooo” sound when we kissed and the teacher turned around and said “What’s so woo-ey?”
I don’t remember if we got in trouble or anything but apparently my romantic side was a hit amongst the second grade girls because some time later whilst my male friends were off playing football at lunch time I was hanging out with a bunch of girls who all wanted me to kiss them. I was such a cad.
And that’s where I peaked, 2nd class, there were very few kisses until my wife and I started going out 20 years later.
They were very strange ... And scary for a trans girl that wanted to blossom ... With the amount of homophobia and transphobia with the aid crisis happening ... Guys at school were very homophobic, and me being me was always dangerous ... Hugz ... I have many happy memories too ... Hugz
@melissabeartrix I can only imagine and likely I would have contributed to that homophobia and transphobia back then to my shame.
In year 12 we made a yearbook where everyone filled out a profile, one of the questions was “What do you want to be?” Some filled it out seriously others made a joke of it. One of the “boys” answered I want to be a woman. Back then I thought it was a joke but now I just hope she’s living her best life, like you
@melissabeartrix I was seven. I had mentioned liking someone on TV, and my parents freaked out because they were a boy, and so I was I. So at 7, they sent me to gay camp.
Where most of us were learning we were different for the first time, and so... Yeah I had my first french kiss. And may have also lost my virginity. About five minutes after that first kiss. Not a great experience, I was too young for all that.
@melissabeartrix His name was Caleb. No one had mobiles yet at that point, so we exchanged house numbers... He gave me one for a local mechanic, not his actual number.
@melissabeartrix Seriously bad place. One that tries to teach you that everyone is actually straight, and you just need to change your behaviour. Gay Camp is an attempt to wipe us all out through mild torture.
@melissabeartrix Thankfully, they're outlawed now. And I will absolutely fight to keep it that way. And I am so very, very happy you didn't know what it was. Means they didn't hurt you, which is fantastic.
@melissabeartrix I was 14. It was two boys, twins. They walked me home after a party that I shouldn't have been at. They were a few years older and I was.probably very lucky it didn't turn out different. I was just left confused.
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I was eight. Suzanne Chandler, who I knew well from the swim team, was over to hang out with my sister. They asked me to get my 🏈. I went to my room to get it and Suzanne was closing the door behind me, walked up to me and kissed me. It was so magical. I dropped the football.
@melissabeartrix I was 18, a few months escaped from drunks and cults, and living in a dodgy caravan park that no longer exists. Dave was twice my age, and we had a good night with many firsts.
As an aside, there was point in my life where everyone I had had sex with was named Dave... it seemed to be a thing for several years, actually until just before I got into sex work.
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