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miguel

@miguel@social.lol

voice actor, singer, lover of cheeseburgers NJ {🇵🇭 🇺🇸} [he|him] 🍐

(I cross-post to here from micro.blog)

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danilo, to random
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I don’t consume much YouTube but for years I’ve been making an exception for Jenny Nicholson’s deep dives on theme parks, which are a matter FORENSIC special interest for her

She offers us this FOUR HOUR post mortem of the Star Wars Hotel, and I’m going to watch every minute of the detailed analysis

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T0CpOYZZZW4

miguel,
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@danilo she’s the best. And it’s like sure she booked early on maybe stuff got worked out over time but… it’s Disney and it’s $6,000. It should be rock-solid from day Zero

miguel, to random
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considering dating again. what do women enjoy for first dates? i prefer activities like walks, museums —spaces that allow for movement and connection. i don’t like food/drinks for the first date. feels too “job interview-y”. these general ideas are inspired by esther perel & logan ury.

miguel,
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@janeadams also I forgot to thank you for your great tips.

How do you find people you go on dates with? I am… so tired of the apps. I’m trying volunteering, finding new communities, classes.

miguel, to random
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i give up on dealing with VMs and pihole. i have just paid $20 for a year of NextDNS for network-wide ad-blocking

skinnylatte, (edited ) to random
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Look I’m autistic as hell but some of you autistic dudes on the internet have never been told that you have bad opinions and manners and that other autistic people also think so

(To clarify: autism isn’t a cover for ‘asshole’, it just often overlaps with the stereotype of a male autist; no other autistic people can do that and get away with it, it’s 100% cis dude privilege)

miguel,
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@skinnylatte I am not autistic but sometimes I have this thought and then feel judgey and ableist

miguel,
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@skinnylatte my struggle is knowing where it’s being used for cover. as it stands i (probably infantalizingly so) give someone all the benefit of the doubt and all the leeway they need. and if they’re saying stuff i find odd i keep my mouth shut to not alienate them

mph, to random
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  • miguel,
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    @mph I wish I knew more people who use signal but I’m so tired of telling people to download a new thing and everyone is on WhatsApp

    miguel, to random
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    Sun glasses

    mcc, to random
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    Anybody understand network debugging, or the Chrome performance monitor?

    I've been having a problem. We've got fiber, but basic sites like google.com or github.com can frequently take >10 seconds to load. It is as if once a connection is open I have high bandwidth, but my computer struggles to open connections. And I see this symptom on more than one machine.

    I would like something to measure, is the problem:

    • Opening connections is slow?
    • Connections are high-failure?
    • DNS is slow?
    miguel,
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    @mcc who do you use for DNS

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  • miguel,
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    @mph yuuuppp

    polotek, to random
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    A thesis.

    miguel,
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    @polotek yeah I feel kinda shoved into learning React, Vue, Angular for anything frontend if I want a job

    miguel,
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    @hazelweakly @polotek blahhh. Welp. I’ll keep learning it then! Fingers crossed I’ll get my first job one day

    miguel, to random
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    Does anyone here pay for Kagi search? I really want to pay for it but also I can’t afford another $10 a month.

    miguel, to random
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    Ugh more ads

    miguel,
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    @maique it’s so hit and miss

    miguel,
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    @maique ooo how do I do this?

    miguel,
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    @maique thank you! Let’s see how that works for me going forward

    miguel, to random
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    Get an overview of childhood trauma group therapy using the RRP model in this paid workshop.

    It’s been so helpful for me!

    miguel, to random
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    @Moltz just started watching this.

    Thought you might also find it relaxing: https://youtu.be/GQO70fcwdwg

    miguel, to random
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    my local NAMI chapter has asked me to do a webinar and Q&A about growing up with my mom and to talk about what children of schizophrenics need. This is the stuff that my soul sings for!!

    Here’s the email to register: abenzoni@chcare.org

    liztai, to Hair
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    I got the wavy hair gene from my mum's side, where almost everyone has wavy/curly hair. My curls are not as prominent, but some days it just decides "I am gonna be crazy today!"
    My only got like this after puberty, and before that it was typical ramrod straight and my mum would give me the China doll hairstyle (which I loathed).
    Since most Chinese had straight hair this made me even more confused about my already salad cultural roots & feel less .

    miguel,
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    @liztai I think both my mom and dad had kinda wavy hair. But my sister’s hair is very straight

    miguel,
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    @liztai hooray! Lucky us. I’ve only come to appreciate my wavy hair recently

    miguel,
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    @liztai lucky gorgeous us!

    Jaden2, to LGBTQ

    Reason I joined dis app was to connect with a diverse range of people.
    I want to hear about yall lives .
    I got stuck in Instagram and posts from black teens in the US.
    I want to hear about different lives in England, Europe etc and diverse , all ages , . What popping ? What going wit yall ?
    I try and post my life, interested in yours.
    Make masto real , not just bout tech , politics and all that boring shit.
    Like to get to know yall.
    Love Jaden ❤️

    miguel,
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    @Tracey_Writes @Jaden2 lotta fun nonsense on bluesky. Lemme know if you want an invite

    miguel,
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    @Jaden2 @Tracey_Writes I feel ya! Also it’s why I started cross-posting to here and Bsky and pixelfed simultaneously. Don’t follow me down this dangerous path

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