@jonny I agree. Would you agree to the following: every person percieves himself as stable, but nobody really is stable (according to Seth): changing in time, in different situations etc. In queer people there is a more obvious discrepancy (or more at the surface?): between embodied self (experiences that relate directly to the body) and perspectival self (= subjective perception).
"This perspectival self is nowhere better illustrated than in the Austrian physicist Ernst Mach’s self-portrait, also known as ‘View from the Left Eye’."
Seth, Anil. Being You: A New Science of Consciousness (The Sunday Times Bestseller) (p. 179). Faber & Faber. Kindle-editie.