This is interesting. I have always embraced a direct approach ... much to the chagrin of many.
Interestingly, in my experience men are the ones who are incredibly indirect (up until the point that they get angry, then the direct approach comes out). Bosses, co-workers, friends, family members. I've only known a couple of men who were direct.
Maybe it's a human problem more than a gender problem?
RickiTarr