MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

She died rather than accepting a free to her, safe, and effective vaccine.

Potatos_are_not_friends,

Well the vaccine could have killed her!

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

Yup. Literally the worst thing that could have happened to her had she taken the vaccine happened to her because she didn’t take the vaccine. Maybe they’ll put a monument to her on top of the hill that she chose to die on.

Steeve,

They actually might, it’s Alberta

Oderus,

Let’s not paint all Albertans as the same. There are dozens of us who are sane.

iBaz,

And free 5G service for life.

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

I was hoping to turn into a magnetic monkey with 5G tracking chips. No such luck.

The best few minutes of the pandemic for me was watching my 15 year old autistic daughter disassemble and completely humiliate a reality-denying mid-50s angry man at a farmers market. It was glorious.

girlfreddy,
@girlfreddy@mastodon.social avatar

@MapleEngineer @iBaz

Your daughter sounds like an awesome young woman!!!

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

Thanks. She is pretty awesome. Three of the people there to witness it, two labour negotiators and a “consultant” to CSIS, approached me the next week to say how impressed they were. She was clearly angry but she knew the data and presented it effectively. He slunk off after that. It was true awesome.

Maddie,
@Maddie@sh.itjust.works avatar

She probably should’ve gotten the vaccine, huh?

VanillaGorilla,

And suffer the potential consequences like a mild headache and a sore arm for some days? Never!

some_guy,

What a dumnass. In her Pyrrhic victory not to be made into a 5g zombie (or whatever nonsense she might have believed) she stood her ground and died like an idiot. She gets no tears from me.

MapleEngineer, (edited )
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

I’ve had…4 different vaccines.

A-Z sore arm for a day and a splitting headache for two days. ASA resolved it.

M sore arm for three days and a mild headache. ASA resolved it.

P x 2 no appreciable sore arm and no headache.

PBiV - no appreciable sore arm and no headache.

LichbaneLB,

Tfw you call Aspirin ASA.

girlfreddy,
@girlfreddy@mastodon.social avatar

@LichbaneLB @MapleEngineer

ASA stands for acetylsalicylic acid, shortened to aspirin.

Raxiel,

Don’t forget being banned from eating in restaurants where the owners put up “we don’t call 911” signs and Salad isn’t on the menu.

VanillaGorilla,

That sounds like a win to me.

spare_muppet,

It’s probably better for society that she didn’t.

CeeBee,

This is such a paradoxical statement, because if she did get the vaccine willingly, then no one would consider her to be an idiot and thus see no issue with her getting the transplant.

ProvableGecko,

So what you are saying is if you don’t act like an idiot, nobody would perceive you as an idiot? Yes that is generally how society works.

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

It isn’t the choice that I would have made but it was her choice to make.

timespace,

And it’s her choice to live die with.

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

Yes. Every choice we make has consequences. Some bigger than others.

zcd,

Step 2: find out

thecam,
@thecam@lemmy.world avatar

That is sad and discriminatory.

jcit878, (edited )

personally I think its fucking hilarious and just

edit: aw the poor cookers feeling upset their deaths are laughed at?

Draedron,

Choosing to make stupid decision about your health is not a base for crying discrimination

ijeff,
@ijeff@lemdro.id avatar

It’s definitely sad, but not discriminatory. Organ transplant recipients generally need to take a lot of immunosuppressive medications. Getting fully vaccinated is a bare minimum for improving the likelihood of a successful transplant.

freeindv,

It’s absolutely discriminatory.

Daisyifyoudo,

Oh. It absolutely is, lol? 🤡

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

“I declare it!”

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar
Oderus,

Pffft… What do they know?

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

I know, right? They think they’re so smart with their fancy robes and law degrees.

theneverfox,
@theneverfox@pawb.social avatar

Discretion, not discrimination

You can also be denied a transplant for bad hygiene, missing appointments, being too old, or any other reason that makes them think you wouldn’t get the most out of the organ. Not following your doctor’s instructions is definitely going to kill your chances - if you refuse to be vaccines, what happens if you decide maybe you don’t need to take your immunosuppressants? Or you decide you could probably drink a bit just this once, no matter what your doctor said. You can destroy a transplanted organ with one bad decision

A new organ isn’t a right or a privilege, it’s triage. There aren’t enough to go around, so medical ethics dictate you first save people who are dying, but are most likely to be savable - refusing a vaccine is a serious risk factor

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

No, it’s not. Organs are hard to come by and the courts have long held that organ donation networks can choose recipients based on the highest likelihood of success including vaccination status. She chose to die rather than getting a safe, effective vaccine. It was her right to make that choice but, like every choice we make, that choice had consequences.

janNatan,

Organs go to those who follow doctor’s orders. The unvaccinated are not a protected class.

