Kyatto

Kyatto, 11 hours ago

I looked it up to read it, harrowing but I don’t think he is dead. He posted a few years ago saying that the account is too much to log in on, from all the messages and I get that. I once made some posts/comments about being suicidal that got nowhere near the attention he got and I was getting DMs about it for years. I can’t imagine the stress of logging in to that account with how many mentions, DMs and comments it must receive, about a really really shitty time in your life.

Kyatto, 18 hours ago

Even when you are paying for accuracy… I went to a home once for someone who paid for the builders to get everything perfect; the walls were crooked and warped like every wall I’ve ever seen.

Kyatto, 4 days ago

Awards or any other monetarily focused system inherently balance discussions towards the inclinations of wealthy people. We already have too much of that in the world, that they can buy law, buy awareness, buy support, it is a bad idea to let them buy opinions and discussion. Everyone gets one vote, nobody is special enough to be worth more than any other.

There isn’t any truly stopping them however, they can buy users, buy botnets, buy influence anywhere. Fuck it I guess, nothing is sacred, everything is tainted.

Kyatto, 6 days ago

Tor is already technically mentioned in anon’s post, as a fork of firefox, technically.

Kyatto, 8 days ago

2001 is definitely what I call a watch once film. It’s worth watching based on it’s artistic merits, and appreciating the groundbreaking for it’s time practical cinematography. But the film is definitely super dry, and not quite entertaining. When the intermission comes on, actually take a break and talk with someone or refresh yourself. The ending is also kind of nonsense taken at face value, it’s a film to be discussed, not really enjoyed.

For those reasons I say it’s worth a watch, only really once.

Kyatto, 9 days ago

I definitely have, just last week my girlfriend got intentionally misgendered multiple times while going to get her gender marker changed, by a social security agent. Some people can be incredibly cruel like that. An overwhelming majority of people are not like that though, in my experience, but the sting of cruelty is louder than passive acceptance.

Kyatto, 12 days ago

that’s nyarch or uwubuntu

Kyatto, 12 days ago

Did you ever see the jump scare manga?

idk if this one does it but I’m sure this was the one.

Kyatto, 12 days ago

that’s what I thought

Kyatto, 13 days ago (edited 13 days ago)

Ohhhh taking away my gender and rights as a transgender American protects my rights, I see I see.

Kyatto, 14 days ago

well it sorta just makes sense, the gui presents it as a folder, you can move things around in it like a folder, conceptually it presents them in a way to make you think they are physical things stored in a physical folder/box. cli it really just feels like you are using a string of characters indicating the desired file, it feels more like a directory that way, even if it always really is that way, just showcased differently in the gui.

brain doing brainy things, strings/lines vs pictures/labels

Kyatto, 16 days ago

I’ve noticed a large influx of them on lemmy recently too.

Kyatto, 18 days ago

Came here to say something but everyone already said it.

You do in fact exist in the world, you aren’t a bystander, you can actually do things like turning the manhole cover.

Kyatto, 17 days ago

It’s one of those words with conflicted definitions

https://leminal.space/pictrs/image/fa361998-d2ea-4610-91de-eb621d0c6b39.png

Kyatto, 19 days ago

Idk if it is just me but lemmy has appeared to have a massive right wing shift, at least a huge influx of liberals unable to have a conversation without blindly slinging accusations. A lot of people on lemmy now unable to comprehend unhappiness with the system, singing praises to the status quo and woefully inadequate reforms at best. Welcome to election season I guess.

Kyatto, 19 days ago

Damn they allow pets, that’s awesome

Kyatto, 22 days ago (edited 22 days ago)

I mean, if we wanna be silly about it

https://leminal.space/pictrs/image/eb8f2513-589e-46fe-a4d9-842f8bf1b297.png

Bonus, here’s my travels from my home-state from my current home to my girlfriend’s home-state, back and to where we are planning on moving next year.

https://leminal.space/pictrs/image/bed363c8-6334-497b-a244-1c5f5fc97bb4.png

Kyatto, 22 days ago

Growing up in the shroud of monogamy, there is something very freeing and beautiful when I talked to my gf about talking to someone seriously and saying I liked them and wanted to date them. Her encouraging me and celebrating and smiling with me when we both finally had the courage to tell each other our feelings. Helpfully nudged by my boyfriend who clearly noticed we were falling for each other.

I have a lot of love to give, I cherish all of my partners. They are my closest friends and supporters and I welcome the diversity of my desires and needs.

It can be really hard to deal with too, having multiple relationships is something you really really need to work with and takes a lot of attention and care to do it right.

Kyatto, 22 days ago

Do you think monogamous relationships are all about sex? I think you think that love is all about sex, and you’re wrong in thinking that is a general truth. In actuality I honestly find your point of view disturbing.

Kyatto, 19 days ago

So yeah it’s pretty clear your polyphobic and do conflate romantic relationships with being sexual.

Ask other people about their views on monogamy and I think you can find some that would call your emotional dependence on friends cheating. Clearly a red flag for most and abusive, but your post is a big red flag for me as well.

I have some questions for you,

Is going on a date with a friend ok? Is kissing someone romantically ok? Is cuddling and holding hands ok? Is emotional dependence ok? Is flirting ok? Is going on a vacation with them ok?

Exactly what do you suppose is the difference between multiple deeply intimate platonic friendships and a multiamorous relationship?

Romance and sex

I won’t deny that for me personally as a sexual person there is also a sexual element, but one of my partners is ace so for her it’s all romantic.

Kyatto, 17 days ago

How am I emotionally dependent on them?

That wasn’t meant as an accusation or anything, nor was I claiming you had or have an unhealthy emotional dependence. There are certainly stages to intimacy, emotionally, romantic, and sexually.

And that really helps tie together what I am trying to explain here. No partnership is inherently anything, people have different needs, desires, and experience the world in vastly different ways. People have varying degrees of emotions, romanticism, and sexuality. Your responses and how you said them did appear phobic or angry/dismissive at the least so that’s why I decided I should just dismiss you as a person disrespecting of my lifestyle.

I think it is clear to me now you either had a bad experience and were traumatized by a poor partner, or simply realized you were monogamous. That is totally ok, I’m glad you realize who you are and are happy with it. Though it is certainly easier desiring a societal norm, see our discussion on what I am, where I am defending and trying to explain the vastness of experiences I and others have. You don’t ever have to defend monogamy in our society. As for your views on relationships and sexuality, I still will deny that partnerships are always ever sexual. It’s definitely possible, reading what you’ve said, you are some measure of aromantic to tie everything to being sexual in origin and meaning within a romantic gesture or close non-platonic intimacy. That’s ok too, that is how you experience the world, but that’s not how everyone is or feels about things. If that view is a response to your experiences, I’m sorry that you’ve only ever experienced things as a pretense to sex, but there is a lot more out there.

Kyatto, 29 days ago

They’ve taken us for fools…

Kyatto, 1 month ago

I resent that, I’m 30 and I look at least half his age

Kyatto, 1 month ago

BTW heads up to anyone here thinking about taking meds like this for weight management or to avoid diabetes, the way I have come to understand it is they basically cause diabetes as a part of their function, you’ll be bound to it after that point and given the backorder issues these meds have as well as how they can be dangerous to just quit them I’d personally avoid them. You need to be tapered off and you are likely to return to levels you had previously or worse. Now I am not clinically trained but I work with medicine, with other people that are, and this is what I gathered in regards to these meds.

Basically, stick to phentermine and etc.

Kyatto, 1 month ago

Doctorow makes me hope for Doctorouchie and DoctorAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA, as the medical trifecta of pain levels