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aegir

@aegir@toot.wales

I live in Carmarthenshire with my husband, I make things, draw things, play with tools and techniques and enjoy my garden.

I design software for schools, doing research, systems design, illustration, ui and graphic design.

I believe things can and should be better. The economy, internet, politics, are made by humans and in our power to change, they aren’t laws of nature.

Politically left, morally Quaker-flavoured animist humanist

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aegir, to Figma
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Figma help needed! Sort of. I have some colleagues who will be using Figma for the first time soon. Do you have any Figma introductory courses or resources that you can recommend?

I specifically would like ones you know are good - from doing them or people recommending them. (I have of course used search engines myself already)

Boosts welcomed!

aegir,
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@eyrea Thanks, I had seen this but it seems to be starting at a higher level than my colleagues are at. Did you begin using Figma starting only with these?

vlrny, to random
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Today I am putting love and tolerance out into the world by not beating the neighbour with the leaf blower to death with their own machine.

It's an extraordinary feat of equanimity considering this headache.

aegir,
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@vlrny It’s far more than they deserve. I often end up imagining various painful ways people with pressure washers could meet their end too. I mean it’s a 2 metre path, how can it take 4 hours!?

aegir,
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@vlrny And they’re free to run too!

ElleGray, to random
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I must have it

aegir,
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@ElleGray Buy it buy it! But toot about what happens too

Big Brother Popcorn GIF by Pop TV

MsHearthWitch, to random
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Fedi friends...

At what point do you stop investing in one way relationships?

It is wearying always being the first to reach out, to check in. The only one to extend an invitation.

I understand we all have seasons of life. I'm not talking months, I'm talking years.

To genuinely try to connect with someone only to be repeatedly met with indifference is hard. And I'm not sure I can take it anymore. Genetics or not.

Do I say something? Or just fade away?

aegir,
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@MsHearthWitch I largely stepped away from any relationship with my parents for many years, only having ‘minimally polite’ interactions with them. We did talk more later on, but much more like acquaintances than family. It let me reestablish a sense of who I was and feel some self worth, possibly a literal life saver!

aegir,
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@MsHearthWitch Pretty depressing stuff, it sounds like nothing other than a drain of your energy?

aegir,
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@MsHearthWitch Sounds sensible, stop wasting your energy, see if they ever expend any of theirs. Hugs!

aegir, to random
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Beautiful sky this evening!

davidallengreen, to random
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Recommendations please, for the best ginger biscuits.

Assume I am aware of McVities ginger nuts, and main supermarket own brands.

This is an important question.

aegir,
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@davidallengreen Pepparkakor! These ones especially if you like a fancy tin as well:

aegir, to random
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I think a lot of us know what would have improved Tumblr’s stats. 🙄

MsHearthWitch, to food
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I am genuinely curious how many of the folks messaging me asking me to explain why CW-ing food is harmful have messaged folks who ask to CW food the same thing.

Maybe I'm wrong, but I suspect probably not?

I think our society generally accepts this idea that putting food behind warnings is right. Hiding it away. Viewing it as shameful, guilty pleasures, something only to be earned...

So they readily buy into the "oh yes, CW food is good" without the same critique/examination.

aegir,
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@MsHearthWitch Was it you who tooted about this a few weeks ago? I hadn’t considered this take on it but it really stuck with me and changed how I do things. I wondered if we should do the same about alcohol too.

aegir,
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@MsHearthWitch I don’t think you’re trying to be a dick, it’s genuinely interesting and I agree it’s a better approach.

aegir,
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@MsHearthWitch Some people seem to demand a solution is always a universal solution and (perhaps deliberately) miss the point. It works for this! Anyway, thank you, I’ll let you get on 😄

aegir, to random
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The interior building work is done! A couple of weeks ago I was regretting ever starting and wondering if it’d ever get done. This is the difference professional builders make. RIP my savings but yay workshop! My plywood palace. 😄 Just needs to dry out and I can get the electrics and floor tiles in. And paint and varnish.

aegir,
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@MsHearthWitch Thank you! I’m very excited by it. For years I’ve been saying “When I get the garage done, I’ll…” 😄😄😄

aegir,
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@MsHearthWitch Ha! I’m actually worried I’ll have ”opportunity paralysis”, I can start on all these things and won’t know where to start!

aegir,
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aegir, to random
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But! Good things! We have a ceiling!

aegir,
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@James This winter I won’t be freezing my nuts off out there!

James, to random
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It might not be jocktober anymore, but I just got this new jock in the mail and it made my day just a little bit better.

aegir,
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@James wow

Gargron, to random
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I wish I could live here. It’s so beautiful 🥲

aegir,
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@Gargron I grew up near there, it’s gorgeous.

aegir, to random
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I’ve noticed hardly anyone seems to put content warnings on news now. At a time where it’s more needed than ever, it’s here, have some triggering shit in your timeline. So, disable boosts it is.

aegir,
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@MsHearthWitch It’s a chore isn’t it? Just had someone justifying their lack of CWs because it reduces engagement. At the expense of everyone’s wellbeing apparently. 🙄

aegir,
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@MsHearthWitch Took me aback! Then I blocked them. 😤

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