Holyginz,

Sad but not even slightly discriminatory. She made the choice and suffered the consequences.

CrazyEddie041,
CrazyEddie041 avatar

It was discriminatory, just not bigoted. Medical professionals have to be discriminating in who gets organs, because there aren't enough for everyone. They rightfully, necessarily discriminate against people who will not significantly benefit from the organs they have, including against antivaxx morons.

ijeff,
@ijeff@lemdro.id avatar

A bit of a semantics thing but it’s not discrimination because they’re subjecting all organ transplant candidates to the same requirements. Discrimination has a specific meaning in a Canadian legal context.

livus,
livus avatar

You and @Holyginz are just using different meanings of the word from each other.

discriminatory
adjective

  1. Marked by or showing prejudice; biased.

  2. Making distinctions.

Son_of_dad,

There’s all sorts of shots, need meds, treatments you have to keep up with sheet an organ transplant She made it clear that she wasn’t going to follow those directions, making it a waste to give her an organ transplant.

Son_of_dad,

If you can’t even be bothered to get vaccinated, you can’t be trusted to keep up with your treatments and meds required for an organ transplant. If she’s not gonna trust science and doctors, why should they waste their time and a good donor organ on her?

reverendsteveii,

No one is entitled to an organ. She understood the consequences of a choice, and she made her choice.

deadbeef79000,

I don’t think she understood any consequences of any choice ever.

reverendsteveii,

Do I think she really sat down and did the internal cartography we all need in order to grow as people? No. Do I think she was competent enough to understand the concepts of death and 100%? As well as anyone, well enough that I don’t think that it’s reasonable to take the decision making power from her.

deadbeef79000,

I disagree that any decision making power was taken from her.

She was given instructions from a her doctors: get vaccinated if you want a transplant.

She chose to not follow those instructions.

I think her failing was, was that the disinformation she’d internalised some how made her think that the imagined risks of the vaccine were worse than guaranteed death from not getting a transplant.

I suspect she’d had a privileged enough life that the consequences of her making poor decisions like that were minimised: right up until the consequence was significant: death. Even then she failed to make a rational decision.

HedonismB0t, (edited )

There’s a very high likelihood she would have died if their gave her the transplant without her being vaccinated. A transplant is already a huge stress on a body and if you’re not vaccinated, you have a high chance to die from something as simple as the flu or a staph infection, due to all the immunosuppressant meds required.

Edit: Staph not staff 🤦‍♂️

corsicanguppy,

staff infection

Staph infection?

HedonismB0t,

Yeah, that was what I meant. Thanks for catching that.

traveler,

I mean if someone is willing to waste an organ on you, the least you can do is take all the medicine they’re advising you in order to increase your chances to survive.

corsicanguppy,

It only discriminates against people who refuse to take simple basic steps toward self-care.

Stupidity isn’t one on the list under which it’s illegal to discriminate.

Pistcow,

sure owned them

0110010001100010,

I feel super-owned!

tacosplease,

This is how kinks are acquired isn’t it?

Templa,

I can’t understand this. She was fine retaking the childhood vaccines but the one for COVID. What kind of misinformation led her to believe that?

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

It became a matter of political identity. Rejecting Covid, the science, the vaccine, and the reasonable public health measures became more important to them that life itself.

BedSharkPal,

I wonder if the global average IQ went up or down as a result of COVID?

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

Definitely up.

Greg,
@Greg@lemmy.ca avatar

Don’t forget that autism anti vaccine movement was fueled by fairly intelligent well educated people who were tricked by one flawed study. We shouldn’t assume people are stupid if they’re anti vaccines.

nyan,

Actually, it wasn’t a “flawed study”, it was an outright fraud. The doctor responsible lost his medical license, but not quickly enough.

MapleEngineer, (edited )
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

After I got the first dose of a covid vaccine, Astra-Zeneca, I posted on Facebook that I had gotten the vaccine and now have the autism. My friend who is autistic replied and said, “You had the autism before you got the vaccine!”

Oh. Right.

I’m Candian so I’m, OG A-Z M P P Omicron PBiV so far. I had the OG Covid back in December 2019 before it got cool and everyone started doing it.

saigot,

Even mild covid appears to sometimes cause permanent cognitive damage so I doubt it.

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8432319/

Blamemeta, (edited )

Its because its made psuedo-mandatory by the government. If you don’t trust the gov (no one shoule trust the gov), then I can see not trusting the vaccine.

