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atomicpoet

@atomicpoet@atomicpoet.org

Putting the sauce in awesome! This is my own self-hosted single-user Akkoma + Mangane server.

I primarily talk about the Fediverse, movies, books, photography, video games, music, working out, and general geekiness.

I’m a proud husband and father.

This profile is from a federated server and may be incomplete. Browse more on the original instance.

atomicpoet, to random
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Straight men who disavow all femininity, what is up with that?

If you supposedly love women, then you should love femininity—and how it’s expressed.

atomicpoet,
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It’s very odd to me when straight guys say stuff like, “I would never walk into a woman’s clothing store!”

What? Why would you never walk into a woman’s clothing store?

I go into women’s clothing stores all the time. And when I’m there, I choose the dress. And when my wife wears the dress, I love it.

There’s nothing more awesome than that.

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I also don’t get straight men who loathe women’s sports. What’s up with that?

You get to see women at the very peak of fitness do amazing feats. That’s seriously great!

How lucky are we to see these athletes? I love seeing Naomi Osaka hit a tennis ball!

atomicpoet,
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@garrettw Whenever people say they’re playing devil’s advocate, it’s because they’re too cowardly to express their real opinions.

But I’ll humour you.

An elite male athlete on PEDs will always destroy an elite male athlete not on PEDs. And yet we still ban athletes on PEDs even though they’re “better” and “fitter” than men who are not on PEDs.

As well, elite women on PEDs can often perform at the same level as elite men who are not on PEDs. But again, we ban PEDs.

Women athletes obviously have a hormonal disadvantage compared to men in many (but not all) sports, but that’s what makes it all the more interesting when a woman performs incredible feats of athleticism.

Also, even male athletes perform according to limits. In combat sports, weight classes exist for a reason. Of course Tyson Fury could beat up a Floyd Mayweather, but Floyd Mayweather is still the best boxer of all time.

atomicpoet,
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Someone said women’s sports isn’t exciting.

Watch Simone Biles do a triple double and tell me that’s not exciting.

I can’t do a triple double. I’ve never even done a flip in my life. And I don’t think most people have.

https://youtu.be/2fdp8SVOSF4

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This is supposedly the “straight” flag. And I hate it.

Not only is it boring, it seems oppressive. Whoever designed this flag must love prisons. In fact, if someone wore this flag, I’d think it was a prison uniform.

I’m a masculine person who’s only ever been in relationships with feminine people. I don’t want this flag representing me.

atomicpoet,
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@kainoa Well, that explains a lot because it seems entirely reactionary, as if someone said, “Let’s do the opposite of the LGBTQ+ flag” and left it at that. There’s nothing nice about this flag. I don’t imagine it fills anyone with joy. It’s awful.

atomicpoet,
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@ArtBear @kainoa Bar codes are at least fun and interesting. You can scan them. When I was a kid, I used to play a game called Barcode Battler with them.

Even barcodes are better than this flag.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barcode_Battler

atomicpoet,
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I bet you that no woman was ever consulted in the making of that silly “straight” flag because how many straight women—who likely make up a substantial portion of the straight demographic—would ever want to carry around that flag?

atomicpoet,
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@ch0ccyra1n That looks like one of those crafts I did as a child where I would fold paper and cut into shapes of people.

Also, only trash flags have hashtags in them.

atomicpoet, to random
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My day has officially been made.

I was walking by myself when an elderly man in a wheelchair yelled out, “You are strong!”

I thanked the fellow.

No one has ever called me strong before.

atomicpoet, to random
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Whenever I watch pro baseball, I’m impressed by the names of the white baseball players. It’s often something like “Orenby Hackenschmittydoodle” or “Zephyr Wootentabby III”.

atomicpoet,
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The sports name I was always impressed with was “Larry Bird”. How much more of a basketball name can you have?

The man even looked like a bird. He wasn’t much of a jumper, but come on. If you’re playing basketball, you pretty much want to be a big giant bird anyway.

atomicpoet, (edited ) to fediverse
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I’ve been around for a few migrations to the . They follow similar patterns.

First, some Big Social service does something bad, something so egregious it pisses off a vocal set of people on Big Social.

A bunch of people on Big Social realize they don’t want to be beholden to some company trying to get rich off their work, so they look for an alternative. They land on the Fediverse because it’s the one space that is resistant to centralized control. They want something specific: social media that is decentralized. This first group of migrants tends to be the most enthusiastic.

The next group of people who migrate don’t care as much about centralization or decentralization. But they like the first group, and they generally want to be supportive so they take the step of migrating.

After that comes a group motivated by FOMO. They see something happening, want to be part of it, and go where they perceive the crowd is going. They like the high of a mass movement happening, and love participating in something bigger than themselves. This group is very influential, as they generate hype and a sense that the Fediverse is “the hotness”.

Thereafter comes influencers, usually people who are influential on other platforms and want to go where they believe the audience is going. But not always. Some of them are wannabe influencers with dreams of grandeur, and want to be “first” at a space they perceive is in its infancy.

What’s next? Journalists. And to be specific, I’m not talking about journalists who are already active on the Fediverse, but those who come in cold, are already overworked, and are probably bitter about visiting what they perceive to be a convoluted nerd “site”. They don’t understand what’s going on, but they were given an assignment from their editor, and so they have to write something – anything – to explain it (what they perceive to be it) to the masses.

