codebam,

no lurking? okay hi

SpiderShoeCult,

hail from another lurker

EnglishExile,

awkward wave

snailwizard,
snailwizard avatar

I’m a lurker by nature but I’ve been making an effort to interact more (both online and offline lol.) I hope we can develop some interesting, accepting, and not circlejerky communities here :)

Rakust,

yep, by the end i hadn't posted on reddit for several months. i just saw no reason to give my own effort to reddit to make money off of.

thepiguy,

I'm commenting to boost engagement!

XLRV,
@XLRV@lemmy.ml avatar

Same, I will not lurk this time, and hopefully later too. 🙌

cstaaben,

"I'm doing my part!"

Skotic,

"Service guarantees citizenship!"

HerrBert,

It's honest work!

dxcz,

Is this a TechnologyConnections reference? haha

thepiguy,

lol, yes

KrimsonBun,
@KrimsonBun@lemmy.ml avatar

bro same!

Brunbrun6766,
@Brunbrun6766@lemmy.world avatar

I'm doing my part!

mrarcher_,

I'm still going to lurk

alehc,

Same

googlycoffeemea,

Yeah I prefer this style of interaction far more than the Mastodon style. I just never could get into the twitter style of social media.

Packopus,

Same. I like a forum-like style. I still think Twitter is a "shout to the void" and same to Mastodon. I like the... slower? Yeah slower, more thought out, and more interactive of this style. Like everything kinda has a purpose to exist.

Hagarashi8,

Yeah, i think reddit model is perfect balance between recommended content and what you are subscribed to. Glad things like this now in fediverse too.

ritchie,

And it was accompanied with their character limit. It is not enough to elaborate on anything, its only use is to shout out anything that you got mad about without thinking.

SaltyIceteaMaker,

Twitter/Mastodon: shout to the void, maybe it shouts back

Reddit/Lemmy: shout into a room full of people that share the same interest

NullRiver,

Agreed. I feel like federation is a lot easier to wrap your head around in this style too

ch1cken,

same

naoseiquemsou,

I don't understand why people want to follow people. I want to follow topics of interest. It makes all the difference.

Icarus,

same, I tried using twitter and mastodon several times but could never stand them

SaltyIceteaMaker,

Well twitter is unbearably toxic anyway

Voyajer,
Voyajer avatar

It's easier not to lurk when the odds of getting a strangely hostile reply over nothing important goes down

phox,

Agreed. I always felt like I had to add five different disclaimers to my comments to avoid bad faith arguments and angry responses. Wasn’t a fun experience at all and often lead to me just deleting comments.

SaltyIceteaMaker,

It was so bad on reddit that i was surprised if i got a friendly/helpful reply

ANapSoundsNice,
@ANapSoundsNice@beehaw.org avatar

I may have been a little... overzealous when I wrote my beehaw application but I echo this point when I submitted

My last comment on reddit was 6 years ago. I was afraid of what it and the internet at large was becoming. Afraid to be a human online because the trolls and the dox and the swats. The mission statements in the side bar, the long and insightful posts that hope to bridge new people to the culture of beehaw that speak of being nice and compassionate, of working together to build a community of varied interests and peoples let me dare to dream that there exists a place where I can be a human on the internet again.

It's going to take a lot of deconditioning to not be a lurker!

SaltyIceteaMaker,

That's quite philosophical really. Beautiful text.

CaptainAlchemy,

Yeah as a lurker on Reddit (I use libreddit) I really wanna see some change for the better, Fediverses' seem to be the future, we just need to get the general masses aware of its presence :)

CheshireSnake, (edited )

My concern is lemmy in general is too complicated a concept for the average user just wanting to browse. I've already encountered 2 users on reddit recently who might have stopped because of this complexity. One said he/she felt like lemmy makes its users answer queries before being able to join a sub, and one just couldn't get why there has to be different instances and was turned off because he/she couldn't quite understand how it all works.

I'm not sure I understand everything completely myself, but I'm willing to try. I don't think a lot of people do, tbh.

