@kcarruthers Might be worth asking how we've built a society where many men would also choose the bear, why that question isn't asked and why it's still acceptable to shame men who do choose the bear.
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I agree 100% but it reminds me of when black people talk about racism and white people want to have the discussion about definitions of racism rather than the racism itself. if you don’t acknowledge the problem, you don’t have to fix it
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