purplepadma,
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Funny how as soon as you lose a bit of weight, people start commenting on your body. It’s as if the worst thing they can think of is a fat person, so all moves away from that must be applauded. I’m doing it for fitness reasons but people are interested in how I look, not how I feel. Did they find me that unappealing before?

RobertJackson58585858,
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@purplepadma

Imvho It's downright rudeness.

In a sense It's an attempt to control the narrative so thereby controlling the person.

(Not always easy to spot at the time so we just feel the uncomfortableness and not really knowing why.)

(& ofc it comes with its own plausible deniability/innocent face, though again some folk truly don't understand how they are being offensive.)

Imvho, again.

dancinyogi,
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@purplepadma There's always been too much emphasis on a woman's body - too fat, too thin, too muscular, to chesty, too hippy, too this or that, or not enough this or that. We can't seem to shake that, no matter how much we accomplish in life and as women.

purplepadma,
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@dancinyogi Right!

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