@volkris Well, yeah. That’s what I’m saying. I don’t think the demands to make things opt-in make much sense because the fediverse works by allowing your posts to be fetched by any other server.
it’s not so simple
I think that is simple, but regardless, my question was simple. If you think opt-in should be the default and ppl should be able to determine where and how their posts are distributed, then isn’t rss-parrot (and the similar projects that have existed for years) just as bad as the bridgy-fed?