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RickiTarr, to random
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Have y'all ever had someone act like you were hurting them somehow by just liking a food?

Any time I buy or make kimchi, my Mom says it's so gross and she doesn't want any and just on and on. I never offer it to her, or make group food with it, but for some reason she seems offended by it, and I don't know why.

gwcoffey,
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@RickiTarr I’ve definitely seen this. I get the sense that sometimes people who identify as “not picky” react this way because they feel self conscious about it even though nobody is judging them.

seachanger, to random
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I asked my small biz customers to pay by check or e-check and many actually have! I have to invoice them separately so it’s tedious but the real ones are down. well, the real ones plus the lady from Texas who told me she was happy to start getting in the habit of paying for things by check due to the 15 minute city people eventually using credit cards to shut down commerce from longer distances 🤗

gwcoffey,
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@seachanger Hey thanks for the link! Ordered!

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  • gwcoffey,
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    @collin My knowledge here is super dated but have you looked at Vimeo?

    RickiTarr, to random
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    gwcoffey,
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    @RickiTarr You’re such a tease. “I’ve never seen such happy cows”. But not a single picture of a happy cow.

    RickiTarr, to random
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    Okay, since I'm on laundry today, a little story.

    When hubs and I first got married, we were very much enjoying our little Honeymoon Bubble, and we were being lazy as Hell. We didn't do many chores, but the laundry we really let go. We weren't wearing many clothes at home anyway, so why bother. Anyhow, after weeks we finally reached the swimming suit bottoms situation, and decided it was time. It was loads and loads of laundry that needed done, so I had my husband back the trunk of the car up to a window of the house, then he popped the trunk, and I started tossing laundry out of the window into the trunk. We went to the bank, got about $30 bucks in quarters, and found the emptiest laundry mat we could, and did it all in one fell swoop. We folded it all and loaded it back into the car using those wheeled laundry carts. We never let it get that bad again, and decided it was time to be adults, and do regular chores, but it still makes me laugh imagining what the neighbors and the laundry attendant thought.

    Feel free to share your own laundry story, if you feel like it, I love hearing people's stories!

    gwcoffey,
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    @RickiTarr There was a period when my family was very busy with me working, my wife in school, and my kids in the throes of teenage.

    Even though I had a washer and dryer at home I started going to the laundromat just because I could wash, dry, fold, and load a week of laundry for a family of four in 90 minutes start to finish.

    I'm such a laundromat fan. Just walls and walls of washers, and miles and miles of folding tables.

    RickiTarr, to random
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    I'm going to ramble a bit, but it will hopefully come around to something. When I was growing up, I read a lot of older historical book series, a big one would be the Little House On The Prairie series. While I really enjoyed it, there are some very obviously negative portrayals of Native Americans and African Americans. I remember being angry about it as a kid, and my Dad telling me, that part of learning about history is that we have to acknowledge the people we were, and still are. But because Little House on the Prairie is only semi-autobiographical, I still have mixed feelings about this. I do think they are well written books by a female author, an interesting perspective on early American life, and as an adult I can see and acknowledge the issues with the text. If we try to get rid of every author with racist ideas there wouldn't be much left to read from the 20th Century, and it also feels like being dishonest about who we are. So, I'm very mixed, how do you all feel about it? Do you think children can handle books with racial issues like this if it's explained to them? What is our responsibility here?

    gwcoffey,
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    @RickiTarr Not about children per se but you might enjoy the book The Great White Bard by Farah Karim-Cooper. She grapples with this question as it relates to Shakespeare.

    RickiTarr, to random
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    You are going to make love to a Cereal Mascot, who do you choose?

    I'm going Snap, Crackle, & Pop.

    gwcoffey,
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    @RickiTarr Is Wilford Brimley taken? Swoon…

    paninid, to random
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    is a learned skill.

    gwcoffey,
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    @paninid I feel like there’s a valid corollary here: Some people don’t speak with the intent to be understood, they speak with the intent to elicit a response.

    Which is to say seeking to understand and not responding can be acts of rebellion.

    RickiTarr, to random
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    But...but that's a female lion...so...

    gwcoffey,
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    @RickiTarr I know this is a way out there thing to say but I don’t think a lion eating is an unethical act. So I’m scratching my head at the comparison here.

    paninid, to random
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    People who advocate for “revolution” seem to suffer from that they are rarely bloodless.

    gwcoffey,
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    @paninid Very true. And also that the outcomes are as deeply unknown as it gets. Revolution is roulette where the barrel is aimed at the next 100 years.

    paninid, to Parenting
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    It turns out there are a lot more people who have violence in their hearts than you think.

    That is the detail I’ll always struggle to rationally explain to my kids.

    gwcoffey,
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    @paninid I sometimes have to remind myself that violence meant survival for most hominids for a million years and then like a thousand years ago we started to sort of feel like maybe we shouldn’t.

    In fact just the other day I was thinking about how ill-adapted I am to survival in harsh conditions and how well adapted I am to survival in the modern socio-economy and how not all asteroids fall from the sky.

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