Millennials and early Gen Z of Lemmy, what did you do for fun before phones became such a huge part of our lives?

I keep cutting out things like social media from my lifestyle, but I'm finding it hard to fill the time. Reading can only go so far, there's never anything on TV, and my friends all live twelve miles away.

So, before we really had social media, what did teenagers do?

dreamLogic,

Getting a time consuming hobby like wood working or programming or something that can pay off in the long run is I think probably a wise route to go.

narF,

I was reading more and spending time creating (drawing and making animated shirts in Flash!)

maegul,
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  • reading
  • TV / movies
  • video games
  • listening to music (it’s important to remember that this was an active thing to do … you’d listen to an album beginning to end, digest it, read about it etc)
  • playing music
  • Hanging out with friends, either doing some of the above or going here and there on pushbikes.

Not gonna lie, I honestly think it was overall better. If the internet were just Wikipedia, blogs and casual non-profit social media, the world would be a better place.

quasimagia,

Read comics, ride bike, play game boy

KnightOfOldEmpire,
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Library (it was fun spotting a book I haven't read yet), comics (waiting for salles so I could get a bulk of them for cheap), rollerblade (until you discover that the road is bad and the poor wheels just can't handle it), table top wargames (fun putting models together and doing pew pew sounds one a month with friends). DnD was also occasionally thrown in, but without proper DM the stories are just terrible and teens be doing rather immature things.

bobs_guns,

well, I had a lot of gender dysphoria so I dissociated at lot

sub_ubi,

Went to the malt shop, swing danced, bet on the ponies.

cyclohexane,

I played on my ps1 / ps2 a lot for a while

Watched tv

Would call friends on phone and talk with them

I mean yes, we also hung out sometimes, but I wouldn't say it's more often than I hangout with friends nowadays. Technology was still part of my life, just in another form.

CountryBreakfast,
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Encyclopedia CD ROM

Explore rice fields

CDs

Metal shows

More metal shows

ned,

Black tar

petrescatraian, (edited )

@hellfire103 Probably none of the things I would do today, but were fun back then while I was a kid.

We were a group of kids of various similar ages who would play various games outside, among which I can still recall:

  • hide&seek
  • leapsha (I don't know how to translate this in English, but basically you would all run away from another person, and if that person would touch you and say you are!, you would be the one everyone would run away from)
  • 1,2,3, stand at the wall (where one of you would stand at a wall and say the phrase, then turn around. The others would try to get to you, but if you happen to see someone moving, you'd tell that person and they would need to get back to the starting point)
  • country, country we want recruits (I know it might sound wrong to some of you, but it's really fun. You split into two groups, then hold each other tight in a line. One of the group shouts Country, country, we want recruits!. The other replies who? and the first one replies with the name of someone in the second group. Then, the person called runs towards the group who was calling, between two of its members. If these persons manage to stop the runner, then the runner will join their group. If they do not, the runner returns to the original group. The side who gets only one person left, naturally, loses)
  • "Lapte gros" or "thick milk" (I don't quite know the rules by heart myself, but you can read an explainer and see a video here - I never really played it myself, so my limbs are pretty much intact)

Then I was also watching a lot on Cartoon Network, we had cartoons like Ed, Edd & Eddy, Life with Louie, Scooby Doo, The Cramp Twins, Tom&Jerry, Looney Tunes etc.

Then some of my friends had bikes and we would compete against each other on a few streets around my neighborhood (that's how I know that place so well I don't even need a map to get around, lol).

I still ride my bike sometimes, but now I live at the top of a 10-floor building and it's really inconvenient for me to get my bike up&down all the time (I cannot get it into the elevator either). So I mostly prefer to get outside and walk.

Indeed, for a teenager like you seem to be, it would be more fun to hang around with some friends, so why not just bring them over and play something 😁 Edit: you can also buy a ball if you can find one at a store.

Just make sure you don't trash your house or something, haha.

Play safe!

hellfire103,
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Thanks, Câtâ.

petrescatraian,

@hellfire103 wrong diacritics but you're welcome! 😉

hellfire103,
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Ah, sorry. It's getting late, I'm not wearing my glasses, and I have a British keyboard. Is Cătă correct?

petrescatraian,

@hellfire103 whoa! that's the one, yea, haha. Don't worry about it anyway!

Lost_Wanderer,

Leapsha in the US is called "Tag"

1,2,3 Stand at the Wall would be "Red Light Green Light"

Country Country would be "Red Rover" here in the US

Thick Milk? Never played anything like that as a kid. Sounds dangerously fun

petrescatraian,

Thanks!

@Lost_Wanderer wrote:

Sounds dangerously fun

It is, yea! xdHave fun if you ever decide playing it, haha.

JoYo,
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I'd rip out the guitar tabs from guitar magazines at the store then try and learn to play them.

My mom caught me once so then I stopped.

hellfire103,
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I'll learn an instrument! Of course!

JoYo,
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go with nylon stringed instruments if you're into plucked.

i had steel and electric for decades before buying a nylon and ill never go back.

im excited for a baratone ukulele that is on back order.

hellfire103,
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Nylon and virtual are all I have

JoYo,
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LMMS is pretty fun for making arbitrary boops.

JoYo,
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oh check out musescore 4, they've added a ton of virtual instrument features beyond midi and then you can print it out for offline.

hellfire103,
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I already use MuseScore, although I'm still on version 2 as I'm running Debian Bullseye.

Octorine,

I like Ardour too. The interface takes a little getting used to but feels good once you have the hang of it.

k_o_t,
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same things i do now 🤷‍♀️

sexy_peach,

Talked for hours with friends on the land-line

hellfire103,
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I would happily do this, but the majority of gen z prefer to text, and my friends have some weird conversations.

raccoon,
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I have my hobbies, then obviously reading.

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