And that 16 year olds don’t want to date them. If they were having plenty of success they wouldn’t be moaning about the “competition”. They seem to be asking for parents to push their kids to date older men as it’s a better choice (which it isn’t).
You know even with that bullshit choice being posited, choice B all day.
I wouldn’t shame my daughter, a college grad who apparently practiced impeccable safe sex if 50 dudes in 4 years leaves her with only emotional baggage.
“I’m such a terrible parent that I know my daughter will make terrible decisions when she gains her independence because I spent eighteen years fucking her up beyond belief.”
“I’m a 33 year old (virgin?) who has no idea what it’s like to be a woman, seeking a girl young enough to not realize that my ‘relationship maturity’ is that of a 16 year old and I’ll certainly give her plenty of emotional baggage. Also, if I ever become a father I’m going to make my daughter wear a purity ring. And no college.”
If my hypothetical daughter wanted to fuck 50 dudes in 4 years, I’d be damn proud. And hope that I provided ample knowledge about the risk of sex, the tools to mitigate those risks, and the empowerment to enjoy herself free of guilt from everyone else’s bullshit opinions.
I don’t think it’s empowering for either gender. It’s sex gluttony, it’s not automatically a good thing just because we’ve decided sex should no longer be a source of shame.
How many partners per year does it take to go from “normal” to “sex glutton”? It’s is even partner specific? What about having sex with only one person, but doing it 4 times in a typical day? Is that enough sex to be “sex gluttony”?
Honestly, it sounds like a bullshit term made up to shame other people for an unspecified rate of sexual encounters that you can’t personally achieve.
When pedophiles try and use logic, it’s ALWAYS going to be a bad faith comparison that illustrates themselves as the virtuous knight in shining armor to women with zero agency.
Or how about be a parent and model for your child how to make good, healthy decisions with their power of reason (however that looks for your family) and trust them to figure it out.
If a teenager wants to date a 33 year old, that is obviously bad parenting. At that age she should be married for at least 7 years to someone to someone with real life experience, like a great uncle. /s
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