@AdaraAstin Well, it depends on the context of the question. By saying no to something, what sort of context is this headed towards? i should have asked before because I being a young fool assumed romantic intent.
I looked up an ex on a whim and discovered that in our years apart, he has started to lose his hair, despite being relatively young, and is well on his way to being bald.
It's an oddly consistent pattern that men who treat me badly go bald and the ones who treat me well retain their hair.
A male friend told me that he acutely feels the absence of lingerie options for men, and when a woman is all dressed up for him and the best he's got is regular boxers, he feels like he's letting her down.
Masc people, are there options for (masc) dress-up undergarments that give you joy? What are youe go-to lingerie-ish things? Anything?
> “This is a bar,” I wanted to say, the same way that my grandmother might have said “This is a church.” A bar is not the appropriate venue for a loud, show-offy conversation about The Pervert’s Guide to Ideology.
The Best Time I Pretended I Hadn’t Heard of Slavoj ŽižekL One weird trick to frustrate the hell out of a Marxist bro, by Rosa Lyster, is my delightful read of the night & I recommend it.
Today I've tried to boost a handful of posts, then realized they had no alt text, and unboosted them. (Normally I catch this more efficiently but today I am tired.)
Friends, please add alt text when you can. Help the rest of us boost you to a wider audience!
(*Note the "when you can." I know it can be complicated, and I am aware of the ableism rampant in the discourse.)
I have been chatting with @Holberg about the DIVINE sound of the Hammond organ so tell me, all: what are your favorite songs that really show the Hammond organ off?