Its a matter of trust, and the government isn’t trustworthy.

Edit: trustful to trustworthy

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

I think you mean trustworthy.

The government is more trustworthy than the people telling you the vaccine is dangerous.

Blamemeta,

Acab

Guns4Gnus,

Well, you are right on this at least. Especially since cops are some of the bigger supporters of anti-vax nonsense, that only care about displays of force over understanding of context.

corsicanguppy,

If you don’t trust the gov (no one shoule trust the gov)

I see you need to vote for trustworthy community-minded types so you can learn to trust the people you appoint to manage consolidated resources.

Blamemeta,

Politicians are all self serving assholes. Best you can do is either vote for the most incompentent or vote for the one that at least panders to you.

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

Pseudo-mandatory = not mandatory.

Contend6248,

You know who’s trustworthy? Dr. Dimpleton69 from this lit Telegram group, he’s legit and a real doctor, not a scam artist at all.

Blamemeta,

Compared to the government? The Doll Chucky is more trustworthy.

rentar42,

The usual primary talking point is that it was developed "too fast", which is of course ignoring a bunch of very important "details". But explaining why that is wrong takes multiple sentences, but shouting out the misrepresentation that pulls people in can be done in a second.

VanillaGorilla,

Remember that us idiots that took the vaccination would die in about half a year? I can't remember my funeral, but I really hope it was beautiful.

Or maybe we didn't die and their bullshit was all made up and by now they could have had a chance to understand that. But that's speculative.

Hyperreality,

BOOO!

MapleEngineer, (edited )
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

I had a discussion with an anti-reality troll on Reddit who insisted that I would be dead within a year of taking the vaccine. He actually did a RemindMe! 1 year. That was more than 2 years ago and I never heard back from him. I wonder if he died?

LEDZeppelin,

Good.

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

I don’t see it that way. She was fed a diet of fear and hate and made an extremely bad choice. Her family is grieving because she made this ridiculous choice.

BalpeenHammer,

You make it sound like she was a helpless child. She was a fully grown woman responsible for her own actions.

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

Yes, but she was a dumb, incredibly gullible adult who was fed a diet of lies by people who didn’t give a shit about her.

BalpeenHammer,

It’s her fault she fell for it.

Oderus,

Exactly. Who feels bad for that idiot who got swindled by scammers? Not me.

Daisyifyoudo,

Sorry. Don’t have time to feel bad for every idiot out there

LEDZeppelin,

If she gave 2 fucks bout her family and how they would feel, she would have got the vaccine and then transplant. She rather chose to be a brainless foot soldier for the people who duped her

corsicanguppy, (edited )

I think we can agree that gullible people were victimized for someone else’s benefit.

But she became irredeemable as well as oppositional. So she wasnt going to get heroics.

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

She died from her own petulance.

Arin,

I don't want medical assistance, but not like that!

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

Willing to be cut open, have an organ removed, and replaced with an organ from a dead person but not willing to have a safe and effective vaccine because it became part of her political identity. I suspect that it was ego that prevented her from accepting the vaccine once she had made up her mind.

Vaggumon,
@Vaggumon@lemm.ee avatar

Bye.

HomebrewHedonist,
@HomebrewHedonist@lemmy.ca avatar

The important thing is that she stuck to her principles. :/

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

I’m sure her family agree.

Halafax,

So you are saying there is a house on the market now?

snoons,
MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

Dark.

tacosplease,

Dank*

Entertainmeonly,

This has real Seinfeld vibes…

Albbi,

Friends literally had an episode like this.

cobra89,

“what’s the rent??”

Tolstoshev,

I would like to subscribe to your newsletter, sir.

InLikeClint,
InLikeClint avatar
Jaysyn,
Jaysyn avatar

Better the organ saved the life of a non-moron.

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

True dat.

DessertStorms,
DessertStorms avatar

Like, fuck anti-vaxxers and OP was the right call, but the thought process behind that sentence along with the choice of words are a really bad take.

nicktron,
nicktron avatar

Oh shut up already.

DessertStorms,
DessertStorms avatar

no, you.

gianni,

Language will evolve naturally over time. But to claim that hoping your children are intelligent/physically healthy is a form of eugenics is absurd. If QAnon was left-leaning, this is the kind of shit they would say.

DessertStorms,
DessertStorms avatar

So you're openly saying you think disabled people are inferior, got it.

gianni,

What I said and what you said are not the same thing.

However, you win the gold medal for mental gymnastics.

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

I believe that that man was made of straw.

