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aparna

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A nice little egg, nurtured for 40+ years, but is now wondering if it’s safe to come out of the shell. Treads on egg shells for that reason. Isn’t afraid of using mixed metaphors, as you’d notice.

May geek out occasionally, but this is not the account for that.

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aparna, to random
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Important tip: “does @lisamelton think this piece of news is important?”is often a good heuristic to filter news signals from the noise.

aparna, to random
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Morning fedi-fam! 897+ new messages to wade through in home screen. My follows continue to be US-centric. 😀

(Neither a good nor a bad thing. It’s just what it is)

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    @lisamelton @rooster Yes you, Lisa. I concur. 😀

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    "Transbian" sounds a little too much like a debian-based linux distribution

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    aparna,
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    @ChloeCat Immediately to be mansplained by someone to be “Actually, it’s GNU/ Transbian”…

    aparna, to random
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    Just been reading the last chapter. (Yes, I’m reading the last chapter first; blame the doc for this 🤷🏻‍♀️)

    It is every bit breathtaking as @Impossible_PhD suggests.
    https://hachyderm.io/

    aparna,
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    @OftOverthinking This bit resonated with me quite a bit. You become “Extremely Woman” (“mujerísima”) by modestly being good enough (“suficientemente bueno”) per your definition.

    I hope I got it right, @Impossible_PhD Trying to summarise here.

    aparna,
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    @Impossible_PhD @OftOverthinking Didn’t express it well (see, this is why you should be in the newsletter writing business 😀) but yes; my understanding is exactly what you shared.

    No perfect goal, certainly none set by others; you are good enough per what you’ve set for yourself. 😊

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    @Impossible_PhD @OftOverthinking When I teach, I get mildly annoyed when my students start discussing my reading material with me even before class.

    So in that spirit, will hold off discussion until after you’ve published your piece 😊

    Impossible_PhD, to random
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    I mentioned this in a thread, but I wanted to show the femmes out there what I mean when I walk about the Heel Drop Trick for boobs.

    Stand on your tippy toes in front of a mirror, and then quickly drop to your heels.

    Here's a video illustrating it.

    You know. For Science.

    video/mp4

    aparna,
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    @Impossible_PhD Clicking fav only for science.

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    Going for a mujerisima vibe at work today (I don't know how to do the right accents on mobile).

    aparna,
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    @Impossible_PhD ¿Mujerísima?

    If you’re on iOS, deep press the letter. You’ll get a few options. Select the letter you want.😊

    Y si, tu mirada es muy bonita. 😊

    aparna,
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    @Impossible_PhD Depending on the version, the same trick may just work on Android as well. If not, I usually switch to French Canadian keyboard, which would involve a few more steps. 😊

    Will have to read up on the philosophy. I kind of understand the term from my A1 level Spanish, and I’ve heard mujerismo (“womanism”?) before. Just may have to add A Short History of Trans Misogyny to my reading list now!

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    @Impossible_PhD So it turns out my (American, top 20, but based in the South) university’s digital library does have a copy, but only as a 11 page sample. Would you believe it?!

    I see the last chapter is titled Mujerísima (with a single accent on i). Found myself nodding my head reading the little sample here; let’s see if I can get a bigger edition from somewhere!

    (Yeah, Gboard’s predictive text is terrible)

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    I'm feeling so worn down the last few days. I am failing to keep up with a lot of things in my life and I've fallen so far behind something will give soon and I'm not sure what. And the news just makes me feel rather hopeless for the near future too.

    I really do feel like giving up. On everything. Almost every night for the past month or two. I know I will wake up tomorrow and not just tread water but swim, like I do every day. But for tonight, I am just going to fail and allow myself to fail utterly.

    Maybe some day I won't go to bed almost every night feeling like I don't think I an bear to wake up to another day. But maybe I won't. Maybe this is just what it is to live with my brain in this world now. Either way, it's still worth it. You all are still worth it. And we will wake up tomorrow and make things worth it again.

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    @JoscelynTransient 🫂🫂🫂

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    @rooster I’m now okay to write stuff on my phone but need a big screen for design and when I need to refer some other else.

    The latter happens 99% of the time, so.

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    I have several essays I feel a deep compulsion to write, but do not yet have the time/energy between my two jobs and other projects.

    This most likely means y'all are going to be flooded with essays come this summer on topics like:

    1. what is horny horror and why?
    2. abolitionist trans thought
    3. Foucault and Orange is the New Black
    4. how a fear of not being middle class has coopted the trans liberation movement in the US and elsewhere
    5. how class impacts social media communication etiquette and conflict styles
    6. how material class conditions shape how we understand the interiorities and externalities of transness
    7. Harley Quinn as queer trans allegory
    8. why am I like this?
    9. the undead as metaphors for transness
    10. sloths
    aparna,
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    @JoscelynTransient Looking forward to them all! 😊

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