Every few months, I order two dozen condoms. Specifically, two boxes of twelve condoms. I guess they're running low on something, because my last few shipments have been eight boxes of three condoms.
No complaints. I'm still getting what I ordered, but every time I open the drawer in my night stand it looks like I'm running a fucking brothel.
Today was a lot. I started with a doctor appt this morning, then met up with my submissive for a quick session where I introduced him to a hitachi for the first time (amusing af!), and then had my waxing appointment.
Tomorrow I have my hair appointment before running my housemate around for some errands, and then I have to pack.
Wednesday I head to Sydney at 7am, and Thursday I fly out at 9.30pm.. which will means numerous hours sitting on molded plastic chairs at the airport waiting for my flight. Then 24 hours later I land and finally get to hug Greg.
This isn't really one piece but a series of tiny essays all about polyamory and my experience of it. Some bits are serious and tender, some are a bit silly, but that's life, isn't it?
Je vous partage une observation intéressante :
Depuis que ça va mieux avec ma relation amoureuse actuelle, j'ai plus de facilité à avoir du désir pour d'autres.
Et aussi plus de facilité à prendre du plaisir, seule ou avec d'autres ☺️
Comme quoi c'est vraiment pas une question de compenser quelque chose qui manque
Monogamy, when agreed upon by two people who both only have the emotional energy and capacity for one partner, is more than okay and admirable.
But #monogamy as a default state — and for that matter, as an institution — is inherently tied to a mutual expectation of partial "ownership" of the other party. Expression and exploration of one's sexuality outside of this one other partner is seen as a bad thing by default, completely undeserving of discussion.
On top of that, such a system has its roots in a husband literally owning his wife in multiple ways, and echoes of this are still visible to this day. Many of the "stricter" religions still involve anything from a father "giving his daughter away" to literally selling her for a dowry, with love being entirely out of the equation.
Monogamy as a personal choice is fine. Monogamy as a default state, however, is inherently toxic in my opinion. A cultural shift to wider acceptance of freer and more traditionally "queer" forms of love would be a massive net positive for society. :ms_polyamory_flag:
Polyamorous trio can be split into pairs for property dispute, Supreme Court [of New Zealand] rules (www.rnz.co.nz)
The judge said: All multilateral relationships are inherently also collections of bilateral relationships....