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@ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Admin of lemmy.blahaj.zone

I can also be found on the microblog fediverse at @ada or on matrix at @ada:chat.blahaj.zone

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Animation - A community for enthusiasts and fans to discuss all things animation

Hi all, when I first joined Lemmy (and the fediverse broadly) I was interested in having discussions around animated media. Unfortunately it seems all the existing communities were either dead, inactive, had a slightly different (usually narrower) scope, or some combination of the 3....

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I’m not sure about that place… I’ve heard things can get quite animated in that community…

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Just got a new PC, and I’m running Linux as my only OS now, so I’ve been spinning up some of my old favourites to test things out.

Mechwarrior 5, Crusader Kings III and even a bit of Cyberpunk (technically older than 12+ months, but it doesn’t feel in the spirit of this community)

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As part of my fitness training earlier in my life, I got used to getting up early (somewhere between 5am and 6am). I’m nowhere near as fit as I used to be, but I still get up early.

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I guarantee you know more monogamous people who have lost their relationships to jealousy.

This isn’t a polyamory issue

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I used to work in the place they were travelling all that way to perform at!

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I was a full on bundle of rage before I transitioned. I don’t know that my other emotions are much different, but the anger is gone.

But I can’t tell you if that’s because of the HRT or because I stopped living in the closet.

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Hi, it’s me, but to be fair, not for this particular reason.

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Honestly, you can probably just wait it out. The problem comes about from lack of explicit sync compatibility, and that’s just been merged in to Wayland and Kwin. Once the nvidia-beta drivers with the feature are released (a month or two?) then most nvidia/Wayland problems should go away

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A snow tram?! Is that a real thing?

I need some tucking help

As a transfem, it’s probably not a surprise that I get disphoric about a certain area. Tucking normally doesn’t really work for me because it leaves tape residue everywhere, hurts like hell to remove the tape and is super inconvenient (even though it’s medical tape). My idea: there has to be at least some underwear that is...

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I used a home made gaff with stockings and socks. It did the trick nicely, though they didn’t last more than a couple of uses

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Hate spreaders need people to spread hate to, but people that are targeted by hate tend not to hang around in spaces where unrestrained hate is allowed.

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This is an editorial article on a moral philosophy essay site. It’s not science news

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.world is too large for the way lemmy is currently designed. It’s a software limit, not a hardware limit.

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Yep. Batching and/or multiple parallel channels per remote instance would solve it.

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I’m in the lemmy.world admin back channel, but that’s it as far as lemmy.world goes. @ada:chat.blahaj.zone

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I left that channel when one of the lemmy devs decided to take a swipe at our instance for the way we handled transphobia on another instance

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One of my favourite things is seeing photos of guys when they’ve been able to go swimming shirtless for the first time. That huge smile is pure joy :)

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I’m an extrovert, and I was a gifted kid. I haven’t been gaslit about my abilities, and I was supported and encouraged as a kid. I know what I’m capable of, and I know my limitations. I love myself, and wouldn’t choose to be anyone else.

Yet I hate compliments.

To me, compliments feel like someone passing judgement on me, like they’re putting themselves in a place above me so they can judge me. I’m aware that’s not what they’re doing, but that’s always been what it feels like to me.

However, you can compliment things I’ve done, and I’m here for it

I have no idea what it means :)

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While I personally think they aren’t judging me, I sometimes feel like I’m doing exactly what you have described when I compliment people. I try to compliment people whenever I can in order to make them feel good and while it works, I feel like I’m above them for doing so.

Yep, I struggle giving compliments for the same reason! So I give compliments in the way I can receive them, which is to compliment the things that people have said/done or are planning etc, rather than complimenting the person.

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