sara, (edited )

What does shaking your ass at a private party have to do with your academics? This is the dumbest situation. This poor girl.

mateomaui,

theguardian.com/…/louisiana-student-punished-by-s…

was seen dancing at a private homecoming afterparty on 30 September, behind a friend who was twerking.

she wasn’t even the one twerking

sara,

For fucks sake. I hope her family calls the ACLU.

joystick,

It sounds like a religious private school, so good luck.

AdmiralShat,

Its Walker High School, a public school.

…wikipedia.org/…/Walker_High_School_(Walker,_Loui…

“They basically told me that I should be ashamed of myself,” Timonet told a local news outlet. “That I wasn’t basically following God’s ideals, which made me cry even more.”

The principal inserted their religion into their job at a public school.

wizardbeard,
@wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

Well that sounds like a damn easy win for a court case.

DLSchichtl,

You’d think, but these days I wonder.

mateomaui, (edited )

I’d get the dance team members in on it for vaguely impugning their reputations, because when asked why nothing happened to them, the answer more or less had the implied subtext “that’s fine for them because we expect them to act like hoes, but you’re our hood ornament and should behave better.”

edit: in case anyone is unclear on my position regarding twerking

https://i.imgur.com/QgXjeCw.jpg

kautau,

I agree. She’s literally getting punished for having fun with her friends at a dance party. And her friends should get the same restitution because they were also, having fun. God forbid this incredibly intelligent girl go on to be anything but an avenue for childbirth, or her friends don’t follow the same path

DLSchichtl,

Let’s just hope she never tries to run for senator anything. Lord knows they’re not allowed to dance.

Chunk,

Seems like the easiest way to get into a really good school would be to sue, whip up a media frenzy, and frame it through a feminist lens. Write an essay about overcoming adversity by standing up for what is right, no matter the cost.

BOOM easy admissions.

kautau,

Yeah if the school tried to honor what the principal is doing that will be a PR nightmare for them. Honor the scholarship, admit her, do what’s right

AlecSadler,

This is infuriating.

Rally,

It’s crazy. She lost benefits over something somebody else did. I can’t make sense of it. The dogma and brining faith and religious righteousness into everything is out on hand and needs to stop

homesweethomeMrL,

You ain’t from around FoxNews Parish, is ya?

sput

Coasting0942, (edited )

It has everything to do with it because god said so:

“They basically told me that I should be ashamed of myself,” Timonet told a local news outlet. “That I wasn’t basically following God’s ideals, which made me cry even more.” “I felt like my life was over.”

Guys, it’s the same rules as any underaged closet atheist. Study your ass off, become financially independent, then twerk in front of your god fearing scholarship committee

Uranium3006,
Uranium3006 avatar

Religion is cancer

seitanic,

Christianity is cancer. My religion supports your right to twerk.

CarlsIII,

I mean if you’re going to be that pedantic about a comment that doesn’t strike me as intending to be nuanced and specific, there are versions of Christianity that are fine with twerking too

seitanic,

People say “religion” when they mean “Christianity”. This A) isn’t fair to other religions and B) helps to enforce Christian hegemony.

CarlsIII,

People also say “Christianity” when they mean “evangelicalism.”

seitanic,

That, too.

Spaghetti_Hitchens,

R'amen

Zoidsberg,
@Zoidsberg@lemmy.ca avatar

I am interested in your religion

seitanic,

It’s Satanism.

Zoidsberg,
@Zoidsberg@lemmy.ca avatar

I’m in.

Cethin,

Satanism is only necessary because religion is cancer though. Just like cancer, we need to use another thing that kills to kill it. I’m 100% in agreement with Satanism’s tenants, but it’s because they’re just humanist ideals wrapped in the garb of religion to use religion as a tool.

seitanic,

All religions are tools. Saying “religion is cancer” overlooks all of the good things that people get out of religion, such as a community with shared values that helps each other. If you can have a religion without superstition and dogma, where’s the harm? It’s not religion that’s cancer. It’s superstition and dogma.

Cethin,

Sure, but the term religion implies superstition and dogma. It’s literally part of the definition. What is religion without that? Community and tax exempt status? The former is just called community (which also implies shared values) and the latter is mostly a scam.

I’m not saying good things can’t come from religion, but they don’t come because they are religious. Any good they do is done regardless (or often despite) the supernatural beliefs.

seitanic,

Sure, but the term religion implies superstition and dogma. It’s literally part of the definition.

Definitions have to comport with reality, not the other way around. Satanism is not a social club. We have holidays, we have rituals, we have ministers who conduct wedding ceremonies. We even have church services.

Cethin,

I want to let you know I’m not the one downvoting you. I disagree, but I’m not downvoting.

