@Radical_EgoCom@RustyBertrand the rhetorical and philosophical point that there is a gray zone, one that allows for excuses, but also for forgiveness. This is the liminal space disabled people live in.
What we need to inspect is what each of us holds as forgivable, who falls in line with it, who doesn't and why. Specifically we need to look at when we ourselves fall into it.
The stark, simple abstraction leaves out a morally/philosophically critical population.