side note: I started going through all the "womens" glasses on Zenni a while ago and 99% of them looked like absolute garbage on me in the "virtual try on" thing and there were SO many that i just gave up.
Why are shapes gendered?! Why are colors gendered?! Why can't a boy wear "cat-eye" glasses unless they're a "flaming homosexual"‡. Why is a girl "butch" if she wears rectangular ones?
‡ 🤔 Is that still the current term for really femmy gay guys? Is there something more acceptable?