BZBrainz,
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TW: homophobia

I wanted to share a couple of the violent and homophobic responses I received after talking about my spouse of 20 years. We are an Out, Queer, Neurodivergent couple—this will not be the first or the last time I receive comments like this. This sort of behavior is not acceptable and the community should be aware of these screen names.

@lgbtqia @actuallyautistic

msquebanh,
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@BZBrainz @lgbtqia @actuallyautistic I've had both those instances blocked for months for freely allowing bigotry & far right hate speech.

BZBrainz,
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@msquebanh @lgbtqia @actuallyautistic i apparently needed to update my reporting/blocking skills. It’s likely going to be needed this month.

SJrobins, (edited )

@BZBrainz @lgbtqia @actuallyautistic humans can be total jerks - especially if they’ve never been truthful with themselves. It’s a kind of twisted jealousy. I salut you two - never stop living never stop loving.

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SJrobins,

@shiri @BZBrainz you are right. I edited it out. I tend to blurt out without thinking. Thank you for the reminded.

shiri,

@SJrobins @BZBrainz been there done that... where's that meme about trying to insult someone without being derogatory to a whole group? lol

shiri,

@BZBrainz I investigated each of these, block/defederate the whole server: poa.st, cawfee.club, detroitriotcity.com, wolfgirl.bar

Each of them have open hate speech from the admins and one even permits nazis.

Share this with your server admins to let them know you want them defederated.

BZBrainz,
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@shiri I’ve never heard of this before and really appreciate learning about these steps. Thank you. I will do this.

shiri,

@BZBrainz it's a bit extra given that I'm an instance admin myself. But here's the gist to know about moderation on the fediverse:

If your platform supports reporting fire away (in your case Mastodon does). If it doesn't, you'll want to tag your admin in a post.

In the case of reporting tools, reports will typically be sent to your admin and the remote server's admin.

From there it's all human decision making. For us admins, we can do a quick check of the other server to decide if we want to trust their admin to moderate themselves. If we don't trust them or they're otherwise a problem, we can block all activity from that server so no-one on that server can see or interact with our users.

And if it's our user being reported, we can suspend accounts if we agree with the report.

amerika,

@shiri @BZBrainz

As a free speech advocate, I have just domain-blocked both of your instances.

shiri,

@amerika @BZBrainz when the trash takes itself out rofl

Counter Counter Fediblock lol, given that the timeline of that instance is full of homophobia among other nonsense.

shiri,

@BZBrainz also in case anyone is wondering, my instance as all Friendica instances publicly shares the blocklist as well as comments on why something is blocked: foggyminds.com/friendica

Anyone taking issue with me blocking one of those servers is probably not someone I want to interact with anyways.

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