Dani

Reborn_Cat_Mom, 8 hours ago to random

While in conversation with four trans fems, the topic of fashion came up.

I noted we cover the four styles of trans fem clothing.

• Goth @NicolaElle
• High Fem @Impossible_PhD
• Casual fem @Reborn_Cat_Mom
• Hospital gown @kelidanovus

terraboops, 1 day ago to random

for #feminizationfriday today i am gonna talk about pissing. thoughts on bathroom segregation, how i felt about it before and after starting transition, how i feel about it now, as well as some thoughts on the politics of pissing.

i speak solely of my own experiences and my thoughts; they're imperfect and anecdotal. if your experiences don't line up with mine, that's totally chill - please share your experience! i wanna hear about it.

please remember that you & only you know if you are trans ❤️

terraboops, 1 day ago to random

my attachment style is "most annoying girl alive"

Impossible_PhD, 1 day ago to random

I have to admit: posting cleavage pics never gets old.

And yes I zoom in every single time I take one to admire the glory that my will and a surgeon in Florida hath wrought.

indigotyrian, 1 day ago to random

Would it be particularly odd if I had DID on top of all my other bull shit

Impossible_PhD, 3 days ago to random

I'll be taking next week off on SGW. Several reasons why, but generally busy. I'll be out of town for part of the weekend and....

I bought a new car on Monday. My very first new car. For those who haven't, buying a new car is a Whole Fucking Process.

So yeah. Taking the breather.

Impossible_PhD, 5 days ago to nonbinary

What happens after the end of the second year of hormonal transition, once all the doctors say you've seen everything you're going to see. Why is it that basically everyone sees... well, a heck of a lot more?

This week on #StainedGlassWoman, we're talking about Transition Timelines, and the science--and lack thereof--of later transition!

#Nonbinary #FtM #MtF #Trans #Transgender

https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/p/transition-timelines

Impossible_PhD, 4 days ago to random

All right, I've gotta show you something funny.

This is a pretransition pic of me. In a costume I made. For Halloween.

And taught class in.

If trying to make dysphoria a joke was a picture:

Impossible_PhD, 4 days ago to random

I don't generally watch horror movies anymore. They're boring.

Cheap jumpscares, buckets of red syrup, predictable writing. Horror movies became boring to me a long time ago.

I just saw I Saw The TV Glow.

First horror movie I've ever seen that left me in tears, horrified, driving home after.

DivineKestrel, 4 days ago to random

You know the management book I want to read? I've never seen it. The title would be something like "Hug your team" and it would be a feminine view of your team as a teacher helping their class of children succeed.

"Embrace the suck" is a shitty message to hear from a manager.

"How can I help you be happy" is the message we should be sending.

DivineKestrel, 4 days ago to random

I love thinking about what @kelidanovus is doing right now.

…well… not what she's doing right now, because that's just sleeping. But…

It makes me so happy…

thejessiekirk, 4 days ago to random

I was walking along the other week and a guy walking the other way stopped, looked up at me and exclaimed "Jesus!"

I hope he doesn't tell anyone. The world is not ready for Trans Jesus.

oldladyplays, 4 days ago to random

Once again, I am made happy by my machine's incompatibility with Windows 11. No keylogging AI bullshit in Windows 10! Huzzah!

NB: Yes, Windows 10 sucks. But not as bad as an AI-enabled Windows 11.

oldladyplays, 4 days ago to random

Weird night last night, went to bed at about 19h, because I was really tired. Couldn't get to sleep for more than an hour (a totally unusual thing for me - usually five minutes and I'm gone). Then my sleep was fitful, until about 23h when I got up again. This, too, is unusual (the fitful bit).

All got sorted when I went back to bed, though, 3 solid hours after a few minutes to get to sleep. shrug Weird, like I said.

Got a light day today, which is nice: one meeting at 17h, which is inconveniently late, but I'll cope. It's the final meeting for the granting foundation I've been working for. Which is good, because it means the honorarium is coming soon, and I could use it.

Before then, though, I have to go through and score the applications I'm responsible for. That's for this afternoon. This morning, I think I'm going rally driving (virtually). Been about seven or eight months since I drove, but hopefully it won't take too long to get my sharpness back.

One thing I don't understand: cheating in video games. Like, what's the fucking point? You're playing a game with yourself. Whom are you cheating? Great, so you got a world record time with cheating. You're always going to know you didn't really do it, so it's got to be pretty hollow victory.

Thankfully, the newer rally game I'm playing (EA WRC) has rigorous anti-cheating methods. I'm down with that. I don't mind being the 357th fastest person in the game, if that's what I can actually do.

Anyway, that's my post, and I'm sticking to it. Hope your day {is | was | will be} excellent.

DivineKestrel, 5 days ago to random

Trans folk,

Have you had a one-on-one meeting/dinner/coffee/whatever with a cis friend from prior to your transition where that meeting was NOT primarily focused on you explaining yourself and your transition?

I'm trying to think of one. And I can't. I can't think of a single one.

thejessiekirk, 5 days ago to random

Once again I'm offering to very gently tutor some adults in basic mathematics and some folk immediately get very stressed at just the idea of it.

I honestly think some maths teachers permanently ruin a lot of folk's interest in maths when they should be fostering interest in the beauty of it.

Impossible_PhD, 7 days ago to random

Okay, I'm doing one of those anonymous AMA thingies! I'm using Google Forms instead of that one app, but it's still 100% anonymous, and I'll be checking and posting replies over the course of the day.

Here's the link to ask or say whatever you want: https://forms.gle/hEwv6eU4CQHWqBeF9

The only stuff I won't respond to are:

1. Questions about what I've got going on with my pelvis.
2. Anything that's just being mean.

Everything else is on the table, including stuff I wouldn't usually answer. 😉

Impossible_PhD, 6 days ago to random

Ummm

Jesus christ I'm gay.

Gambit's energy, but as a girl?! 😳

Impossible_PhD, 7 days ago to random

Part of me wants to do one of those anonymous ask me anything thingies. I'm curious to know the things people want to ask or say, but are too shy/self conscious to ask.

The other part of me is just a smidge bit worried to do it.

Cuz I wonder what people want to ask or say, but are too ahy/self conscious to ask. 🤭