Maybe you can reword your title/description cuz I do get what you're saying. Many people are like "the fediverse sites/apps are so hard to use", but I think some of the features are just really new so it's like awkwardly placed just so they can at least get the feature out. Once I knew how to properly search for magazines on kbin (I think the regular search bar doesn't search magazines well, you have to hit Magazine tab and then do that search bar), create a thread, set my notification settings (the default is like no notifications, and no showing of NSFW), find what magazines I subscribed to, I started to have lots of fun, and I could see they are building these sites well.