Personally, I don’t think The Satanic Temple should be considered a religion. I think the term has been watered down, particularly in the US, because our laws are stupid. As long as there is an incentive to be called a religion it should be, but there shouldn’t be an incentive. Why should anyone’s beliefs be valued more because they’re tied to (usually at least) supernatural beliefs?

TST was created as religious satire. That’s the reason for the holidays, riguals, and other services. They need to conform to the appearance of a religion to work as a religion for their own purposes. That isn’t to say these are bad or wrong. They’re just as valid as any other religion. It’s just that the belief that it’s founded on is humanism, not something supernatural.

seitanic, (edited )

Why should anyone’s beliefs be valued more because they’re tied to (usually at least) supernatural beliefs?

TST agrees with you. In fact, this is almost word-for-word what it says in the FAQ under the question “If you don’t believe in the supernatural, how is TST a religion?”

TST was created as religious satire. That’s the reason for the holidays, riguals, and other services.

What convinced you of this?

Cethin,

No, I agree with that. It’s religious satire. That’s why I included the parenthesis.

assassin_aragorn,

Oh that really pisses me off. The poor girl!

wolfkin,
@wolfkin@mastodon.social avatar

@Coasting0942 @sara ooooooh. This is a religious scholarship? or a religious school? Alrighty then at least that makes sense.

sara,

It appears to be a public high school.

Cryophilia,

A public high school in Louisiana, so essentially a Christian school.

thefartographer,

Sounds like someone dodged a bullet! Bullet-dodge ass-dance!

Seasoned_Greetings,

It appears that the principal is backpedaling really hard. Even so, the kid still lost out on the scholarship because she missed the deadline to apply through the school.

The mother said in response to the principal’s apology,

“It’s too little, too late. I even told him on the phone conversation when he made it to us at noon today asking us to come into the office and he mentioned reinstating the scholarship, I let him know that the scholarship deadline was done, and the damage that he’s done to her is done. I also told him I gave them the opportunity when I came in there at 7 o’ clock the next morning, to try and rectify the situation at that point. Now, with somebody holding his hand forcing him to do something, an apology being enforced it’s too late,” said Rachel Timonet

EmperorHenry,
@EmperorHenry@discuss.tchncs.de avatar

Fuck the school system! It’s never been about educating children. It’s only about conditioning children to blindly accept what they’re told by authority.

derpgon,

From my experience, if people are not assholes, there is always a way. I’ve been accepted to a school when I missed the deadline by two weeks regardless.

Unless the school system in the USA is strict and non-negotiable.

MeatsOfRage,

Wow, when you watch the video is even more benign than this thread headline. It’s just plain dancing, nothing remotely scandalous.

Arthur_Leywin,

At this point if anyone ever brings up religion to me outside of work, I’m just gonna shit on it. Tolerating religion is morally bad and religion should be as taboo as smoking.

TexMexBazooka,

I’m a bit of an asshole, but if someone is bringing up religion in public they should be shamed

torpak,

Like, do it in private, but don’t bother other people with it. Seems fair.

Snowpix,
@Snowpix@lemmy.ca avatar

Religion is like a penis. You can do whatever you want with it at home, but don’t go waving it in people’s faces, and especially keep it away from children.

Arthur_Leywin,

Would you be ok with people being Nazis at home? If someone commits to an ideology at home, it affects their entire personality/interactions. I’d argue this is a form of tolerance which is bad.

torpak,

Would you be ok with surveilling everyone to make sure they are not Nazis? While I am uncomfortable with the knowledge that there are some people out there who are Nazis in secret, that is still much better than them feeling comfortable enough to be Nazis in the open.

Also I would prefer even Nazis marauding in the streets to universal surveillance, which for me at least is hardly imaginable without at least a little Nazi ideology at government level.

Also I was talking about religion which in contrast to Nazi-ideology can be benign, when practiced in private.

Arthur_Leywin, (edited )

I wasnt advocating for surveiling everyone. I was suggesting creating an atmosphere that continuously shuts down religion just like we do with Nazism. I accept that not everyone agrees with Nazis, but our general consensus is that Nazis are bad. The same cannot be said for our general consensus of religion.

torpak,

Well, as I see it, it’s only organized religion that is harmful.

Arthur_Leywin,

These groups get their legitimacy and authority by following an ideology everyone worships. There’s a reason why Scientology is seen as a stupid idea while Christianity/Islam are “ways of life.” It’s because the latter religions are popular and they become legitimate because of popularity. That’s why I think it’s really important to shame anyone who considers themselves a true religious person, to errode that legitimacy.

FReddit,

She wasn’t the one twerking.

She was dancing behind the twerker.

luky,

wow really

SirStumps,
@SirStumps@lemmy.world avatar

So the girl in question wasn’t twerking, it was person “friend” in front of her in the video. She was just dancing. I consider myself pretty logical in most things and this doesn’t make sense.