CaptainAlchemy,

Yeah for sure, usually if it doesn't "just work" or if its not convenient or they just "don't want to" then it'll be hard to convince anyone, getting all my family to move from standard SMS to signal was hard, there was no real barriers yet it was still too inconvenient to switch, even with all the benefits it offers. The two biggest issues I've seen so far is the "sub-lemmys" or just communities that exist, multiple similar communities can co-exist and have separate users, which isn't good for growth. The second issue, and by far the most worrying currently, is performance and stability with the instances that currently exist. Already we're seeing the main lemmy.ml instance being brought down to its knees with all the new users. If reddit doesn't reverse their API decision by the 12th (which at this point seems unlikely considering all the backlash already with no response) then I can't imagine how bad it would be to see even a 10th of current active reddit users trying to join at once. Its an ticking time bomb with a very quick expiration date if its not addressed quickly. I do have hope however, although my programming experience is somewhat limited a threw a few bucks on the opencollective, which I suggest everyone do if you wanna contribute in some way and you believe in the idea of a more open free internet, circa the late 90s.

DudePluto,

Lemmy will have to learn to hide the sausage-maker if they want laymen to enjoy their sausage. That is to say they'll have to make a way for the everyman to interact without the barrier to entry.

Though, no one says Lemmy has to become a AAA social media site

KoboldCoterie,
@KoboldCoterie@pawb.social avatar

It'd be great if there was a way to get involved without having to join a specific instance; that's hard to wrap one's head around for a lot of new users, I think (it certainly was for me). Even if it was a temporary thing and users of that method were prompted to migrate to an instance of their choice at some point, having an entry point that was simpler, even if limited in what it let you do, would be helpful.

BastingChemina,

I'm hoping that if the reddit 3rd app developer start to pivot toward Lemmy it might help

Barbarian,

Completely agree. I'll be ecstatic if Lemmy hits the point where it's self-sustaining. It doesn't need to attract millions, but it needs enough active engaged users to post and comment so that there's enough interesting shit here

ritchie,

I agree, this concept of decentralization is not really widespread. I consider myself informed in topics of open source and privacy, but I also needed to get used to how e.g. searching for communities work. It is definitely not as convenient as reddit, where you have a search bar and can seek out any community, here you need to browse several nodes to find the communities you are looking for. It would be nice if Lemmy caught the interest of many and things like this could be worked out.

dxcz,

I lurked because everything I had to say had already been said, or so it seemed.

Seems like, with less users, that's less likely to happen. Been nice.

local_taxi_fix,

This has been my experience with reddit since it's so big. It's been nice to feel like comments I leave here will actually be seen.

valkyrie,

While I’m sad about the Reddit api changes. I’m also happy about them if they make Lemmy popular, I’d love to ditch Reddit altogether.

MrsEaves,
MrsEaves avatar

This is where I’m at too. Reddit is my last non-Fediverse social media account, and I already had some reservations about keeping it. I don’t think I’m ready to delete it just yet, unlike FB/Twitter/Instagram.

CasscadingSymmetry,

I'm really glad we're not all just jumping onto the next centralised platform. It makes me hopeful for this system.

tonyMEGAphone,

And back to the shadows...

Disgusted_Tadpole,
@Disgusted_Tadpole@lemmy.ml avatar

Man, to me all of this smells the internet from the 2000s and I can’t tell how excited I am

SpacemanSpiff,
SpacemanSpiff avatar

Same! I was a longtime Reddit user and I’m still learning the ropes here but am getting vibes of my Reddit subs as they felt 10-15 years ago. I hope we continue to grow in healthy ways here

MrsEaves,
MrsEaves avatar

Yes! I’m realizing how much I took that for granted when social media came on the scene. Not anymore. I’m not letting this version of the internet die out if we have the chance to bring that energy back.

SemioticStandard,
@SemioticStandard@lemmy.ml avatar

Speak for yourself.

…oh, wait. Shit.

neardeaf,

Just joined, reddit refugee here. I’m just trying to figure out how to sign up to all my related “subreddits” on here to see posts like my home feed

animist,
@animist@lemmy.one avatar

Refugee here too. Took me a minute to figure it all out, but the learning curve isn't quite as steep as all the FUD tech articles made it out to be. I love the potential the fediverse has

muerwre,

Go to "Communities" --> "All" instead of "Local". In case if someone is searching for that too.

mook,

I have a dumb question. Can I add more communities through jerboa, or do I have go to lemmy site to add communities?

muerwre, (edited )

If it has "communities" list with a selector to show your the ones from other instances, why not.

The point is, software on your instance will fetch and send all posts and comments from/to linked communities (you can see the list in your instance webpage footer, under "Instances" link) and skip comments, threads and post from banned communities.

orbit,

Speaking of this, has anyone found a good alternative to /r/videos?

Iamtink,

Me too! I'm primarily a lurker as well. I'm really enjoying Lemmy so far and hope to see it grow. :)

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