It’s funny when the trolls come out to play and no one picks up what they’re putting down.

gianni,

I could definitely see this person being a troll. What’s wild though is that it seems the linked article was written in earnest.

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

I think it’s really funny that no one is taking the bait. All of the responses have been simple, on point, and non-engaging. That’s how you deal with a troll.

Ransom,

Disability studies, disability justice, disability theory, crip theory… lots of keywords for you to start googling. The other poster isn’t wrong: prioritizing intelligence and health in a child is the theory behind the practice of eugenics. Yes, these are strong words… but they’re not wrong.

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

Are you still here flogging this outrage porn? No one is interested.

Ransom,

I am. Disabled people are. People who work with disabled people are. I understand that this topic doesn’t interest you, but that doesn’t mean it’s not fucking important for a lot of us.

snowbell,
@snowbell@beehaw.org avatar

I’m disabled and don’t care at all about whatever you are going on about

Ransom,

Okay.

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

You’re trying to hijack a conversation that has nothing to do with your rage. It doesn’t belong here.

Ransom, (edited )

I think that people who are unvaxed shouldn’t get priority for transplants.

Even so, it’s not inappropriate to call out ableism in any topic. If somebody was racist, or sexist, or discriminatory in any other form, would you say, “Hey, we’re not talking about racism — stop hijacking the conversation”?

EDIT: For everyone else reading this: This is what people do when they feel uncomfortable with being called out. They deflect, refuse to admit they could be wrong, and stop engaging. That’s actually a fairly normal response. It’s hard to admit that, for example, ableist comments can be as harmful as racist comments. It’s okay to stop talking as long as one doesn’t stop thinking.

MapleEngineer,
@MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

We’re done here.

Ransom,

I wonder if you’d be able to take a step backward and consider that the linked article was written in earnest because it reflects a valid way of looking at the world that you may never have considered before. People disagreeing with you may not actually be trolling, but presenting their own valid beliefs. Look up disability studies, disability justice, and/or crip theory.

sndmn,

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  • DessertStorms,
    DessertStorms avatar

    Congratulation - you've let the world know you're a piece of shit bigot!

    Oderus,

    Funny you making that statement and not realizing how it applies to yourself. Talk about a self-own lol.

    Ransom,

    I agree that hoping for an intelligent and physically healthy child definitely reflects an ableist worldview. This is basic disability/crip theory.

    For those who are going to argue: wanting an intelligent child is ableist because it implies that people who are intelligent have more worth than people who are not. It’s assigning the value of a person based on a pretty narrow and Western conceptualization of how people think. A person is valuable not because of their intelligence, but because of their existence — all are equally valuable because they’re people, and everyone is equal. The same goes, believe it or not, for physical disabilities, including health. If you disagree, then you think that not all people are equal, which is problematic, as problematic as hoping that your child is straight, or male, or has blonde hair and blue eyes.

    SaakoPaahtaa,

    That’s retarded. People can want what they want. The implications and conclusion you jump to sre you-problems, not reflective of society.

    snoons,

    no u

    lacarsi,
    @lacarsi@lemmy.ml avatar

    Unfortunately, natural selection.

    MapleEngineer,
    @MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

    I mean…the reality is that 100% of people who get the covid vaccine are going to die after getting the vaccine. Some of them it will be almost 100 years after getting it but they’re all going to die.

    Pegajace,

    The article says she has grandchildren, so her genes are still very much out there. Natural selection only works if it can get to you before you reproduce.

    gentleman,

    @MapleEngineer Herman Caine award

    MapleEngineer,
    @MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar
    BedSharkPal,

    This is a fine wine of schadenfreude!

    MapleEngineer,
    @MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

    I would never wish death on anyone or celebrate anyone’s senseless death and this death was truly senseless. I feel bad for her family.

    argv_minus_one,

    “I’ve never wished a man dead, but I have read some obituaries with great pleasure.”

    MapleEngineer,
    @MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca avatar

    I’ve always taught my kids not to wish death on anyone and not to celebrate anyone’s death. You can think those things but never say them out loud.

    There are a few people alive right now who will draw a smile when I hear that they have passed.

    gentleman,

    @MapleEngineer Interesting that there is a Wikipedia article on it. I have a close relative who was an ER nurse in a deep red state when the pandemic hit. Lots of deniers, refused to mask up, infected all of the caregivers who were overwhelmed with the sick and the dead. They didn’t have enough beds or morgue space. So I have zero sympathy for people who put others at risk. There are a million dead, ironically many of them Trump voters. I give zero fucks for the antivaxers.

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