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toplesstopics

@toplesstopics@eldritch.cafe

My gaming channel/stream: CeriGotGame
My feminism/queer/other progressive values activism channel: ToplessTopics

Hiya! I'm a content creator who focuses on covering a wide variety of subjects, from progressive politics to parenting, gaming to arts and crafts, and I do it all from the perspective of "normalizing female toplessness through repeat exposure". Basically, providing an example of how a woman can be topless WITHOUT it automatically being considered "pornographic."

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GottaLaff, to random
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Okay, back to packing the furniture POD.

And yes, we just lowered the damn price of our house again.

Sigh.

toplesstopics,
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@GottaLaff
I feel you, we called our Escondido house the Hell House because once we decided to move we found so much wrong with it that our apparently lazy-ass VA-appointed house inspector never caught that we had to legally fix before we could sell it, AND we got scammed by the $40k "HERO" home improvement project when we got hvac installed (a growing necessity in Southern California) through a house lien they promised could be rolled into the house sale price but nope... Every single potential buyer insisted - we- had to fully pay it off first ๐Ÿ™ƒ God, so many unpleasant memories... Hope you get through this smoothly!
@isotope239

toplesstopics,
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@GottaLaff
I hope it works out soon for you. Ironically our house DID have a pool, but it was unheated and constantly surrounded by shade from the shaggy palm trees the previous owners thoughtlessly planted even though there wasn't room for them, so the pool was constantly cold, even in So Cal ๐Ÿ™ƒ
@isotope239

toplesstopics,
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@GottaLaff
Everything is topsy turvy for sure...
@isotope239

DivergentDumpsterPhoenix, to actuallyautistic
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The following is a survey asking for the language preferences of Autistic and non-Autistic people regarding autism.

It is open to Autistic and non-Autistic people for the benefit of comparison.

I will also be using the preference results of Autistic people on the "neurodiversity: the basics" page of my website.

Please do fill this out and RT it, I would like to get at least 1000 responses.

Survey-
https://forms.gle/LM9gi4urTt15wkqn9

#AskingAutistics

@neurodiversity @actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy

toplesstopics,
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@DivergentDumpsterPhoenix
Filled it out and would be interested in seeing the results. Honestly I think calling myself an "aspie" sounds cute, like nonbinary people who call themselves "enbies," but I wouldn't presume to call anyone else that, plus I agree there's ambiguity on typecasting "kinds" of autism like Aspergers.
@neurodiversity @actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy @Crazypedia

toplesstopics, to random
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When you ask your kids about a minor detail in the show they like watching and somehow it starts world War three over how a nonsense world is pronounced ๐Ÿ˜‘

toplesstopics, to feminism
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toplesstopics, to random
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Currently in a bar eating food truck sushi while my dad gets gallbladder surgery and they keep playing alternative music from the 2000s I love... Right now they're playing MCR's Helena, which I almost never hear over Black Parade. This place is kinda far (close to the kaiser hospital) but maybe I can head back here some other time when I have more time to spare ๐Ÿค”

toplesstopics, to random
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One piece of good news... After initially refusing a mouse yesterday (as he often does), I left the mouse in overnight and apparently Aziraphel my #hognose #snake changed his mind and ate it after all! ๐ŸŽ‰

Image: cute Lil snek

toplesstopics, to OpenAI
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Gotta appreciate the irony of #openai stealing Scarlett Johansson's voice when she literally already voice-acted as an #AI personality in a 2013 movie. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Her_(film)

makepeace, to art
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I havenโ€™t been able to keep up here like I was. Iโ€™ve been undergoing Physical Therapy for a spine disorder, which hasnโ€™t left me with a lot of spare energy. I have four weeks left! Below is a sketch from a commission Iโ€™ve been working on this month. I love trees. ๐ŸคŽ

#art #sketch #Trees

toplesstopics,
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@makepeace
I have a big ancient "how to draw trees" book somewhere that was printed before I was born, that I still have mostly memorized. Amazing how little details can really make a tree drawing come to life.
@nickspacek

toplesstopics, to ai
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Why isn't there an bot trained to summarize peer-reviewed studies so that can more easily stay informed about advancements in ?

toplesstopics, to LGBT
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A #webcomic page I quickly sketched out while I get ready to go visit my dad in the hospital, inspired by some in-shells in my mentions whining out the same nonsensical arguments for why #gender based #censorship against so-called "female npls" should remain the status quo. First of all, "sksual organs" only applies to the parts actually involved in procreation; the term you're looking for is "erogenous zones," which can apply to ANY gender's npl, as well as lips, ear, knee, elbow, foot, whatever... It depends on the person, and is absolutely not limited to "people who look female." in addition to that, the argument that "female npls must remain banned from public and online because men are attracted to them" is the most asinine argument and I don't understand how (besides #misogyny) anyone can say this with a straight face?? You think straight women and gay men aren't equally as turned on by MALE chests?

It continues to amaze me how, for all our supposed progress towards #equality in other regards, especially #lgbt / #queer issues, top free #inequality remains this one US issue that continues unquestioned and unacknowledged by the vast majority of Americans, even so-called leftists. YOU ARE SAYING IF SOMEONE "LOOKS FEMALE," THEN THEY DESERVE LESS RIGHTS AND PRIVILEGES THAN SOMEONE WHO "LOOKS MALE." HOW ARE YOU OKAY WITH THIS?!?

