@emmaaum i don’t know the full picture of your experience, so i can’t say what you should or shouldn’t have done. FWIW, I prefer you genuinely engaging, and us working things out in moments like these.
Thank you for explaining where you are coming from. I see now how it was dismissive, and I’m sorry.
I didn’t have a full sense of what you meant, and i was nervous about pulling the thread bc I’ve made you feel alienated before. Instead i alienated you with a truism. That’s on me. Sorry.