The person in question did not commit any offense her self based on how the news article read. If she herself was doing something that did not promote a good image it would be understandable but this was not the case.

JustZ,

Obviously any government action based on “promoting a good image” would violate the First Amendment.

SirStumps,
@SirStumps@lemmy.world avatar

I can agree to a certain point but as this particular scholarship is only handed to two people a year I imagine the requirements are very high and the standard at which one conducts themselves is taken into account. Never the less I do not understand and cannot condone punishing those that do not deserve it.

This girl must have worked hard for such a scholarship and to be denied what she earned for such a bizarre reason just seems petty and small.

Supanova,

How is this allowed? Are they gonna kick people out of college because they had sex once?

cosmicrookie,
@cosmicrookie@lemmy.world avatar

Lessons learned in Afghanistan i guess. Christian Taliban

azurefirefly,

Good

PersnickityPenguin,

Wow, imagine being called a “hood ornament of the school.”

FormerlyChucks,

Thot patrolled

BilboBargains,

Law and Order, special THOT unit.

PrettyFlyForAFatGuy,

“That I wasn’t basically following God’s ideals, which made me cry even more.” So a state institution imposing religious virtues on a student? How is that constitutional, something for the ACLU perhaps?

cosmicrookie, (edited )
@cosmicrookie@lemmy.world avatar

Sounds like something the US would invade a country for doing

JustZ,

Uhh what?

fne8w2ah,

First was the teacher with the OF, now this?

Clbull,

That principal needs his hard drive forensically checked by the police.

cricket97,

thot patrolled

Fallenwout,

Fire that principal. He’s a bad example for students.

JasSmith,

We really need to move to a standard which doesn’t judge people by their behaviour outside the professional setting. I suspect half the people lamenting this would be cheering it if she expressed opinions or behaviour they disagreed with. We need to have laws in place to protect people to do offensive things, or make offensive statements, which have nothing to do with their school or workplace.

trashgirlfriend,

You are correct, there is absolutely no difference between twerking and saying 6 million wasn’t enough, these are completely equivalent acts.

JasSmith,

The severity is quite different, but the premise is not. These are both offensive things to different people. Either we allow institutions to police offensive things outside their walls, or we don’t. What you’re communicating to me is you’d like to be emperor of America, and only you can fairly arbitrate these things. I’ll let you in on a little secret: everyone thinks that. That’s why we have democracy.

CarlsIII,

The severity is quite different, but the premise is not. These are both offensive things to different people.

These are words you typed comparing twerking to support of the holocaust .

trashgirlfriend,

This reply is offensive to me and therefore you should be fired from your job.

cricket97,

What if they did something racist outside of a work setting?

ilikekeyboards,

I’m going to make an ai video of you calling me a n***** and send it to your bosses.

See how this works? How do we even know it was her twerking?

wionews.com/…/spain-minor-girls-fall-victim-to-de…

100_percent_a_bot,

Wdym you want people to have principled opinions on cancel culture? We’re on the internet, here we doxx hold people accountable for the things we don’t like and complain when the wrong people face repercussions of their behavior outside their jobs

Blackmist,

In my day we did all our racism anonymously or down the pub, rather than online, under your real name, next to a photo of your real face.

JasSmith,

Either you support the concept of free speech, or you don’t. Such a law would need to protect all speech, not just speech you personally find permissible.

cricket97,

based

Nobsi,

No, why?
Freedom of speech does not mean freedom of consequences…

bear,

Amoral isn’t a virtue worth upholding. We should encourage good things and discourage bad things.

cricket97,

I think having the freedom to express stupid opinions is actually a good thing

bear,

Good news, you have that freedom. But everybody else has the freedom to decide not to associate with you for it.

cricket97,

I don’t think public institutions should be able to make that call. Private institutions and individuals, sure.

bear,

Why not? Public institutions are supposed to serve the public’s interests.

cricket97,

Because I don’t want to give some unelected bureaucrats the ability to discommunicate someone because they said something stupid. Public goods are meant to serve the public, even if they have bad opinions.

bear,

I think the limit should be pretty high, but I’m fine with, as an example, people who spread abject hatred being rejected by most parts of society. I think not spreading hatred against your fellows is an integral part of the social contract.

cricket97,

What about someone who doesn’t think that transgender women are women? Should they be rejected by society for holding that view?

bear,

Yep.

Plavatos,

The paradox of tolerance suggests we draw a line and decide some things are unacceptable to tolerate or the tolerant will be overwhelmed by the intolerant. I’m sure Poppers arguments are not without flaws but absolute free speech is a pipe dream.

There are limits to free speech in US laws already, some common examples are slander, libel, and threats. There’s also “imminent lawless action” where words inciting violence can be restricted.

