The kinks really need to be worked out and it all needs to be made far more noob friendly. When I opened this thread, I was super confused. I'm currently reading it on kbin.social with my kbin account. And it looks like this:
I read the title, next to it: kbin.social. But obviously this thread isn't on kbin. It's on lemmy. Still showed up in my feed, even though I'm not subscribed to m/asklemmy. You're now saying beehaw is unfederated, but I've also subscribed to stuff on beehaw from kbin.
I assume it's largely because it's still early days, but oh boy. I'm relatively pc literate. I grew up using dos, have installed linux, and have no problem using the commandline in windows or osx. I've seen people far more pc literate than me getting confused by it all.
I can only imagine how confusing this must be for casual users.