Mrfunkedude,
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Just so you're aware, if you think that using a CW will lower your engagement, I can honestly tell you, as someone who uses CW's frequently, that I've never noticed a difference.

So use CW's. When you write a post, ask yourself if someone who may be struggling with something like food, drugs, weight loss, abuse, might need a warning first? It's a simple gesture of kindness and costs you nothing.

Let's help keep the Fedi for everyone.

NotThe,
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kel,
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@Mrfunkedude

I agree except for food!

I got caught between two requests:

  1. people sensitive to food needing CW

  2. People recovering from eating disorders needing food to be normalised i.e. not CW

Compromise:

I always tag # Food

That way both groups are happy because a content filter for the Food tag is trivial.

Open to better suggestions but so far none are forthcoming.

Mrfunkedude,
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@kel I find this interesting. I have had people thank me for putting food behind a CW but I've never had anyone tell me that putting it behind a CW affected them in any way. And I've been doing it for a long time.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that what you're saying isn't true or doesn't have merit, but I'd be interested to hear how you came to this realization? Have people who are recovering from food disorders expressed this to you?

Again, not an accusation. Just curiosity.

kel,
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@Mrfunkedude

It was a direct request.

I've stuck with it since and not had any complaints about my food posts since either.

If someone is sensitive to food, it seems reasonable for them to have a filter for the tag food.

Mrfunkedude,
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@kel Thank you for taking the time to reply.

I'm going to consider this perspective more. I appreciate it.

kel,
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@Mrfunkedude

Cool, no worries.

For myself, I have no choice, I can't knowingly hurt someones recovery, or make it more difficult for them and I don't want to upset anyone who is sensitive either.

I am willing to add CW or tag, same amount of work, makes no difference to me, the tag/filter approach works just as well and works for both groups, CW only works for one group. QED.

If there is a better way that makes it better for everyone, I am all ears, but it's been about a year now iirc.

🙏

Mrfunkedude,
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@kel solid argument.

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