RickiTarr,
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Growing up in the 80's and 90's, our parents let us out of the house after breakfast, and no one bothered us until dinner. How can I get this as an adult?

mizblueprint,
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@RickiTarr
Mom's famous quote, "don't come home till dark."

MichaelPorter,
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@mizblueprint @RickiTarr Hands up, everyone who’s had a neighbourhood search party out looking for them because they stayed away from the house a little too long? 😄

Yeah, um, 👋

RickiTarr,
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@mizblueprint Stop coming in and out of the house!

dan613,
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@RickiTarr That's what bathrooms are for.

RickiTarr,
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@dan613 LOL

Spiricom,
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@dan613 @RickiTarr Elements of bathrooms.

Adventurer,
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@RickiTarr
I think as an adult we're supposed to request time out alone in our room. Lol

RickiTarr,
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@Adventurer Bahaha I'll start filing the paperwork

mentallyalex, (edited )
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@RickiTarr "youth is wasted on the young," I believe is how the saying goes.

So many expectations placed upon anything and everyone in order to live a "good" life. One must adhere to the establishment, unless one can work around them. Ultra wealthy and 24? It makes absolute sense to allow you to run your father's company. Poor and ranked top in your class? If you were as smart as you think you are, you wouldn't be poor.

Subumbral,
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@RickiTarr My grandmother baked a lot, and if she was baking bread or a cake, you were in or out, preferably out, but no doors opening or slamming 😬

miker,
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@RickiTarr We didn’t know how good we had it! We also bucked naps which we now know are the best!

acroamatis,

@RickiTarr Being independently wealthy manages that, or so I hear.

RickiTarr,
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@acroamatis Oh sweet I'll do that

MikeImBack,
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@RickiTarr drop you off in the middle of the city with no phone or wallet

RickiTarr,
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@MikeImBack I feel like people are missing the point of this lol

noondlyt,
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@RickiTarr Throw your phone on the table and leave with only your house key, $20 in cash, and your strawberry bonne bell lip balm in your pocket.

RickiTarr,
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@noondlyt I want to talk to you guys lol

paul_ipv6,

@RickiTarr

i believe it starts with throwing your phone down a storm drain and running over your computer with a steam roller. ;)

RickiTarr,
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@paul_ipv6 I LOVE THE PHONE PEOPLE

qurlyjoe,
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@RickiTarr
I didn’t realize it was still going on in the 80s and 90s. We boomers all seem to think we were the last generation that did that.

RickiTarr,
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@qurlyjoe To be fair, my parents were pretty neglectful...

qurlyjoe,
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@RickiTarr
It can be a fine line, the difference between neglectful and encouragement to find one’s own way.

qurlyjoe,
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@RickiTarr
There’ve been studies done showing that being in green space has a definite affect on cortisol (major stress-related hormone) levels, seeming to lower the levels. Can be a park, or natural area. Some place where there are trees. Trees are key, apparently. Even a short while can have noticeable affect, and certainly longer is better. Now could be a good time to stay a few days at a national park. It’s off-season so not as many visitors. Lodging is cheaper. Except in ski areas.

Artemis13Athena,

@qurlyjoe @RickiTarr Your comment about being out in nature having a beneficial effect on our cortisol levels is spot on. I can't get to the nature places anymore but I've found that stopping and touching a tree while I'm out walking in my town produces a noticeable calming effect. Sometimes I lean against it with my back and sometimes just a hand. Found it out by accident during a wheezing attack where I had to stop and catch my breath. Now I do it on purpose occasionally.

qurlyjoe,
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Artemis13Athena,

@qurlyjoe @RickiTarr sorry but my eyes are bad. I only see a peach colored blob there, and can't enlarge it for details. Can you please tell me what it is?

joakimfors,
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@Artemis13Athena A “fist bump” fist

qurlyjoe,
@qurlyjoe@mstdn.social avatar

@joakimfors @Artemis13Athena
Yes, thank you, Joakim.

mydogwrotethis,

@RickiTarr In the eighties and nineties, when some of us were still in our forties, we used to complain about how as kids we used to go outside and stay there until dark, but kids now huddle around the TV and their phones and demand snacks.

RickiTarr,
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@mydogwrotethis And your parents complained about how you were lazy and listening to the radio and reading comics all the time

mydogwrotethis,

@RickiTarr And Mad Magazine. Merry Christmas Ricki.

RickiTarr,
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@mydogwrotethis Merry Christmas

AirlockDoc,

@RickiTarr Have you met my friend, The Hermit?

RickiTarr,
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@AirlockDoc I don't want to be a hermit, I just want a couple days to do what I want lol

AirlockDoc,

@RickiTarr Oh well then that’s different. Sorry, I am out of ideas then. Wait… get some fake ID’s and run away from home?

sexybenfranklin,
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@RickiTarr independently wealthy or living off the grid

RickiTarr,
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@sexybenfranklin Living off the grid is a ton of work!

bazurk,
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@RickiTarr

oh how I miss those days.

RickiTarr,
@RickiTarr@beige.party avatar

@bazurk The magic of time to do whatever you want.

eljorgeabides,
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@RickiTarr be your own boss!

RickiTarr,
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@eljorgeabides Then I have to work 80 hours a week lol

eljorgeabides,
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@RickiTarr not if you're a bad boss

RickiTarr,
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cpsask,
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@RickiTarr Buy an old school watch and ditch the wearable. Then turn off notifications on all apps. Then do your thing!

RickiTarr,
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@cpsask Okay but real life people, how about them lol

Selena,
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@RickiTarr @cpsask
I think some company is working on an invisibility cloak. 🤞🤞🤞

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