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Dani

@Dani@mastodon.sandwich.net

Yet another birdsite refugee... and now here. WIP, TBD. She/her, trans/lesbian, married dad, mechanical engineer, car girl. HRT 5/2/2022

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DivineKestrel, to random
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All right, lesbians I'm gonna need y'all to start coming out of the woodwork and hitting on me more than the dudes are please

Dani,
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@DivineKestrel ... I don't know how to do that though.

DivineKestrel, to random
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Breaking: Trans woman buys collar and after a minor amount of hyperventilation, enters restaurant.

Dani,
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@DivineKestrel... I... do not

terraboops, to random
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new followers are probably all "oh i shouldn't like her followers only titty pic she posted a while ago that would be creepy" - but like, why do you think i posted a titty pic?

Dani,
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@terraboops Huh... that's some food for thought for me. 😅

Dani,
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@terraboops uh. Which is to say I've been thinking about discomfort with my body and being perceived and these are some thoughts that dovetail

Dani,
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@terraboops 💜
You've figured out things I haven't, though, so it'd be silly to not see if some of your thoughts work better.

And not silly in a fun way. 😅

Dani,
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@terraboops Oh quite! "inspiration not instructions" kinda vibe

Dani, to random
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Went to bed at 9 last night as a kind of extreme "I'm tired what if I actually got more sleep?" experiment.

Holy hell. How much of what's been wrong with my thinking has just been that?

Like I don't think that fixes everything but wow.

Dani,
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@NinjaDebugger that diagnostic table isn't correct for me though! 😅

Impossible_PhD, to random
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I've had quite a fair lot of surgery. I am very, very tired of it, and I want no more transition surgeries. Period.

But I saw a trans gal recently who got lipo and a tummy tuck, and afterward, her hips and ass came the fuck in. No BBL, but kinda looked like she had.

And I've got a tummy pooch that's literally the only part of my body I'm not a fan of, and the idea I could light some money on fire and cast "transmute tummy to ass" is... more tempting that I'd like.

Dani,
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@Impossible_PhD ... being the one aspect of my body I can perceive... oof, I hear you. 😅

DivineKestrel, to random
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I've decided I absolutely want FFS. I don't want it because I want to be beautiful, and I don't even want it to be more feminine. I actually want it because the more I feminize, the more I look like my mom. And I have enough fucking cPTSD from that abusive, crazy-ass bitch to deal with all ready without seeing her fucking face in the mirror all the time. Yes, I will 100% get surgery to cut that bitch out of my life.

Dani,
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@DivineKestrel Yeah, totally understandable considering.

terraboops, to random
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✅ do cool stuff while queer
✅ be a cool queer
✅ don't do cool stuff while queer
✅ still a cool queer tho 😽

Dani,
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@terraboops Hmm. I need to figure out the "be a cool queer" part. 😁

DivineKestrel, to random
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I'm on a zoom meeting and the combination of my underbust corset and the Macbook camera makes my boobs look like they are bigger than my head.

No, you miscreants, I won't post a picture. You'll have to use your imaginations.

Dani,
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@DivineKestrel Aww. 🥺

thejessiekirk, to random
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"{INSERT WHATEVER LOW AGE HERE} is too late to transition.

If you say so. I'm 36. 🤷‍♀️

Dani,
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@thejessiekirk 42 here. Whatever, you know?

Dani,
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@thejessiekirk Society obsessed with youth, or something.

Impossible_PhD, to random
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Well, I hate to do this, but it's now necessary:

A person named Emily has been stalking me across multiple platforms, most recently Reddit. She is self-abusing to a massive degree, and repeatedly insists on using me as an accessory to her self-harm. This is her most recent account I've blocked--number four, by my count--and I'm informing you all so that, if you see or are aware of a person in this sort of situation who is trying to gain access to me, that you can let me know and/or stop her.

Dani,
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@Impossible_PhD Oof, heck. Noted.

DivineKestrel, to random
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Deanna Troi was my first conscious gender envy.

Dani,
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@DivineKestrel ... Ripley here, I think. Though I didn't figure out what it was for a while.

Impossible_PhD, to random
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I grabbed lunch with a friend and she snapped a casual shot of me. When I asked why, she showed me the shot. 🤭

Dani,
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@Impossible_PhD ... weird thought maybe... something in your vibes hits me as goals here. Not in the sense of how you look (which is lovely but I'm thinking I'll go a different way) but even tired you look at home in yourself.

Dani,
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@Impossible_PhD 💜

Some parts of this whole thing are "I don't know what I want in the end but I can try the next step"... that one's the opposite. But you know, sure I'll get there.

DivineKestrel, to random
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Terra's Type, in a single image.

Dani,
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@DivineKestrel ... odd coincidence as she's a lovely example of goals for me.

Impossible_PhD, to random
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It came with a typo, saying associate (which I already was) instead of full, but it came today.

I am officially a full professor!

Big day today, that's for sure!

Dani,
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@Impossible_PhD HELL YES! Congratulations!

indigotyrian, to random
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Even among misfits I’m a misfit.

Dani,
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@indigotyrian I know at least degrees of that... I'm sorry. Anything to be done?

Dani,
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@indigotyrian I got a bit to, fuelled by spite sometimes, in some spaces... not a universally good idea, maybe not applicable.

Dunno. Never saw you be someone other than one I'd like to try to help up.

Impossible_PhD, to random
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I just learned that Naomi Wu, that sexycyborg lady creator, was raised as a boy because of China's One Child policy.

And that it is because she was raised and had to live as a boy that she found a hyperfeminine, and particularly a super-busty, body to be extremely resonant.

Looks down at her own tits.

I... I'm just gonna sit with that for a little while.

Wow.

Dani,
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Impossible_PhD, to random
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Okay, so, odd question:

I've been struggle-bussing a bit over the last few days about struggling to find a home for my novel, and a lot of people have expressed interest. Obviously, since I'm trying to publish it, I can't share.

I started a different novel shortly after finishing it. About 10,000 words done, but shelved indefinitely because I've got SGW and other stuff to write. I like it a lot, but I don't and won't have time in the foreseeable future to keep working on it.

So... Wanna read?

Dani,
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@Impossible_PhD @doctor_bimbo @OftOverthinking I only now had a chance... and oops I'm accidentally late to go home after work.

I'll give more feedback once I have a chance but oh gosh I want to watch that shake out

Impossible_PhD, to random
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Oh.

My.

God.

So I went to gencon once upon a time, and Marie-Claude Bourbonnais was cosplaying the whole weekend and made me FEEL THINGS I couldn't understand. Eventually, after much prodding, my wife got me to go up to her and get a picture of the two of us (I am, for clarity, on the right).

YALL.

YALL, LOOK AT WHAT THIS WOMAN LOOKS LIKE. AND LOOK AT HOW I TURNED OUT.

AAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH ANYONE WHO SAYS GENDER ISN'T INNATE IS NUTS! 😂😂😂

Dani,
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@Impossible_PhD Oh. My gosh. That's amazing

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