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I used to perform masculinity more but it was psychologically killing me to a point it was affecting me physically. Even then people would pick up on my speech pattern and body language, notice I am queer and act upon it. At best I’d get mockery, but I had people trying to physically harm me or directly leading to me losing...
I wish I had better advice, I’m afraid of a similar situation myself.
All I can think of is find some kind of local chapter of PFLAG or some other queer network. I know they’re not everywhere, but hopefully there’s something near enough to you, or at least remote support of some kind.
There are various websites that catalog all the instances they can find, but I can’t remember the one I used back in the day an don’t know if they search communities too or just instances
I had a similar childhood knowing I was different somehow but I don’t think any adults around me would have even considered autism as a possibility when and where I grew up. I think even now they probably have the mindset of “no you’re not the stereotypical depiction of a high needs autistic person” 🙄
Finding out you’re trans later in life is like watching a movie littered with spoilers for the ending but you don’t realize it til you get to the end look back.
They usually recommend if a basement is not available to get in a small room or closet on the bottom floor as close to the center of the building as possible… The more walls closer together make it a bit sturdier, but you know, if a big-ass tornado hits your house directly, who knows what chance there.
Yeah, no problem. I thought about posting it in the general trans community.
I thought I was taking it slow! It has been a little less than a year since I realized. I think I’m in a similar place, it’s a big thing and I want to know that it’s what I really want. Also, once that closet door comes open, there’s no going back, which is really scary.
I can’t speak for others but I probably borderline obsessively have to get all the info possible because I fear making the “obvious” wrong decision.
I’m somewhat relieved but also saddened that there’s this many of these kind of posts. I have been feeling like it’s a similar feeling to when I realized I was trans, and when I finally was able to accept it.
I appreciate your blunt honesty. 💜 I needed it. I think that’s where I am. As far as I know to go, looking for confirmation before I jump.
The voice incide feels kind of excited about the idea(hopefully it’s not just the adhd getting bored) I mean, it’s obviously puberty 2,which I know isn’t really ever fun, but there is some excited almost looking forward to it feeling.
The other bullshit is definitely a thing hanging over my head, but I realized recently, I’m fairly certain transitioning or not, some of these issues are coming up with my family eventually anyway, but transitioning will definitely bring up a lot of things sooner, and I’m a strong conflict avoider.
There's a secret bingo square that says 'not a girl' (lemmy.world)
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I'm scared I won't find a job or/and housing anymore.
I used to perform masculinity more but it was psychologically killing me to a point it was affecting me physically. Even then people would pick up on my speech pattern and body language, notice I am queer and act upon it. At best I’d get mockery, but I had people trying to physically harm me or directly leading to me losing...
X now treats the term cisgender as a slur (www.engadget.com)
US senator says Israel should drop nuclear bombs on Gaza (www.youtube.com)
Rule: Dr Seuss's Boners (lemmy.world)
Linux Rule (pawb.social)
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is there a search engine for the fediverse?
Since big part of the web is drowning in AI junk, including Reddit, is there a good search engine to find answers in the fediverse?
A poem I wrote as an egg, and in love with a straight guy.
Question...
DASHCAM VID: Powerful tornado wipes out building in Nebraska | ABS-CBN News (www.youtube.com)
HRT questions?
Did you have a tipping point between realizing you were trans and you started HRT?...
misskey rule (lemmy.world)
okay but fr what does this even do
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