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ScriptFanix

@ScriptFanix@maly.io

Musician
Random #HAProxy tips.
Support engineer.
SysAdmin.
Nerd.
Music Addict, éclectique mais exigeant.
Fan de SF et Manga.

Life goal achieved: Working for a Free Software company

#actuallyAutistic (diagnosed)

J'ai abandonné l'idée de suivre mes demandes d'abonnement, dites moi pourquoi vous voulez me suivre en DM

Je parle aussi de sujets importants, comme le #fromage par exemple

TRÈS N'AMOUREUX d'une métalleuse

"Tu as beaucoup de chance" — @LaKorin
"Irrécupérable" — @devnull

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Demain c'est l'anniversaire de la reine des elfes, mais chut ! ne dites rien !

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ScriptFanix,
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@JimsPhotos Those birds are fascinating. You see one, then it goes underwater, then you see it on the opposite side of the lake with a fish in its beak

Kahte, to random French
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ScriptFanix,
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@Kahte
Arg, @MarSolRivas m'a doublé

daph, to random French
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De passage sur un autre réseau j’ai récolté un merveilleux brouteur. On est proche d’un 😅

ScriptFanix,
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@daph Wow, tu es la deuwième femme que Dieu a créé après Ève ! Hé bé !

ScriptFanix,
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@daph J'avoue là, oui !

ScriptFanix, to random French
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Vous vous souvenez quand on donnait pas le micro au front national sur tous les sujets ? Haaaa c'était le bon temps
https://youtu.be/FpH0gre8AQw?si=3AsBxyAc-pTo4pK5

ScriptFanix, to random French
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Gally s'est griffée à l'intérieur de l'oreille... Se gratter avec les pattes arrières c'est risqué

ScriptFanix,
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@MarSolRivas Enlève ton piment tu parleras mieux
@Kahte

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Quand j'ouvre l'onglet replay de ma bbox, le premier truc qui m'est proposé c'est cette grosse pain de merde infâme de
Je suppose que c'est un algorithme sur les plus regardés et je trouve ça absolument flippant

ButterflyOfFire, to random French
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Le paradoxe de la Nouvelle Calédonie - Racisme inversé ?

Via Histoires crépues :
https://invidious.fdn.fr/watch?v=brBWXE0LBm0

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@ButterflyOfFire
En cours de regardage mais ça a l'air très intéressant

ScriptFanix,
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@ButterflyOfFire
T'es algérien toi si je ne me trompes pas (désolé si je le trompes, je sais que les tensions régionales sont fortes)

ScriptFanix,
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@ButterflyOfFire
C'est pour ça que moi je vote pour Mélenchon, qui est pour que la France soit non alignée

Si je posais la question c'est par rapport au passé colonial de l'Algérie avec la France

ScriptFanix,
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@ButterflyOfFire
Je suis d'accord. Mais Mélenchon dit en campagne qu'il veut taper sur la table en disant qu'on est un gros moteur de l'Europe, et que si on se barre ça sera la merde. Je pense que le chantage marcherait

LaKorin, to random French
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Et en dessert 🥁

ScriptFanix,
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@sanlaville11 @LaKorin Pereso je préfère juste les framboises seules ou alors saupoudrées de sucre si elles sont un peu acides

bortzmeyer, to llm French
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À première vue, que du vide ronflant et des clichés enfilés à la queue-leu-leu. Mais il y a peut-être du sérieux derrière. Quelqu'un a un avis ? https://www.sorbonne-universite.fr/presse/lancement-des-communs-democratiques-une-initiative-de-recherche-francaise-prend-le-lead

ScriptFanix,
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@aeris @bortzmeyer "prend le lead" aussi

ScriptFanix,
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@aeris
On n'est pas dans Matrix !
@bortzmeyer @shaft

chevalier26, to actuallyautistic
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What are your thoughts on self-diagnosis being belittled by many in the autistic community?

For clarity, I’m not asking to start a debate, just a genuine discussion. I currently don’t have the option to get a diagnosis, but feel fairly confident that the research I’ve done over the past year and a half has been legitimate and credible.

I don’t feel comfortable saying that I am definitively autistic, but I am ok with saying I’m “self-suspecting.” @actuallyautistic

ScriptFanix,
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@chevalier26
I have been self diagnosed for like 4 years before I got a "proper" diagnosis. So no problem with me.
A "proper" diagnosis, to me, is only useful to get help from society, not from peers.
@actuallyautistic

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@chevalier26
To make myself clear, us, peers, should not discriminate self diagnosed people from people who had a "proper" diagnosis
@actuallyautistic

ScriptFanix,
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@chevalier26
Also, diagnosis can take a while. 2 years for me. What do we do in the meantime?
@actuallyautistic

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@clarkiestar
2 years here but yeah, it's quite long... Can't imagine how 4 years waiting for a diagnosis feels like !
@chevalier26 @actuallyautistic

dave, to actuallyautistic
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@actuallyautistic

I have to admit: I was worried about my trip to Italy. My wife was as well.

It's the first time we've travelled away from home in years - since before COVID - and also the first time since I discovered that I'm Autistic.

I was worried about what unmasking has done to my ability to cope with change, disruption to routine and the chaos and unpredictability of travel.

I used everything that I've learned about being Autistic in the last 10 months, and I actually overestimated how stressful and taxing it would be. By doing so, I planned for a lot of downtime. Taking time off work - and not trying to balance work with travel - has also helped tremendously. It has let me focus on travel and rest.

My wife has a chronic illness, which means she needs just as much - if not more - downtime than I do, which helps avoid conflict between our energy levels and motivation. The pace of our travels seems to work well for both of us.

We planned for two full days in Venice. We spent all day yesterday walking and exploring, and today we're mostly staying in our hotel and recharging. We've both become better tuned to our needs, and we both need this downtime before we move on to the last leg of our trip in Rome.

I do expect this coming week to be a bit more challenging, as I'm returning to work while we're still in Italy. But the last couple of weeks has given me more confidence in my ability to recognize, plan and advocate for my needs, and I'm confident that will carry over into this week as well.

ScriptFanix,
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@kliplet
From what I've heard of Japan, I feel it must be autistic hell
@dave @Susan60 @actuallyautistic

ScriptFanix, to random French
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J'aime beaucoup l'acteur David Tennant, mais qui a pour nom de famille "Locataire" ?

TritTriton, to random French
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Purée, ce que j’en peux tellement plus des gens qui inversent SYSTÉMATIQUEMENT l’usage des mots “près” et “prêt”…

ScriptFanix,
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@TritTriton
Je suis près à te prendre dans mes bras si tu es près à l'accepter

ScriptFanix, to random French
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Au kebab, en attente de mon sauce algérienne

stux, to random
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Server has been upgraded to the largest possible for now (960GB disk) and Postgres seems to be running normal again.. finally!

Still gotta do some fixes on indexes in the database but at least all is running smooth again :blobhappy:

Within some time I shall look into a more affordable dedicated server with more wiggle room and hopefully a smaller price tag 💸

I am so sorry for all the trouble from the past days :sad_cat: ❤️ Thank you for all the support and patience once more!

ScriptFanix,
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@stux
Have you considered hetzner?

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