#feminism #intersectionalFeminism #patriarchy #genderEquality #doubleStandards #malePrivilege #equalityforall #equalRights

toplesstopics, to random
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So uhhh my dad is still in the hospital, we're waiting to find out if he's getting gallbladder surgery or a pacemaker or who knows what, mostly we've just been bored waiting for endless tests after he fell in his room the night before last and lay on the ground for several minutes before he was able to get back up. I'm about to go down and spend some time with him while the kids are at school but I'll have to be back in a few hours to let the dogs out to pee and make sure Fenris hasn't died of anxiety from being left home alone for so long. I'm going to assume he'll still be in the hospital tomorrow so no livestream, but who knows. I'll keep y'all updated if I can livestream after all. Miss you guys โค๏ธ

toplesstopics, to random
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Weee... Fucking US Healthcare industry ๐Ÿ™ƒ so apparently my dad got out of bed last night to go to the bathroom and felt sudden weakness and dizziness so intense that he fell to the ground and took an unknown while to find the strength to get back up (without making enough noise to wake us up, right across the hall)... He didn't hit his head thank God and he's okay now, just quite sore (mainly the leg he already twisted on Wednesday) but even he admitted he wants to get looked over by a doctor, and he HATES doctors so that's saying a lot... Unfortunately he has Kaiser Permanente (paid through my mom's survivorship annuity) so visits with a pcp take 4+ months to schedule (and we still haven't even gotten a call to schedule with a cataract surgeon after they approved him two months ago ๐Ÿ™ƒ) and I'm not sure where or how KP's urgent care clinics work, so I had to play extensive phone tag trying to talk to a live person to find out more and I ended up with an advice nurse who asked a lot of questions and conferred with a doctor, and even though my dad is (comparatively) fine now, they told us to still go to an emergency room, because "urgent care doesn't have the facilities to do imaging work." so I have to bring my 80+ year old dad into a waiting room full of who knows what other virulence, wait for who knows how many hours to have him curtly looked over, poked and prodded and traumatized, then best case scenario get him released to go home and eagerly wait to see how many thousands of dollars we'll owe because US health "insurance" is a criminal enterprise that doesn't cover sht...

What is the f'ing point of "urgent care" if all they can do is check your pulse and look in your ears like any regular pcp?? It's all so fucking corrupt ๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ™ƒ

toplesstopics, to random
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There's a baby at the playground that keeps making sounds that are exactly like OoT 's Navi... It's making me nostalgic, though I always preferred MM

toplesstopics, to random
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Now livestreaming at https://www.twitch.tv/cerigotgame ! Gonna BEAT THIS MFING FINAL BOSS, then do some more runs! Hang out with me!

toplesstopics, to random
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Okay but WHAT TF HAPPENED TO EDWINA??? Kate's whole damn thing the previous season was being overprotective of her sister, but as soon as she gets married, suddenly we don't even hear a whisper of Edwin's existence? It's bad enough they erased all mention of season one's married couple!

Too many characters, man ๐Ÿ˜‘

toplesstopics, to random
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omg no but frrl, Hecate is the sweetest step-mom ever ๐Ÿ˜ญ

toplesstopics, to Discord
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ok that's eerie. Apparently the Mee6 bot that we use on to assign roles now has built-in ai, so I tried asking it why there's still topless inequality and it immediately spat out this response. o.o (honestly I thought it would just see the word 'nipple' and refuse to answer)

toplesstopics,
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You saw it here first, folks: The MEE6 bot on supports !

toplesstopics, to random
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Still can't believe kallmekris CHOSE to move from CANADA to TEXAS. talk about rich white lady privilege. Hope she doesn't get accidentally pregnant after they make it illegal to leave the state for an abortion ๐Ÿ™ƒ

toplesstopics, to random
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I've decided after I get back from Vidcon in June, I'm going to embark on a project to "wear something different every single day" so I can force myself to get through all my closet, including the stuff I've never worn (it's all from thrift stores, don't worry). It's a pity I just don't have anywhere to show any of it off...it'll be quite hot by then I assume so at least I can wear some dresses finally, but other than taking the kids to the park and grocery store shopping, I don't know what other opportunities for leaving the house I'll have ๐Ÿ˜ญ

toplesstopics, to trans
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toplesstopics,
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@MegaMichelle I've heard of that a few times. It's insanity.

autism101, to actuallyautistic
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As autistic people, we donโ€™t need to apologize to others for our differences.

Illustration by Izzy @autieselfcare

#ActuallyAutistic #AuDHD @actuallyautistic

toplesstopics,
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@autism101
I'd like to see "relate to people by adding similar stories of my own experiences to theirs as a sign of empathy" or something to that effect... I hated myself for so long for being "self centered" as the neurotypicals would call me, because they didn't understand that I wasn't trying to "make them talk about me," I was literally trying to say "I understand what you mean, because I've felt something similar!"
@actuallyautistic @pascoda

GottaLaff, (edited ) to random
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Some on Mastodon just love to take a tiny sliver of good news and turn it into doom or cheap shots.

Iโ€™m done w/ people who do that.

Iโ€™m fine with genuine RATIONAL POLITE disagreements or criticism. I have to point that out since Iโ€™ve been accused of/blocked for intolerance of diff opinions๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿผwhich Iโ€™ve always welcomed

This is about mudslinging, labels, name-calling, misinfo, & disdain for scarce positives & replying w something designed to provoke &/or kneejerk-negate welcome news. Kthxbye.

toplesstopics,
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@Phreba
Always a fun game of checking the profiles of people leaving nasty replies on my posts for that telltale "nov 2022" join date (or April 2022) ๐Ÿ˜
@GottaLaff @tuban_muzuru

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