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Vinjii

@Vinjii@wandering.shop

Swiss lesbian 🌈 somewhere in the UK. Elder Millennial. Made of 📚 📺 and 🎮 She/Her 💜 Chaotic, genre-confused author, and excellent editor.

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Vinjii, to tvshows
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What cheesy tv-shows that are addictive bingeable dramas do you think one should have watched? Asking for... myself

Vinjii, to languagelearning
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I’ve noticed that I am not really passionate about anything in life. I like a lot of things, but nothing lights me up. Trying to figure out if I somehow haven’t tried THE hobby yet. How do people find out what they like?

I’d like to do some but don’t know which one. Japanese, Korean, or Mandarin. My brain keeps yelling: ALL OF THEM.

I’m thinking of doing a course. Probably in-person more so than an online one.

I’m slowly easing back into reading.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum I’ve had massive surgery last year for my endometriosis and (for now) my chronic pain is better, so I’d say currently I’m not as limited by my body. Thankfully, I don’t suffer from fatigue, but my anxiety and trauma creates decision paralysis and a crippling perfectionism which often leads to me not doing something because I’m afraid of doing it badly. Which I’m aware is nonsense, and I should just try and do things, but I really struggle with it.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum I had a hysterectomy last year (including bowel resection, and it was on my ureter too) and I’m finally a bit better, but I’m pretty sure it’s on my ovaries still (they left those in) because there is some residual pain, and I’m terrified of that getting worse again.

My mental health is usually the result of physical problems too, but I feel like my childhood led to me trying to be what I think other people expect me to be, and I never learned to figure out who I am by myself.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum Thank you :) it’s weird how much our brains can “imprison” us.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum Not yet. I’m visiting my dad and have had the pleasure of watching him watch his Scandinavian crime dramas 😂

Vinjii,
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@bluGill That's actually a good point. I'm just looking for hobbies that'll make me happy and give me a sense of joy in my life. I like learning things, and I like languages. So, it's definitely not about sounding native. Same with photography. I love taking photos, but I don't really know much about it, so it would be interesting to learn! I think I get stuck in the "I need to be perfect at the things I do" mindset; I need to shed that. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate it!

Vinjii, to animals
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Mr Blue

Vinjii, to random
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Someone told me to install the Factorio demo, and now I'm worried... I haven't tried it yet.

Someone else told me to try Balatro, but I have zero interest in poker (don't even know the cards), so I don't think we'd get along.

I'd love to read again, but my mental health is in the gutter.

(If anyone finds it, hand it back, & if anyone is currently talking to the universe, please let it know that I don't need anymore lessons, thank you.)

Vinjii,
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The other day I thought maybe I'd finally get into Robin Hobb since Fitz is about as miserable as I am...

I just want to read again. But I cannot focus on anything complex so that rules out seemingly all of my usual genres.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum I lost interest in reading trash too, and prefer watching trashy television instead. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. It’s frustrating.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum I’m always looking for recs. That’s how I discovered Criminal Minds the other week, and while that has a billion seasons, it’s very easy to watch and made me happy. Recs are always very very welcome.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum oh those both sound wonderful. Thank you 🙏

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum no, not usually. I’m pretty okay with most things.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum that sounds fantastic. thank you for the recs!

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum Finished My Fairy Ghost and loved it! Thank you 💜

Vinjii, to Steamdeck
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What are your favourite games on the ? I've got too many games still to play, but always looking for new recommendations

Vinjii, to Anime
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I’m also thinking of watching more again now that I have excess free time 🤔 just have to figure out what the best way is for that when travelling a lot.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum @geraineon Thank you 🤩

Vinjii,
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@geraineon Always looking for recs. I’ve probably watched a bit of a weird selection, but these are my highly rated ones:

Gankutsuou, Katanagatari, Steins;Gate, Mawaru Penguindrum, Shiki, Mahou Shoujo Madoka★Magica.

https://myanimelist.net/animelist/Vinjii&view=list&status=2

Vinjii, to random
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It is my goal in life to find a wife who will write books with me inside a blanket fort.

Vinjii, to television
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I need a or recommendation where the romance has a happy ending, please? I cannot afford to have my heart shredded by fiction currently.

And my brain doesn’t seem to be able to deal with words currently so I’m not reading.

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    Vinjii,
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    @arratoon so so, thank you.

    Vinjii, to random
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    Details

    2/2

    Lola Rennt - 90 minutes of pure fun that keep me on the edge of my seat to this day

    The Talented Mr. Ripley - I love films about villains, especially when they get away with it (if you have any such recommendations, send them my way)

    Amélie - It's so beautiful, charming and quaint, it makes my heart sing, plus Amélie's brain? A lot like mine (meaning my gf hated it)

    Pan's Labyrinth - I love open endings

    Shutter Island - I sat there with my jaw in my lap

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    @arratoon No, I have not but I definitely will because Alain Delon as Ripley sounds magnificent.

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