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toplesstopics

@toplesstopics@eldritch.cafe

My gaming channel/stream: CeriGotGame
My feminism/queer/other progressive values activism channel: ToplessTopics

Hiya! I'm a content creator who focuses on covering a wide variety of subjects, from progressive politics to parenting, gaming to arts and crafts, and I do it all from the perspective of "normalizing female toplessness through repeat exposure". Basically, providing an example of how a woman can be topless WITHOUT it automatically being considered "pornographic."

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toplesstopics, to random
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Whenever we finally have a lull in taking my dad to doctor's appointments, I need to Google how to become a caretaker... Since I'm officially changing my dad's diapers now, I ought to see if I can get paid for it.

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toplesstopics, to feminism
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Even Hecate wants to weigh in on the " #bearOrMan" debate.

#Hades2 #feminism #patriarchy #malePrivilege

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https://www.thegamer.com/disco-elysium-kim-kitsuragi-queer-representation/ an article I stumbled on about queer representation in video games that lines up with a lot of how I feel about it. It's funny because I literally just watched a movie with my dad where the main "conflict" of the story was the thirty-something main character coming to grips with their newly recognized gayness, and I know it's a privileged take of mine, but considering it was already set in a trendy major city with young people, I just kept thinking "what's the big deal?"

toplesstopics, to random
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It's nearly 90 degrees in the house today and ironically my husband is wearing the most clothing of us all...he's in underwear and pj pants, I'm in JUST underwear (no shirt! scandalous!) and both of my sons are entirely buck naked XD

toplesstopics, to trans
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toplesstopics, to random
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Instead of "Bernie bros," let's call the "trump and Biden are equally bad so I'm not voting for either" types the "Burn-It-All-Down Bros"

toplesstopics, to random
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I like when you're fighting [redacted] in #Hades2 and when Toula gets a hit in, she yells "Cat...!" 😂

toplesstopics, to random
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I finally had #ArkAscended looking decent on my pc for a while (as long as I'm not streaming) but then Nvidia had an update and after it installed the game defaulted back to "epic" settings but my frame rate was under 20 at best, so I tried lowering to "high" and changing some other settings but even if I set it back to epic, now I get this weird checkerboard effect on ground textures not loading in and nothing I've tried has fixed it TT_TT #unreal5

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Can't do the livestream on Friday... Apparently the kids are getting out of school early at 12, plus I'm volunteering for a school sports thing in the morning, then taking my dad all the way up to Longview for a CT scan that evening 😩 They're going to finally release my dad to come home Sunday... I'm nervous how much I'm going to have to directly care for him, but at least I won't have to keep driving out to visit him for hours every day.

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It's going to be hell as far as finding childcare so I can take my dad to his doctor's appointments, but God am I looking forward to not having to get up so early every day to get the kids off to school, once they're out in two weeks for summer 😩

toplesstopics, to random
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We've got medical debt from my dad's long hospital stay racking up so I'm doing a hentai adult gaming stream sub-a-thon at https://www.joystick.tv/u/toplesstopics !

toplesstopics, to random
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Today's short video: "hot" guys can be creeps too

https://youtube.com/shorts/Y4wRpzi7ZNc?si=H5WjJNItbkWV1qXY

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRK97x6A/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C7zSiC9JkPF/?igsh=MTNudTFtajNnM2dzYQ==

(please like, comment, share, etc to help me escape the shadowbans by the patriarchy 😅)

toplesstopics, to random
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So cute... Link lost another tooth for the first time in months and came to ask me to help him write a note to the tooth fairy, I encouraged him to add the second line so it wasn't so demanding 😅 I love that he's about to turn 8 but he still believes in the tooth fairy... I miss that innocence.

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I wonder if I'm ever going to mature past the point where the more someone is mean to me, the more desperately I feel like I have to keep trying to become whatever will make them like me.

toplesstopics, to random
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I think I'm going to "take the L" and stop trying to go to this one person's livestream, sometimes my jokes hit and sometimes they're horribly misinterpreted and it's not worth the gut punch. Some livestreamers are very critical and hard to please, and that's okay.

