miguel

miguel, 12 days ago to random

considering dating again. what do women enjoy for first dates? i prefer activities like walks, museums —spaces that allow for movement and connection. i don’t like food/drinks for the first date. feels too “job interview-y”. these general ideas are inspired by esther perel & logan ury.

miguel, 14 days ago to random

i give up on dealing with VMs and pihole. i have just paid $20 for a year of NextDNS for network-wide ad-blocking

skinnylatte, 1 month ago (edited 1 month ago) to random

Look I’m autistic as hell but some of you autistic dudes on the internet have never been told that you have bad opinions and manners and that other autistic people also think so

(To clarify: autism isn’t a cover for ‘asshole’, it just often overlaps with the stereotype of a male autist; no other autistic people can do that and get away with it, it’s 100% cis dude privilege)

mph, 1 month ago to random

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miguel, 1 month ago to random

Sun glasses

mcc, 1 month ago to random

Anybody understand network debugging, or the Chrome performance monitor?

I've been having a problem. We've got fiber, but basic sites like google.com or github.com can frequently take >10 seconds to load. It is as if once a connection is open I have high bandwidth, but my computer struggles to open connections. And I see this symptom on more than one machine.

I would like something to measure, is the problem:

• Opening connections is slow?
• Connections are high-failure?
• DNS is slow?

mph, 1 month ago to random

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polotek, 1 month ago to random

A thesis.

miguel, 4 months ago to random

Does anyone here pay for Kagi search? I really want to pay for it but also I can’t afford another $10 a month.

miguel, 4 months ago to random

Ugh more ads

miguel, 5 months ago to random

Get an overview of childhood trauma group therapy using the RRP model in this paid workshop.

It’s been so helpful for me!

miguel, 6 months ago to random

@Moltz just started watching this.

Thought you might also find it relaxing: https://youtu.be/GQO70fcwdwg

miguel, 6 months ago to random

my local NAMI chapter has asked me to do a webinar and Q&A about growing up with my mom and to talk about what children of schizophrenics need. This is the stuff that my soul sings for!!

Here’s the email to register: abenzoni@chcare.org

liztai, 7 months ago to Hair

I got the wavy hair gene from my mum's side, where almost everyone has wavy/curly hair. My curls are not as prominent, but some days it just decides "I am gonna be crazy today!"
My #hair only got like this after puberty, and before that it was typical ramrod straight and my mum would give me the China doll hairstyle (which I loathed).
Since most Chinese had straight hair this made me even more confused about my already salad cultural roots & feel less #Chinese.

#China #Culture

Jaden2, 7 months ago to LGBTQ

Reason I joined dis app was to connect with a diverse range of people.
I want to hear about yall lives .
I got stuck in Instagram and posts from black teens in the US.
I want to hear about different lives in England, Europe etc and diverse #LGBTQ, all ages , #Trans . What popping ? What going wit yall ?
I try and post my life, interested in yours.
Make masto real , not just bout tech , politics and all that boring shit.
Like to get to know yall.
Love Jaden ❤️
#Introduction #Introductions