bumpus,
@bumpus@mas.to avatar

My transition is going amazingly well in so many ways but one: my voice. I’ve struggled with it for a long time.

Today I realized it’s not because it’s hard (though it is) Rather, I struggle because I won’t let myself do well.

My voice keeps me from being correctly gendered in public. And I think deep down I don’t feel I deserve to be. I’m not worthy of it.

So I don’t let myself have it.

Damn.

JoscelynTransient,
@JoscelynTransient@chaosfem.tw avatar

@bumpus gurl, this is so heartbreaking and i wish i could hug you until you could let yourself have it. 🫂🫂🫂🫂

Voice is so challenging. Some of us adapt well and connect with the vocal skills, some find it a heck of a lot harder, but ypu still deserve to be gendered correctly and feel euphoric. And i guarentee you that at least among us transfems, we'll still hear the fem in your voice and see you, no matter what. :BlobhajTransPrideHeart:

zombierustpunk,
@zombierustpunk@hachyderm.io avatar

@bumpus 🫂

yeah, i have a much harder time making myself use my voice than i do actually doing the voice. i don’t even understand why.

but you do deserve it, and i hope you let yourself have it.

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