No one said that you have to fix anything. No one wants you to fix anything. No one is obligated to have anything to do with you. That's the whole point. No one owes you an explanation. No one owes you empathy. If you feel you have fingers pointed at you, that's because you put yourself in front of those fingers. If someone says that they'd rather be alone with a bear than a random man, and you get offended by that, it's because you decided to be a random man. Not a man that they know, not someone that they trust. You decided to put yourself in the role of the antagonist that they want nothing to do with. And then you decided to be offended by that. No one else did this. They weren't talking about you specifically, but you act like they did anyways.
Stop trying to fix things and just let woman express their feelings. You might actually learn something.