@adiz@scathach you should stop using dating apps. They are designed to make you miserable. I mean, if you could find someone on the first swipe, you wouldn't even use that app for longer than that, would you?
@adiz@scathach not on fedi, that's for sure. Get a hobby that will expose you to women. My usual advice would be to sign up for dance classes. Lots of girls there!
@adiz@scathach soooo... get yourself a less gay hobby. Sorry, fam. If you want some pussy, you'll have to put some effort. Whining on fedi won't get you anywhere.
@adiz@scathach painting? Other arts and crafts? I dunno, ask women about that.
The main appeal of dancing is that it forces intimacy without it looking like sexual harassment. Just make sure to dress well and keep yourself clean and tidy.
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fully agreed about your suggestions so far. it's important to just expose yourself to women, so they can notice you :mashirooNotice:
what works well, because you also imply a good moral character:
@adiz it depends. you know that women have two axis of evaluating attractiveness. the social and the primal/superficial, while men only have the superficial.
@kaia in either case it's the superficial which is the immediate determination, which inevitability terminated any opportunities for the social unless there's a circumstantial reason otherwise. you'll never get to know the social past the superficial from a stranger.
@kaia@adiz which is exactly why i can’t use online dating apps. they’re entirely useless because looks and whatever people put in their bios just don’t really matter to me until i get to know them
well, “dating” never really happened, and i don’t see the point of it. we met on fedi, then irl with no expectations beyond friendship, and both times just instantly connected like we never had with anybody else :cirno_shrug:
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