Finally, there’s the “mainstream”. These are people who read something in Android Authority or the New Yorker or the Washington Post, have minimal curiosity, and try registering an account. They give what they initially think is a “site” a glance, just so they can say they’re in the know. They now know what the big deal is, or think they do.

Most of these migrants won’t be here for the long term. And some of them might even become detractors, angry that the Fediverse doesn’t work like “everything else”. And that’s okay. The Fediverse can’t be all things to all people – yet.

However, there will also be some who stay because they realize there’s something about the Fediverse that speaks to them. These people become incredibly active, big evangelists for the Fediverse, telling people they know about its benefits.

Each migration builds the network effect of the Fediverse. Each migration builds awareness.

And more importantly, each migration builds further upon what is possible with the Fediverse.

atomicpoet,
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Since October 2022, there’s actually been three migrations to the :

1- The migration to . Most people know about this one, since it’s been the biggest migration to the Fediverse so far. This doubled the size of the Fediverse and quadrupled the MAUs.

2- The migration to (and forks). This one happened between January-April 2023. Fewer people know about this one because it was pretty much exclusive to Japanese speakers. But that migration resulted in most of the content that’s being presently generated on the Fediverse.

3- The migration to /. This one is ongoing, and is responsible now for causing group actors to go mainstream. Nevertheless, we don’t know what the final effect will be.

atomicpoet,
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If I were devs of , , , , , etc., I would be watching all closely and taking notes.

These migrations often happen suddenly and unpredictably.

atomicpoet, to random
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If you’re here for conversations about the Fediverse, please don’t follow this account (@atomicpoet). Instead follow my other account, @atomicpoet.

This account is for personal interests. I talk about workouts, video games, music, that kind of thing.

Occasionally, I use it as a back-up for the work account—which I’ve been doing for the past two weeks. However, that is temporary, and I plan on using the other account more often eventually.

evan, (edited ) to random
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"Google should have a software service in the Fediverse."

atomicpoet,
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@evan I agree provided there is account migration implemented to and from other services.

Also, Google better commit to running this as a service because we know full well about the Google Graveyard.

atomicpoet, to kbin
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The mobile web app is better than ’s mobile web app.

Not hard to do since Reddit hates it when you use their mobile web app. But still—this is one thing in Kbin’s favour.

evan, to random
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Who's the epic Python hacker who's going to fork the Jaiku codebase and put it on the Fediverse?

https://code.google.com/archive/p/jaikuengine/

atomicpoet,
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@evan @railmeat I remember Jaiku. I didn’t realize federation existed there.

Also, remember Pownce?

atomicpoet, to reddit
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Android Authority doesn’t get it.

Compared to , sucks. And so does . We all know that.

The isn’t about any app being better than Reddit. It’s about a company that’s grown on the backs of volunteer labour now claiming ownership of that labour.

Reddit didn’t write those posts, draw those illustrations, make those videos. We did.

And Reddit sure as hell didn’t create those communities, nurture them, and moderate them. We did.

I agree with tech writers who say that the average person just “wants their memes”. But Reddit never made those memes. We did.

Content might be king. But who makes content? We do.

I have no doubt that the average person just wants content. But while we might be providing content for free, we’re not dancing monkeys. Who decides why content is made, how it’s made, and where it exists? We do.

The Fediverse doesn’t exist merely as an engine for content. It exists so that people can share what they love.

Why are people coming to the Fediverse specifically? Because we rightfully see ActivityPub as insurance for our content – which, again, is made by and for us.

Not Reddit. Not Big Social. Us.

If I’m giving my content away for free, then so long as it is federated, no one company can own it – putting up gates, demanding payment for my work. Instead, my work is out there, living on 24,000 nodes that presently exist.

Android Authority might dismiss this as “suffering the same fate” – what fate they perceive, I don’t know. But to me, the true “suffering” is when a company like Reddit claims ownership of my work, locking 3rd party developers out from API access.

For this reason, I’m locking Reddit out from my work.

Perhaps the author of this post, Dhruv Bhutani, doesn’t consider that he’s writing for a, well, blog. And that this blog exists on its own domain, with its own design, as its own property. He could have written this entire post on Reddit, but he didn’t.

Why? I suspect it’s because he believes his work has value, and Reddit simply doesn’t give him what he believes is his worth.

Same deal with me. I’m not looking to get paid for my work on Reddit. I do it for fun – always have. But if I’m doing something for fun, it’s still going to be on my terms.

Not all of us creatives are willing to be a cog in Big Social’s machine. That’s why I’m here on the Fediverse right now. I don’t give a damn whether the average person just wants memes. I create for me.

So yeah, Lemmy and Kbin suck. I can live with that – they will both improve. And I have no doubt that, with time, they might prove to be better than Reddit.

But this isn’t about how good Lemmy or Kbin are. Nor is this about the insatiable appetite for memes.

This is about my need to create on my terms – and I’m not alone here.

Decentralization is the killer feature here.

https://www.androidauthority.com/reddit-alternatives-lemmy-3335429/

@fediversenews

atomicpoet,
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@dans_root How do you measure success?

atomicpoet, to random
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Just finished a binge of Paul Anka tunes.

That guy has class.

atomicpoet, to random
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I took 5mL of CBD oil.

It’s not psychoactive. But I do feel incredibly calm and relaxed as well as clear-headed too.

atomicpoet,
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@princelysum I’m in Canada. No prescription needed.

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