@3TomatoesShort@disabled.social
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3TomatoesShort

@3TomatoesShort@disabled.social

Chronically ill with #POTS (Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome), living on unceded Whadjuk Noongar land - Boorloo/Perth, Western Australia. Quietly obsessed with the musical Tanz der Vampire. Occasional cross stitcher.
* Transphobic 'feminism' is garbage *
Economies are supposed to serve people, people are not supposed to serve economies 😤

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3TomatoesShort, to random
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Aussie chaps: anyone have a recommendation for a SAD lamp from a local online store?
I'm pretty happy with the one I have from Happy Lamps, but I need another one, and the lack of battery power is a bit limiting - although good in other ways. So just checking out other options.

RickiTarr, to random
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How much alone time vs socializing do you need?

For me there are a few people who are usually equalizing, and I can just be around them, so I won't count that. But generally, I find about 3 times a week, I'm game for socializing. A day in between to rest is usually nice, but the larger the gathering or if we go somewhere particularly noisy or I'm meeting new people that involves more effort, and my social battery empties sooner. I'm very curious where everyone else falls on this!

3TomatoesShort,
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@RickiTarr
All of my socialising requirement is well and truly met just by being around my family and chatting with online pals.

3TomatoesShort, to random
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Also tremendously impatient for this evening's grocery order - I did the order while hungry & just after watching a show which happened to feature some delicious looking paninis, so I ordered a bunch of pumpkin panini rolls 😁

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I’ve been reading about “stimming in autism”, which up until now was very confusing to me mostly because that’s the one point kept being repeated in the community being a must for an autistic individual. And I can’t relate to that at all.

Then I came across something that describes the purpose of ‘stimming’ is to deal with extra energy. Then it kinda hit me, I’ve never had the need to stim because I’m a low energy person in general.

I get overwhelmed with activities when they involve raising heart rates (yes, THAT too). I like quiet things, dead of night etc. Once at a time in my life, I was pretty sure I could hear flow of electricity.

So my question to the #ActuallyAutistic community: do you think stimming is a must for autistic people? Do you relate to it? Anyone know of any low energy stimming that gets overlooked?

Thanks! Much love!! 💕 #Autism #Neurodivergent #stimming @actuallyautistic

3TomatoesShort,
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@farah
I don't think I really stim unless I'm really distressed or in pain, which I think is also reasonably common for allistic people in any case?
I don't know whether lack of energy is a factor in that, my chronic illness means I feel best when I'm staying as still as possible, any kind of movement/exertion is first evaluated to see if the benefit is worth the energy outlay, so I don't really do subconscious movements much I think.
@actuallyautistic

3TomatoesShort, to random
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I've never really gotten the whole "omg clean sheets" thing - probably mostly because changing the sheets is like running a goddamn marathon with POTS so not a rewarding experience - but I just half-killed myself putting a brand new sheet on the bed which was WELL overdue, and.. I kinda get it just at the moment. It's so pretty and clean 😅

3TomatoesShort, to random
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It's very frustrating not being able to spend this whole power cut doing housework 🫤
I'm finding it much harder to decide how to pace, because my usual routine of chores and rest (which is lying down watching tv) is out the window. Doing cross stitch is kind of rest but also not really.

3TomatoesShort, to random
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If I wanted to get a little camera specifically so I could take better photos of my garden birds - so optical zoom being a big requirement I guess - does anyone have knowledgeable thoughts on whether this would be a decent choice?
I don't think I want the learning curve or the cost of a DSLR 🤷🏼‍♀️
https://www.camerahouse.com.au/kodak-fz55-friendly-zoom-blue

3TomatoesShort, to random
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It is goddamn hilarious to me seeing people say they feel wary of people in masks/respirators in case they have covid and went out anyway.
Buddy.
Stop and think about how the people in the masks feel about you and all the other maskless people spreading covid all around them 🙃

3TomatoesShort, to auscovid19
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The Australian Human Rights Commission is examining the human rights impacts of Australia’s response to the COVID-19 pandemic. This is a chance for you to tell your story about what happened to you.

https://humanrights.gov.au/our-work/rights-and-freedoms/yourstoryportal

@DenisCOVIDinfoguy @auscovid19

3TomatoesShort, to random
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Yay! I finally got around to checking my cross stitch against the pattern to find my mistake.. and there wasn't one! I just got confused because I kept running out of thread and stopping in weird places, so where I thought I had finished a colour block I actually hadn't 🙃

3TomatoesShort, to random
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It's frankly painful the way that we can all be marveling at the natural world simultaneously, and yet somehow we've built a society which seems destined to destroy it, and we've given up or lost the power to stop it happening?

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