Maybe I’m drawing a false correlation between the two ideas but in general I don’t think it’s so black and white as you might suggest.

vanya913,

The paradox of tolerance is some philosopher’s idea, not some sort of axiom. We really need to stop quoting it. It’s not even the only idea of its kind. There are several philosophers with more nuanced takes.

Plavatos,

I did state that his argument was not without its flaws. It still serves its purpose as a thought experiment about how a society should handle radically dissenting opinions.

I won’t pretend to know the answer in practice and censorship makes me uneasy but my debate is against free speech absolutionists.

bear,

The philosopher was correct. We should keep quoting it.

vanya913,

Says who? It’s okay to agree or disagree with the dude, but citing him as if it’s a source or evidence of something is just plain wrong. And that’s how the paradox of tolerance is usually brought up.

bear,

Wait, are you arguing with the concept that intolerance seeks to destroy tolerance?

vanya913,

I am more so arguing that in the pursuit of not tolerating the intolerant, we just end up becoming intolerant ourselves. That’s what Rawls argues.

But more specifically, defining and understanding what constitutes intolerance is a non-trivial challenge that is often ignored. Oftentimes, a person or view is labelled as intolerant when it does not see itself that way. Oftentimes, the reality is more nuanced.

For example, France’s ban on wearing religious symbols within schools can be seen as intolerant. That’s how I see it, at least. But others could argue that because the religions themselves are intolerant, this is completely permissible. The followers of these religions might not see themselves as intolerant. And this can keep going back and forth with each side calling the other intolerant.

If the paradox of tolerance is followed, everyone has free reign to condemn and suppress whomever they deem intolerant, just leading to more intolerance. Because there isn’t a way to prove that something or someone is objectively intolerant, it just leads to name calling.

You can see this kind of discourse online all the time. You go to a left leaning forum and find them calling the other side fascists. You go to a right leaning forum and find them calling the other side fascists as well. I’m not trying to “both sides” this, I’m trying to demonstrate that the paradox of tolerance isn’t actually helpful when it comes to decreasing intolerance.

bear,

I am more so arguing that in the pursuit of not tolerating the intolerant, we just end up becoming intolerant ourselves

Intolerance of intolerance is not the same thing as intolerance of tolerance. The former stops when other forms of intolerance no longer exist; the latter stops when tolerance no longer exists.

But more specifically, defining and understanding what constitutes intolerance is a non-trivial challenge that is often ignored. Oftentimes, a person or view is labelled as intolerant when it does not see itself that way. Oftentimes, the reality is more nuanced.

All we can do is give it our best try. It’s better than doing nothing at all out of fear that we can’t get everything perfectly right all the time. Intolerance definitionally seeks to destroy tolerance; thus it follows that if we do nothing, tolerance will be entirely lost.

You can see this kind of discourse online all the time. You go to a left leaning forum and find them calling the other side fascists. You go to a right leaning forum and find them calling the other side fascists as well.

The good news is that you don’t have to simply take people at their word when they say things. Humans have the unique capacity for judgement.

I’m trying to demonstrate that the paradox of tolerance isn’t actually helpful when it comes to decreasing intolerance.

I don’t agree, but even so, you haven’t proposed an alternative yet.

applejacks,
@applejacks@lemmy.world avatar

this one simple sentence that destroys a lemmy user’s argument

Kirkkh,

Unfortunately there’s no way to codify what’s offensive. Demonizing women does seem de rigueur for schools though. Probably just have to know that going in. Probably just wipe yourself off the internet as a protective manner.

FlyingSquid,
@FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

I would say it highly depends on how it reflects on the institution. Twerking has nothing to do with any possible education she might have received. Saying that black people are unintelligent but good dancers shows the attempts to educate the student has failed them, which makes the school look bad if they get the scholarship.

Similarly, I’m fine with people who got fired for participating in January 6th. Any company that kept them on could face a major boycott and those people don’t deserve their jobs because they’re insurrectionists.

But this particular girl? Totally deserves the scholarship. Twerking is not a reflection of how she was educated.

JasSmith,

I would say it highly depends on how it reflects on the institution.

This institution felt it reflected badly on them. You’re making a lot of subjective comparisons as though they’re objective. Either the institution has the right to determine what they find acceptable, or they don’t. If they do, you have to be prepared to accept that different people value different things to you.

bear,

We understand that. What you don’t understand is that we’re allowed to criticize what they value.

wolfkin,
@wolfkin@mastodon.social avatar

@JasSmith @FlyingSquid it was a public school. And they cited religious beliefs as for why they were so offended. That's a clear violation of church and state and while it's certainly not new or unique it's not defensible or right.

Hawk,

A government funded state school has no right to push their Christian beliefs onto its students, which they clearly did, as quoted in the article.

Luckily, they also have no backbone, as they immediately reinstated everything as soon as this hit the news.

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