Please stop being so hard on yourself. Selfies can make you look better or worse - that’s just how camera angles, camera settings, and environmental lighting are. Literally everyone has conditions that make them look worse in a camera. Realistically, the graduation photo is absolutely not how most people see you - every ID of mine taken in similar conditions looks like total shit to me. And before you say mirrors make you look awful too, that’s also a known phenonemon - I can personally attest to the hell that mirrors give me most days. You need to understand that the world around you does not see you as horribly as you see yourself. I’m not going to argue with you whether you should stay on HRT - that’s a dexision on feelings I can’t know - but I do know that at the very least, if you want to feel better when looking at your own pictures, it has to start with you conditioning yourself to hate yourself less. When you feel like calling yourself ugly, criticize that thought. Pick apart your own biases, and find a way of not just looking better, but looking at yourself better. It will be immensely difficult, but it will be oh-so worth it. Otherwise, no matter how close you get to your goals, you will never look aesthetically pleasinng to yourself while your self-loathing still blinds you.
And please, get therapy. You look relatively young, and so if you are (usually like under the age of 21 is good enough for this depending on where you live), you might be able to get therapy for reduced or no cost. Assuming that’s a high school and not college graduation photo and that you are either going to or will be going to college, you can also usually seek therapy through the college (again, typically for a greatly reduced cost), though that tends to be a bit more varied in how well-versed they are in issues like this in particular. Furthermore, chances are, there may be a queer community center anywhere from half an hour to two hours away from you - if they’re in the same state as you (assuming you’re in the United States), it should be fine, as they also happen to have online therapy, and community centers tend to have more cost-accessible therapy. Online therapy is typically better than no therapy, so please do not discount that as an option if it would be more accessible in some way to you.
That’s not the issue. She is a public figure and has shared her own photos. The issue is that Channel 7 falsely implied she regrets her transition. Channel 7 is trying to use a happily transitioned trans person as an example of someone harmed by childhood transition, and that’s slimy as hell
I mean the whole regret* narrative is anti-trans which is slimy all by itself without slimy lies and stealing pics and shit. Fuck all these trans haters.
She’s upset about how they implied she regretted transitioning and being used for that. Instead, she’s explicitly called for support for kid’s chosen gender being respected.
Channel 7 journalist Liam Bartlett says in the promo that “children are being told they should change from boy to girl, or girl to boy, from as young as 12-years-old”.
Oh look, bullshit trans hate.
We should live in a world where if a child has gender dysphoria it is OK and they can express themselves however they want and be whoever they are.
… instead of having hateful gasbags like this pour hate on them for being different.
None of this asshole’s pearl clutching has anything to do with protecting children, it’s about rejecting and destroying people who aren’t like them. Whether LGBTQ+ or black or brown or neurodivergent or whatever else.
I think it matters when people who aren’t hateful assholes take a stand and accept others visibly, vocally. I guess it will take a while to change and unfortunately hateful bigots are a fact of humanity but hopefully our efforts make sure there are fewer of them.
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As it turned out, people in Utah County, a place that often boasts of being the most conservative area in the nation, were disproportionately large consumers of the very videos that prosecutors had labeled obscene and illegal. And far more Utah County residents were getting their adult movies from the sky or cable than they were from the stores owned by Larry Peterman.
This is interesting because my partner currently works for a company that offers transgender care as one of their services and have recently received feedback that patients would like to see "visibly trans" people on the staff. There are transgender people working for the company, but I suppose they're not "visibly trans" enough. Could you possibly elaborate on what you mean? It would be very helpful, thanks!
It’s not that I expect any trans staff there to out themselves on my behalf or anything, it’s just VERY OBVIOUS none of them are trans. There are things you just don’t have to explain to a fellow trans person, you know? The staff at my doctor’s office need like toddler level handholding when I’m trying to explain the most basic shit. Even an extraordinarily well-informed cis person just does not have the life experience necessary to fully grasp what it’s like, and that is reflected in the quality of service.
TLDR, I don’t need individual confirmation of the cis status of each staff member, because an office with any trans staff (at least any who’s opinion is taken into consideration) would not behave like this
Probably not something you can affect, but my biggest issue with trans care is just access to it through insurance. Free clinics and out of pocket payments make it doable, but around me, the offices specializing in trans care don’t cover insurances except the few largest.
Have trans people working there and listen to patients. I had to demand my doctor raise me to 6mg from 4mg HRT, on 4MG I had male stuff that would go away and return (assuming my levels would dip and male stuff would return) on 6MG I am much more stable but I wish my doctor would of listened and stopped telling me my labs were fine.
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