The majority of surgeons do pore scraping to remove any hairs left over. As my surgeon said to me, he can do hair removal during the surgery, but he doesn’t want to be doing hours and hours of hair removal, so he wanted me to get rid of as much as possible before hand.
I see this phrase used a lot on blahaj lemmy. I’m actually bi but I don’t really like using the word ‘folk’ over ‘people’… it just kinda sounds pretentious, I don’t want to be described like a mythical creature
Yeah, mine changed, but how much of it was change, and how much of it was getting out of the closet is something I will never know. I know that in hindsight I wish I’d had experiences as a gay man before I came out as trans, so that I could have experienced positive queer relationships with men. Instead, I only dated women pre transition, and they could always tell that something wasn’t right… My attraction wasn’t quite there…
After much self exploration, I came to understand that I am panromantic, and predominantly heterosexual, however my dating preference is basically “If you’re not openly queer, I’m not interested”.
Canadian photographer Francois Brunelle spent 12 years tracking down real life Doppelgängers — two individuals who are not related but could pass for identical twins — and photographing them. He calls his project “I’m Not a Look-Alike,” and it’s starting to get some well-deserved attention....
Now, if you tell me it’s subsonic compatible and I can use that smartlist feature with subsonic music as a source, I’ll have found my new music player :)
Done and dusted. A few years back, I realised that I had nothing else I wanted to achieve, no more goals or plans in front of me in terms of my transition. I’d achieved most of what I was hoping for, came to terms with some things I hadn’t achieved, and to this day I am still struggling with some elements I achieved. But even though the internal process is still going on, in terms of social, medical etc, there’s nothing left.
Whipping Girl early in my transition. It was really eye opening to read about the possibility of my trans identity being something other than a source of shame. It was the birth of my trans feminist path
Further along, Detransition Baby. That one hit me really hard. Close to home in some ways, but even when it wasn’t, it felt authentic. Trans literature for a trans audience.
Most psychologists don’t care about Freud’s work outside of a historical sense and kinda hate him as a person. His work was quite literally used as an example of pseudoscience by Karl Popper....
You can also try using a different front end. alx.lemmy.blahaj.zone for example will take you to the Alexandrite front end for our instance, which has a whole UI overhaul
This is different to what I’ve been told in another answer. I’ve been told that dependencies can update without care about compatibility. In the case of official packages, the maintainers work around that by timing releases appropriately, but in the case of AUR packages, the dependencies can and do update without care about the packages that depend on them
How do non explicitly installed package dependencies get updated in Arch? Do they update independently of the package that is dependent on them, or do they get updated when the parent package updates? Or is it some secret third thing?...
I’ve been playing 40k since the late 80s. I know the lore. I was there for it. I have watched it change over the decades. And sure, the female warriors weren’t explicitly labelled Space Marines, but they clearly were intended to be “the same” as the male models that would become Space Marines. The genestealers in Rogue Trader weren’t labelled tyranids either, but no one claims they weren’t by citing lack of specific lore at the time they were first published
The only reason those models didn’t continue to be made is because misogyny meant the models didn’t sell. So female space marines got written out of the lore, and the sisters, in all ways lesser than space marines, were introduced, so as to not offend the fan base of the time with equality.
What is your little slice of the internet that you own/maintain?
youtube.com/playlist?list=PLopDcjdhYBYkHE_nqV7QNz…...
seeking guidance on bottom surgery (fedia.io)
Hi, I'm the total mess known as Emma, and I'm currently a little overwhelmed with things....
Why do people say 'queer folk' instead of 'queer people'?
I see this phrase used a lot on blahaj lemmy. I’m actually bi but I don’t really like using the word ‘folk’ over ‘people’… it just kinda sounds pretentious, I don’t want to be described like a mythical creature
18+ Did your sexuality change after you came out? If so, how?
Canadian photographer Francois Brunell searches and photographs similar people, but who are not related to each other. He has currently done about 200 couple portraits.
Canadian photographer Francois Brunelle spent 12 years tracking down real life Doppelgängers — two individuals who are not related but could pass for identical twins — and photographing them. He calls his project “I’m Not a Look-Alike,” and it’s starting to get some well-deserved attention....
GNU nano 8.0 Released with New Options and Various Improvements (9to5linux.com)
I found a beautiful alternative to MusicBee (audio manager & player)! (lemmy.sdf.org)
Link: tauonmusicbox.rocks...
How's your transition coming along?
What's a piece of media that is meaningful to your transition or coming out?
Why do non-psychologists talk so much about Freud?
Most psychologists don’t care about Freud’s work outside of a historical sense and kinda hate him as a person. His work was quite literally used as an example of pseudoscience by Karl Popper....
"The fireball, an old classic. Excellent execution on that lob." (ttrpg.network)
I kind of want to get a friend to just sit in a game store and find a game to troll with this.
Light theme on desktop needs more contrast.
ID: A screenshot of a post on lemmy accessed via blahaj.zone, in light mode....
(Arch) Question on updating dependencies from a newbie
cross-posted from: lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/11540913...
Question on updating dependencies in Arch from a newbie
How do non explicitly installed package dependencies get updated in Arch? Do they update independently of the package that is dependent on them, or do they get updated when the parent package updates? Or is it some secret third thing?...
i bought this today! (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
Looking for linux workflow ideas
Linux photogs, help me out. What does your workflow look like? What apps do you use?...
Why Warhammer 40K fans are freaking out over a female Custodes in the new codex (www.polygon.com)