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Very interesting, I'm looking at the analytics for that very short video I did asking neurodivergent people how many neurotypical friends they have, and not only does it have wayyy more views than anything else I post gets (especially when it's not unintentional "rage bait" like saying "gun control is good" or "I choose the bear"), but the people who watched it are apparently disproportionately female... As a top free feminist activist, the vaaaast majority of people who watch my videos on mainstream platforms are males, both because they're the ones searching for porn on YouTube (I don't post porn, just heavily censored nonsexual topless-while-female vlogs and social commentary videos, but of course my videos still show up next to porn because patriarchy) and because they're the ones hate-watching my content. I would desperately love to have more women watch my videos, but I have yet to crack the code to find more of them 😭 maybe I can find a hot male friend to just pose topless with my audio playing over them and that's what it'll take 😂

Video analytics screenshot showing 8.6k views, 8.1k more than usual

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I truly don't understand why so many neurotypical/allistic people interpret "responding to a story about your personal experiences with a similar personal story of my own" as "trying to make the conversation about myself"?? Like, in my ND mind, it's very obvious I'm trying to empathize with them by saying "I get it, I know how that feels, I felt something similar when this other thing happened"?

Like, if I said "I'm afraid of heights" and someone else said "I'm afraid of spiders," I would NEVER interpret that as them saying "I don't care about your fear of heights, I just want to talk about my own fears now"???

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Made a short funny video on Tiktok about men equating women wanting to have the exact same right to go without a shirt online and in public that they get, with men showing off their dks, and the only comment it got was from a troll apparently making a transphobic insult towards me (I'm assuming. Rightwingers' favorite "insult" is to accuse me of being trans). Feel free to look up my Tiktok and leave a nice comment so the only comment on there isn't from a mean troll... @toplesstopicstv

toplesstopics, to random
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I'm bored and anxious so I'm starting my Friday livestream early. Come hang out with me on Twitch while I sew garb for my kids' first Renaissance Faire! https://www.twitch.tv/cerigotgame

toplesstopics, to random
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I know that mastodon is 95% programmers who will just laugh at me for this, but fuck is github confusing. All I want to do is install streamfx to obs so I can blur a screen, but all the tutorials i can find say to install an exe but i can't find any exe on the github page that every search for streamfx links me to...some forum posts mention a zip, great but i can't find a zip either, and wouldn't know where to install it either... 🤬​

https://github.com/Xaymar/obs-StreamFX?search=1

toplesstopics,
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I'm just going to give up because I have to start streaming soon, but why the fuck is github so obtuse? Why don't they have at least a bit of instructions in the description at the bottom?? why make a free plugin but make the installation so confusing that only people who could maybe program their own plugin can figure out how to install it??

toplesstopics, to Youtube
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I finally found a rare gem of a supporter who cares enough about my fight for abolishing specific that he goes the extra mile and PUTS UP HIS OWN VIDEO RESPONSES 🤯 Except now he's banned on from posting for a week, simply for linking to my website toplesstopics(dot)org 🙃 there's nothing whatsoever sksual on my site, literally just links to the "patriarchy unfriendly" versions of my videos I host on Peertube where my heinous female npls are visible as I just sit there talking about whatever, not at all sksual like the MILLIONS of "people who look male" posting top (less) thirst traps on every mainstream platform. I've known YouTube has blocklisted my website for years (and basically anything else I've ever linked to, see toplesstopics(dot)org/banned for hundreds of screenshots of proof), but someone ELSE, an MAN even, getting a week long ban for linking to my website is a new frontier of blatantly misogynistic fascist censorship that I've yet to see crossed.

It's so enraging, because this guy is such a BAMF for not only commenting on my social media posts, but making FULL-A** VIDEO RESPONSES, which is something I've had happen maybe five times ever in the ten years I've been making videos about top freedom. He says he'll still keep making new videos after the ban ends, and I appreciate him more than words can say for doing this. The ONLY way we can EVER convince these capitalist institutions to stop assigning different levels of censorship based on "what gender you look like" is if A WHOLE LOT OF PEOPLE are VERY LOUD in pointing out the hypocrisy, and dudes like this are precious all-stars in this fight ❤️

toplesstopics,
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https://youtube.com/@mitdasein
Please subscribe, like, comment etc in support of this wonderful human who has gone above and beyond in supporting my fight against specific by making multiple video responses to my own posts, and consider making your own videos as well, or at least text or image posts sharing why you think banning the chests of "people who look female" from online and in public as "sexually explicit nudity" but not the chests of "people who look male" is hypocrisy that needs to stop ❤️

toplesstopics, to random
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I got a distressing phone call about my dad's health this morning... I'll talk about it during my twitch livestream at 12 today because it's too exhausting to type it all out by thumb 😣 https://www.twitch.tv/cerigotgame

toplesstopics,
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Come help me feel better about finding out terrible news about my dad's health at 12pm PST at https://www.twitch.tv/cerigotgame 🙃

(I swear I'm not trying to click bait anything, I just am feeling pretty shocked right now and don't have the spoons to type it all out)

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