@RickiTarr So many women have gone through the "You'll change your mind."
I know I did not. For some reason, I was fortunate enough to find nobody pushed me on it. Actually the only people who did were acquaintances and my father. Once was enough for them to hear me tell them, "No, I don't think so."
In fact a lot of them ended up admiring me for it. Taking a stand like that is very hard for a woman. It goes against all of our 'training" and society.
RickiTarr